Ishita doubted Trisha, so how is Raman not justified?

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vandana21

@vdna

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Posted: 10 years ago

#21

yes totally agree with you ...and she really shouldn't have mentioned Raman coming on to her in front of Mani ..that was outrageous ..she knows what a decent man Raman is ...and she knows he was terribly hurt ..and now she knows why! ..really if was really a janwar he could have done anything ... and he had ample opportunity to do anything in the 10months of marriage ..I would say he's a saint with regards to his respect for women ...

very sad to see ishu treat him the way she is ...hope CVs fix it ..she really needs to hug him and assure him that she is only his for now and forever!...she can put 2 and 2 together and know now that before the outburst he had cried buckets in the night ..she knows what is bothering him and to act like its his fault is too much...

Originally posted by: bscorp13

yup..now her character is so unrelatable. ..that her fasts...her quips to mani aabout how nice raman is...all seem untrue. ..today I wouldn't even believe she has any love for him...

she wanted to punish him intentionally. ...as a married woman...for me it's painful to watch this...whatever your problems. . You never involve a third person. ..esp a best friend who apparently had a thing for you in the past. ..🤢

and in front of that guy... you accuse your husband of being irresponsible. .drunk..and a beast?...and that he has no right on you. ...and the visual display of holding the friends hand and thanking him..

it's a different story if she really didn't know what was bothering her husband. ..but today she very well knew...and that hand holding was pure intentional hurt?

is this how a wife and a woman in love acts?

I am fine with her fighting and arguing with him in private...but what the hell was this?

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Aisha15

@Aisha15

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Posted: 10 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: bscorp13

yup..now her character is so unrelatable. ..that her fasts...her quips to mani aabout how nice raman is...all seem untrue. ..today I wouldn't even believe she has any love for him...
she wanted to punish him intentionally. ...as a married woman...for me it's painful to watch this...whatever your problems. . You never involve a third person. ..esp a best friend who apparently had a thing for you in the past. ..🤢
and in front of that guy... you accuse your husband of being irresponsible. .drunk..and a beast?...and that he has no right on you. ...and the visual display of holding the friends hand and thanking him..
it's a different story if she really didn't know what was bothering her husband. ..but today she very well knew...and that hand holding was pure intentional hurt?
is this how a wife and a woman in love acts?
I am fine with her fighting and arguing with him in private...but what the hell was this?

Brilliantly said! I am still in shock as to how she can so easily forsake her marriage instead of clearing such a petty misunderstanding. No wife would ever do that no matter how modern or feminist her views are. Today it seemed like she didn't value their marriage at all. If Raman was threatening her physically yesterday, then she was threatening him emotionally today...which I'm my opinion is equally unacceptable.

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Nisha0604

@Nisha0604

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Posted: 10 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: bscorp13

she will have him grovel. ..for all the ehsaan she had done for him...this was just the beginning.
i was losing connect with her since the shagun incident...and today's epi..and the way she treated a man she apparently loves...was just painful. ..and no man deserves this..
raman bhalla is one in a million...pity he ends up with self absorbed women every time...

Your last line was a killer

Well said

In all her nobility its still ALL ABOUT HER is it not

I am stunned

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vandana21

@vdna

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Posted: 10 years ago

#24

Yeah ...she thinks no end of herself ...No one is allowed to lift a finger at her ..hope she realizes her mistake and fixes it ...if it's all going to be a one sided apology from Raman it will totally disgust me ..

Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Oh PB
I was ballistic when he chased her down the stairs

How pathEtic and sad for Raman Bhalla

HE SO WANTS TO PATCH UP

SO BADLY

She treated him like shit today

Arrrghhh

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Nisha0604

@Nisha0604

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Posted: 10 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Aisha15

Brilliantly said! I am still in shock as to how she can so easily forsake her marriage instead of clearing such a petty misunderstanding. No wife would ever do that no matter how modern or feminist her views are. Today it seemed like she didn't value their marriage at all. If Raman was threatening her physically yesterday, then she was threatening him emotionally today...which I'm my opinion is equally unacceptable.

She did didnt she?

Humiliate him emotionally

REJOICING AT HER MERE RAMANS OBVIOUS DISCOMFORT

He made a pass in the bedroom

She went after him on the street

UTTERLY CHEAP

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bscorp13

@bscorp13

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Posted: 10 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Your last line was a killer
Well said
In all her nobility its still ALL ABOUT HER is it not
I am stunned

Yup..but that's exactly the feeling I had when I saw that scene. ..Ishita too is far to self absorbed to give anything to her marriage and relationship. ..she thinks she is a do gooder and perfect and is happy as long as raman also keeps staying in awe of that...how nice she is. .how much she has done for him and his family...

even though she told mani she didn't want credit...but that's exactly what hurt her. .raman not giving credit for her ehsaan..her sindoor scene fb..was also not about a giving love...but a one where he thanks her for her ehsaan ...it is a getting love too...she is selfless for the world...but self absorbed when it comes to her husband...

shagun wanted power , money...and people to praise her beauty...Ishita obsesses over righteousness...and wants people to adore her for her care giving acts...dunno where raman features in all this.

what a butchering of a ishita iyer/ishita bhalla that I once adored...

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vandana21

@vdna

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Posted: 10 years ago

#27

Yea, and calling Mani home for coffee was disgusting ...she just wanted to rub it on raman's face ..very mean ..and to think that she was quite the opposite a while ago ..remember when raman and ishu were talking about first love and ishu mentiond how hard it is to forget ..raman thought she still loves subbu and he casually mentioned it to her ..and she made it so clear that "he was out of her system" ... well she had sense then ..now CVs totally ruined her character ..All marriages have insecurities...in fact all non-blood relations are bound to have insecurities ..and not understanding that makes it such a disaster ..

dunno why CVs changed ishita's character so much!

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

She did didnt she?

Humiliate him emotionally

REJOICING AT HER MERE RAMANS OBVIOUS DISCOMFORT

He made a pass in the bedroom

She went after him on the street

UTTERLY CHEAP

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Panthera

@Panthera

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Posted: 10 years ago

#28

TM makes a VERY valid point here!!😆 But heck writers of indian soaps don't think through their characters that deeply or keep them that constant!! And yes it is a shame that its shoddy.

10 or so days ago puttar was petrified of "nagin se chumma le na" kitna self talking kar ke hosla badana pada tha😆 But last night he was ready for rape...errr I mean action so what if biwi was saying no and he couldn't even stand up properly.

Its a jealousy track..how else were they going to do it? The mani mani is ott but then so is a lot of other stuff in all indian serials. Buuttt one thing on this forum...🤔 WHY is it that even valid points such as this in this forum turn into a ishita b*tchingfest...well this video encapsulates what I mean about how each and every post ends up sounding...😆

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4_TwMIoyaE[/YOUTUBE]

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bscorp13

@bscorp13

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Posted: 10 years ago

#29

Yup vandana...that ishita bhalla during the subbu track was so relatable. ..raman didn't even have to verbalize...she sensed his uneasiness. ..and immediately went over to his office to talk it out and reassure him...

that woman died for me..in today's scene🤢