If Raman is JANWAR then Ishita is ...DT NT Pg17. - Page 10

Originally posted by: JUHI.HI

yeh mara vandy ne sixer..👏i dint wana cmnt bt i cudnt resist aftr seein so much of hypocrisy n negativism.. wats up yaar..if girls catagorise a girl characterless just bcz she hugged a man (nt oly ishu..in general) thn its obvious ki india mein ladkiyon ki halaat kabhi nhi sudheregi..its so true tht its a woman who is reponsible fr hr downfall...

though i feel fr raman..i feel fr ishu too..i did undrstnd y he went physical wid hr..bt dis cnt deny d fact dat HE WAS A JANVAR DAT NIGHT...

galat galat hota h chahe usse peeche kitni bhi dard aur takleef chupi huyi ho!!

It's about hotwa fav character raman 😆they can't distinguished between wrong and rights
Note:even my fav character is Raman...
More ishra...

Originally posted by: AroraTanya

Guys..I'm gonna say the BITTER TRUTH only. CVs have mercilessly butchered Ishita's character for last one month. Now they saw viewers no more can relate to female leads, they are bending towards the male lead. But daily soap and that too airing on saas bahu time slot can't afford that. So to balance Ishita's character, they butchered Raman's character just once but it's been so badly that no one is remembering Ishita's stupidity now. Voila...!!! CVs have achieved that they wanted to...😆
The status quo is now regained once again, Ishita is good and Raman is bad...😆

Well said. Some people over here are now suddenly so into FEMINISM 😆😆
CVs certainly redeemed dead Ishita by stooping Raman low...masterstroke.😆

I think We have very unrealistic and hypocritical expectations from Women in our country , Ishita's Character is unreal , I don't think people like Ishita exist.

Hey, 17th century called.. They want their attitude back.. :p

Disgusting mentality is the word for a post like this. If a woman having a male best friend whom she is close to despite being married makes her characterless, then there is nothing more left to say. I feel sorry for the people who possess such sick mentality. This may sound harsh, would you say that for your sister or mother.?

No woman deserves being called characterless for issue as the one that's being complained about..

If we come to the show, Ishita is not even cheating in real for her to be termed as characterless. I am not defending her actions, but her being termed as characterless is just plain sick.! If one really wants to vent their frustrations out, this certainly is not the way. I think the word decency doesn't exist in the forum these days. People tend to use such strong words, just for the sake of venting out their frustrations. Disappointing.

Originally posted by: Panthera

@BOLD😆

I've been saying this since the day Mani was introduced into the show.😆 This forum's state can be attributed to "pait mai dard or sirr peeting" irrespective of how much it is denied.

Its truly shameful that a girl will use/label even a fictional character like this in order to "defend" the dukhi atma of a male fictional character that so many here are channeling/totally identified with...again no matter how much they deny it.
But the sad reality is, it speaks volumes and none of it good for how indoctrinated so many indian girls/women are. It doesn't matter where you take them...sooo many take this appalling attitude with them...raise their kids with the same...kids having daily tutition lessons from watching indian serials showing the same day in day out...no chance mate...their is no chance of this changing this century in india. If India puts the first man/woman on mars...Im sure she will be characterless for smiling at him and living in the same place...she should have taken her family with her!! 😆

Wise words, Panthera. Such wise words! 😃

I don't understand this whole 'innocent' thing going on here. Ishita a strong woman with a stronger willpower. She's not as close to reality as Raman is, sure. But that doesn't mean everything she does should be called an act done out of innocence. She was faced by a crisis and the first person she could think of was Mani. Deal with it. 😳

Originally posted by: Veritas

I think We have very unrealistic and hypocritical expectations from Women in our country , Ishita's Character is unreal , I don't think people like Ishita exist.

people call her Mahaan because she brought Shagun and Param home but Ishita and her whole family is mahan

I would be very Bitter and unhappy in a marriage like this:

1>My Brother in law(read Romi) makes a sleazy mms of my sister(i forgive him and we behave all hunky dory)

2>My other brother in law tries to molest me, at first I am thrown out and then brought back,while my brother in law is thrown out .My sister in law decides to stay back instead of leaving with her loser husband and make life hell for me every opportunity she gets.

3>my original brother in law(read Romi) falsely implicates my dear jeju( bala- don't want to use the word brother in law again) in a case resulting in him losing a job - now he is wrking as tuition teacher even though he is highly qualified(oh by the way my sister is pregnant)

4> my husband's son does a hit and run on my mom, and she is in serious condition for some time( cant go into the details of what Raman did)

5>I try very hard to accept my husband's culture and be an ideal bahu , I don't use the word punjabi to scorn his culture like he calls me a madrasan as an epithet for contempt.

6> Oh yes my husband does a lot for me, but never to my face.

Whenever i think he likes me he scorns me again.

7>I am a mom, a dentist , a very involved and committed daughter and daughter in law and an upstanding member of society.

8>I am always exhausted, because i am trying to make everyone happy and do the right thing but still fall short of everyone's expectation.

9>Every time i go to a party thrown by my husband's friends or business partners, I feel like i am taking part in a pageant with his ex wife.

9> my Childhood Friend comes to town and i feel i can talk to him without being judged, I can let my guard down for a while.I can talk to him about a book i read or something i did, or share gossip about an old school friend.

I try to involve my husband in our group but he doesn't care and treats my friend with bonafide contempt

Now apart from being mahaan I am also character less because my friend happens to be a man.

I cannot justify Raman's actions,there are different ways of dealing with grief and unpleasant situations than getting drunk and abusive :he should try meditation or just go to a retreat for a while.

Yes Ishita could be more prudent because her in laws are conservative but your world view depends on the way you are bought up.

I mean look at Mihika, you need to have a very strong and supportive family to over come a scandal she went through.

I would have left India if it had happened to me

YEESSS! i was waiting for such a post to come up i mean she is the same ishita who objected to trisha hugging her friend cough *HYPOCRITE* cough

Thanks. Much needed post. Raman kare to paap aur Ishita kare to maafi...such a double standard mentality.