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I am trying to analyze the whole Mani track or Insecurity Track. IMHO this track is not finished yet and has been pushed ahead to give way to Ruhi angle with Shagun Marriage Drama.
Firstly when Mani entered Raman just got jealous that another guy is getting more importance over him from Ishita's side.
Most of us were really confused as to where this track is heading to? Is it trying to solve Ishra's problems or complicate things more. Its ok to not show the final outcome of the track in the first episode itself when it started, but the way things are going and especially the way Ishra have kept aside serious issues of Physical abuse and emotional Trauma aside and went about going their daily routine in yesterday's episode it was really weird.
Any rational person in Raman's place irrespective of the baggage that they came with would have doubted Ishita's intentions cause he saw Ishita in the 8 month old marriage and she never was like this - calling non stop any of her Best friends, calling them for help in the night, lying about calling them etc.
While Ishita's intentions were always right, her actions (lying and her constant need to involve none of the family members in Bhalla family problems) were not really justified.
The Main problem with Raman's insecurity was he didnt confront Ishita and Mani in the beginning itself openly and went on assuming things on his part.
Similarly Ishita failed to use her woman's instinct and putting things together about what is ailing Raman.
During this track on one hand we saw an Ishita confess to Mani that she is liking to force this jealousy on Raman so that one day he will blurt out truth that he loves her.
On other, we saw a Raman trying to hurt her purposefully by taking Shagun's name in the party and also force her to accept him as her husband while he manhandled her.
It was all a game of actions and reactions. Raman saw Ishita saying ILY and took it to be true. Ishita saw Raman taking Shagun's name and thought that Raman is still thinking about his Past, present doesn't matter.
While we all know that both love each other , both are equally at fault at handling their insecurities and selfish in thinking form their POV's only. Raman is thinking only about his hurt and Ishita is thinking only about her hurt.
Firstly Love cannot be forced nor through jealousy nor by Physically demanding, Love happens and understanding is the most important factor in Love.
I find Raman a Man of less words more action in love and Ishita woman of more words and less action š in LOVE.
Here is where the problem lies. Raman doesn't expresses his love well in words, Ishita doesn't expresses her love by actions. Hence these two are as different as chalk and cheese.
Raman will put up a nameplate but when it comes to talk with Ishita - he will talk Rudely or most of the times Mock Ishita.
Ishita will try to talk about matters related to his family etc but when it comes to saving some post of his or solving some family member problem will not say directly that I did this for u or lets do it together.
Obviously both think that it should be naturally understood to the other person but sometimes in Love this is what u need to do Talk and show ur actions then only the other person can understand ur intentions.
Now all of us were expecting that they will have a heart to heart TALK (which has become almost elusive now after the Hug š) in yesterday's episode we got confusing scenes like Raman understanding in one day the whole Mannisha thing and Ishita asking about Bracelet.
I think Raman always knew that his Ishita is not wrong in her OTT friendship with Mani, yes he accused her etc but he wanted answers and reactions from her that all I am doing is for U (Raman). The trust that Raman has for Ishita is really commendable. š But Ishita is also responsible for this building of trust as she has been an upright and straightforward person so far. If she truly loved Mani she would have come and told Raman upfront about it rather than going behind his back and having an affair.
When he knew that Ishita was trying to save his position he put 2 -2 together and knew that ishita did all this (lying to him about Mani, Manisha etc) for him. Again CV's showed him repenting his actions and Car scene where he was seen having flashbacks, CV's y do u hate Ishita so much - Could u have not given us mini second scene of what is going on in Ishita's head?
Madam Ishita although doesn't understand her husband is very forgiving by nature. She thought of forgiving his jaanwar acts and going back to her Love. In yesterday's episode we saw her asking him about Bracelet more than asking him about his Janwar act. Jaya (Ehsaas) pointed me out that Bracelet is a metaphor for her Love. SO she was more concerned about her Love than her self respect. Only a person like Ishita can bear taunts and abuse from a Husband. Yes it all sounds Mahaan to us but then there r people like that in real life too who are overly forgiving.
She comes across as selfish and egoistic in Love when she demands her husband to mend his ways ( and become more caring but that is the way she is. N she is trying to do him good, I hope this track too teaches her a lesson that over meddling in other people's lives can cost u badly too. š³
Although the dialogues yesterday looked misplaced somewhere the storyline was kept in tact. But what I really didn't like was the fact that they went from high intense drama to sudden lull, there should have been a scene or two when the Realization part should have been shown that both were trying to understand each other hence the confusion. Their Nok Joks were not required IMHO and that is y the episode fall flat on its face.
I want Raman to apologize for his rude behavior and when Ishita realizes that she caused her Ravan indirect pain then she too should apologize for his hurt. š³
Currently not watching the show but once they have a proper talk will bounce back on it. Please share ur thoughts. š
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