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Whatever it is the best thing of today was when Raman was lecturing Mani😉 specially when he said "One second i'm not done !! " and Mani was quiet🤣 Wow, i so wished that Raman would not seriously feel guilty about all this too much as he is right here !! Ishita and Mani's friendship definition is something else , i means c'mon how can a best friend be more important than a husband!!!
Ok i agree that yesterday episode Raman behavior cannot be justified , he manhandles Ishita , his talks there also had a great meaning his actions and tone were only the wrong things there!! Raman speaks sense , atleast he is not dumb!! Ishita way of handling Raman and the situation yesterday was good but today was it good , she clearly degrade her husband infront of Mani!! She can't see the pain of Raman at all , yesterday the way Raman misbehaves with her was his outburst , i'm not justifying him ,but after yesterday today Raman realised that he did wrong to her , he was even searching for her , he loves her even in his anger it can be seen but Ishita is getting too much with her Mani chant!! If Raman would have being roaming around with Shagun and contacting Shagun or let Shagun any other girl how would Ishita reacts !! Ishita wants to be trusted but clearly she too she fails to give the same level of trust !!
She wants to be understood in each and every situation without giving any explanation but then she herself she doesn't want to understand Raman , his point of view, his actions nothing Ishita has never try to her husband , her priority is other family member , she does try to solve everyone life issue but she ignores her husband talks raman has already give her so many signals that he is affected by the too much of attention that she is giving to her best friend but still no effect on Ishita! Did she thought about why Raman reacted so what is bothering him , what is the issue!!
I don't find the reason why should only Raman repent and feel sorry about anything , see the Mani and Ishita scene is being happening even before trying to protect his post now!! Ok suppose this also is acceptable then shouldn't Ishita too feel guilty , how does Raman is having doubt?? Why there is no one instigating him , it's Ishita herself who has being giving him wrong signals with her over friendly best friend !
Love is when we accept someone and love that person with the flaws , it requires no change no complaint nothing , then it's love , then eventually the person himself will feel the need to change himself but here Ishita said she loves Raman but it is really so , she always ignores his good points because of his flaws !! Ishita thinks she is perfect , and she can never do any mistakes the character of Ishita was never like this but now it's all ruin ! Cvs is hell trying to prove that Raman is a bad husband bad human beings!
Trust , one of the major issue between these two!! Raman trusted Shagun but he got ditched Ishita trusted Subbu but she got ditched , Ishita is really over with her past it seems in the way she is with Mani it quite obvious! Raman do have some trust issues still but still he did trust Ishita , he even believe that Ishita can never cheat on him , it was Ishita way of hiding things and giving Mani way too much attention that eventually lead Raman to lose faith and trust from everything which is quite normal for any human being to do!! Ishita too has some trust issues , she doesn't trust Raman fully , (Example Sanjana's case or even when it come to Raman statement that he is over with Shagun , she even doubt on that!!)
Compromise , both kick start a relationship on a basis of compromise , Sirf Ruhi ke liye , then they understand each other , they adjust on different things religions everything , they sacrifices for each other sake , all was beautifully executed when it was on a mere realization stage from compromise to love but Cvs ruin it with their so called planned cupid !!
The worst things about this track will be ending it with only Raman's guilt , i means he is Ishita's husband his actions talks everything proves that , how will someone tolerates his wife with another man and till when !! Ishita was wrong , her ignorant attitude , the way she believe to never clarify anything , no communication nothing, character certificate prove was not asked from her by Raman as such , she just had to atleast clarify once if she did so and even if then Raman did not try to understand then also it could be acceptable but no for Ishita , without communication all should be understood!! IF Raman says sorry Ishita too should as she is equally at fault !!
A relationship is based on understanding , once you understand someone , trust starts to built and then eventually love!! Relationship without any communication is without any trust!!
P.S : It is solely my point of view which can be different from other's point of view sorry if i offended anyone 😳
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