Ishita should put herself in Raman's shoes

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Before she starts showing attitude to Raman , she really should think about what she did. She should imagine how she would have felt if a childhood lady friend of Raman came into their life suddenly and if Raman behaved with her the same way she did with Mani ( praising her all the time, spending every spare moment with her and changing her name to some male name in the phone, sharing family matters with her without sharing with anyone else in the family, hugging her etc) . This mess is completely Ishita's fault. She should not be spending that much time with an outsider even if it is close friend. Anybody would be annoyed and suspicious if we spend that much time with same gender friends let alone opposite sex after marriage ( yes marriage is the key here).
She cried her eyes out when Raman went to picnic with Shagun and when she thought Raman had affair with Sanjana. She should know and understand that feeling.
Raman's fault is not to confront her when he saw Manisha name in her phone and I feel he is dealing with it in his own way . Forcing himself on her is kind of OTT and very unlike our RKB. Could have been avoided but I was bowled over their performance so much so that I could not bring myself to watch that scene.
I seriously do not get this guy Mani. He clearly knows what Raman's problem is but he never tries to tell Ishita or even hints to her.
Raman's character is the most complex character and it is the charm of YHM. Writers are doing a pretty good job in keeping it interesting.
And definitely none other than KP could have portrayed it so well. He just added his own spice and flavor to it.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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nw dnt divide urself into ishu's r raman's side...if v continue dis...thy tak the stry in dis way nly...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Raman asked her not to mess up with Romi's issue.
But she herself started it and took the help of her savior Mani..
Poor Raman , he even doesn't know that Ishita had helped him ..
He thanked Shagun to let him down and helped him get stronger .. it was unconventional and right too.. Just because he took Shagun's name.. she got irritated and not wants to see Raman's face..
Then what's the use in doing Mahantaa work.. if u are not able to understand him..????
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shavi2311

nw dnt divide urself into ishu's r raman's side...if v continue dis...thy tak the stry in dis way nly...



I am not taking sides😊. Just not liking Ishita's character in Mani track. EOD it is just a story but these guys are so good can't help but react to them.
Hopefully they will give meaningful ending to this as they did for accident track.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It is different for me.
I can understand Raman's charecter and his actions but not of Ishita.
I justify most of his actions many times but not what he did yesterday.I expected such scene but never felt it is necessary
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I also dont understand this mani character. He clearly knows wots raman's prob but still just dont leave them alone n dont try to tell ishita regarding this.
Ishita was showing so much attitude in the precap as if its all raman's fault.
She is making the situation worse because of her ego, ignorance n stubborness.
Both of them shud talk n clrae the air asap. And pls.send this mani back to turkey.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: geethika

Raman asked her not to mess up with Romi's issue.

But she herself started it and took the help of her savior Mani..
Poor Raman , he even doesn't know that Ishita had helped him ..
He thanked Shagun to let him down and helped him get stronger .. it was unconventional and right too.. Just because he took Shagun's name.. she got irritated and not wants to see Raman's face..
Then what's the use in doing Mahantaa work.. if u are not able to understand him..????


Well said... He NEVER asked her to help him solve ANYTHING. All she has to do is go off to work, and take care of her kid... work because SHE CLAIMED her career is important, not because he ever asked her to bring a paycheck home

YET... she chooses to squander away her time on one nonsensical social service or the other, each time justifying its ALL for MERE Raman... recklessly tramples all over his feelings, and then proceeds to be offended AT HIM👏

Confused much?

This must what a 7:30 bahu must look and feel like😲

Its been ages since I watched the sanskari slot
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: geethika

Raman asked her not to mess up with Romi's issue.

But she herself started it and took the help of her savior Mani..
Poor Raman , he even doesn't know that Ishita had helped him ..
He thanked Shagun to let him down and helped him get stronger .. it was unconventional and right too.. Just because he took Shagun's name.. she got irritated and not wants to see Raman's face..
Then what's the use in doing Mahantaa work.. if u are not able to understand him..????

Point in bold. But she keeps ranting 24x7 abt Mani and his greatness, smartness, calls him his hero - she did it during the Washing M/c repair incident as well. When raman was Arround. Romi did tell her that his Bhai is jelous kisam ke bande.then why does he want him to be irriated. She is irritating and aggravating his anger. Then she is complaining that hse is rude. The precap I really lost it, she is aksing him to stop inspite of he himself wanting to go. that to holding his hand and asking ramn to leave her hand. Its so obivious that Raman will behave the way he behaved last night. They have gone through so much in life and she not letting him to touch her and asking hinm to leave her made him mad last night. of couse Iam not justifying raman's action but the situation is primarly bacuse of both. Yetsreday I think he hinted enough that he is suspecting her. I am really not able to understand Ishitha these days. I know love makes u dumb, but is she so madly i n love with Raman that he is only getting hurt by his acts and not realizing wjhat she is doing
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: iloveyhm

Point in bold. But she keeps ranting 24x7 abt Mani and his greatness, smartness, calls him his hero - she did it during the Washing M/c repair incident as well. When raman was Arround. Romi did tell her that his Bhai is jelous kisam ke bande.then why does he want him to be irriated. She is irritating and aggravating his anger. Then she is complaining that hse is rude. The precap I really lost it, she is aksing him to stop inspite of he himself wanting to go. that to holding his hand and asking ramn to leave her hand. Its so obivious that Raman will behave the way he behaved last night. They have gone through so much in life and she not letting him to touch her and asking hinm to leave her made him mad last night. of couse Iam not justifying raman's action but the situation is primarly bacuse of both. Yetsreday I think he hinted enough that he is suspecting her. I am really not able to understand Ishitha these days. I know love makes u dumb, but is she so madly i n love with Raman that he is only getting hurt by his acts and not realizing wjhat she is doing

Completely agree with you..

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