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Posted: 10 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: vidya.anand

Forget the wife part but any woman would surely think about why a guy who was so good to you and respected you so much is suddenly bad mouthing you and raising finger on ur loose morals. she was not even thinking from that angle.[/DIV]


Dont know Vidya.
From My observation - her relation or status with Raman.

Since beginning she comes to a conclusion very soon on anything related to Raman.

After marriage, it has increased more.
She is so CHILDISH (phew) after marriage when it comes to Raman. If anyone says he loves you then the minute she is happy. If he shouts on her the very next moment, she is back to her "you dont care" mode.
She THINKS less ...her ANALYSIS are less ... she REACTS INSTANTLY more when it is about Raman (read husband)
This is not what she does if it is about any of her family member or others.

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Posted: 10 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: yhm_craze


Jaya remind me who are the leads of the show...Ishra or Mani?


ishita and mani and next SPA jodi is ishani 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: Bruce_L

Dont know Vidya.
From My observation - her relation or status with Raman.

Since beginning she comes to a conclusion very soon on anything related to Raman.

After marriage, it has increased more.
She is so CHILDISH (phew) after marriage when it comes to Raman. If anyone says he loves you then the minute she is happy. If he shouts on her the very next moment, she is back to her "you dont care" mode.
She THINKS less ...her ANALYSIS are less ... she REACTS INSTANTLY more when it is about Raman (read husband)
This is not what she does if it is about any of her family member or others.

Her character swings a lot and I guess CVs do it just to drag the story and pull on this track as much as possible.
I dont have an issue with her fighting or being impatient when with Raman because, all wives are like that...😆
All tend to take more freedom and be themselves with the person who is closest to u...For a wife, her husband is the closest!

the issue is that she is not realizing the reason for husband's sudden change of behavior. Cant she sense how disturbed and tormented he is?

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Posted: 10 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: vidya.anand


Her character swings a lot and I guess CVs do it just to drag the story and pull on this track as much as possible.
I dont have an issue with her fighting or being impatient when with Raman because, all wives are like that...😆
All tend to take more freedom and be themselves with the person who is closest to u...For a wife, her husband is the closest!

the issue is that she is not realizing the reason for husband's sudden change of behavior. Cant she sense how disturbed and tormented he is?

Not sure whether you will like it

Ishu ku Raman's full attention eppavum venum otherwise ava ippadi than behave pannuva.
Raman fault um konjam idhula irrukku. Avalukku romba chellam kudukkuraan. After all his second wife pa.

Purijinda. Cvs ithu dhaan sutthi sutthi kaatrunga

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Posted: 10 years ago
#75

Haven't watched the episode but here are my thoughts after reading the WU and hinges on the last few episodes


  • Ishita - I have mentioned this time and again, that her intentions are right in wanting to solve a problem but her methods are just WRONG. Time and again, she has done what she thinks is right without consulting those who are directly involved - in many ways, I find that disrespectful. Even with the Romi situation, considering its seriousness, she should have informed all the Bhalla's about what had taken place and that Romi was going to support Sarika's child. Her wanting to hide the fact and surprise Raman was just not the way. Somewhere, I feel that Ishita is selfish in her selfless acts and in my opinion, that is why she is yet to figure out what is bothering Raman even after the many hints he has given. Hell, he practically told her and Mani what it was when they found him drunk under the tree. But, Ishita is consumed in her own feelings that she is unable to look beyond them. For her, it's the fact that he doesn't care for her, he hurts her, etc. The day she moves beyond that, will be the day she realizes the huge hand she had in this whole situation.

  • Raman - Here is a man that has been hurt deeply once before and he is now living through the same pain because of his insecurities. Looks like today, he crossed a line (will comment more on that after watching the episode although I was thoroughly disgusted just reading about it - what happened to the Raman who respected women😡) and although this is not the Raman we have come to love, he is definitely the Raman that was introduced in the show. He is back to being the Raman who was harsh, rude and could care less about insulting and hurting someone. How he redeems himself, is yet to be seen but looks like it is going to be a journey that isn't going to end anytime soon.

Edited by ThruMyEyez-Nita - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#76
@ThruMyEyez-Nita...beautiful post! 👏

but the sad part is even at his worst Raman though he hated women he never even thought of disrespecting them in this way...remember how he saved Ishita from goons when he did not even like her! 😭...how could the CVs do this with Raman?
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Posted: 10 years ago
#77
god Vyas i dnt even have anything to talk abt epi..
all i cn say is the epi was distrbing... watching ur fav characters going worst is something that just intolerable ...
Raman's behavior is not justified but we can't lame him fro all...
and Ishita what to say abt her... frankly more then Raman m feeling bad seeing Ishita's character assassination badly by CV's... this is some new Ishita for me... seems like i have never seen her before
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Posted: 10 years ago
#78
dialogues were odd but scene was superb...itna bolne k bad bi ishita is not getting idea tht she should stay away from mani...precap is irritating
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Posted: 10 years ago
#79
Bhallas and Iyers have shifted to new homes. Those look less homey-ish, cosy...
The helplessness and sadness over the loss was well portrayed by Mrs Iyer and Mrs Bhalla.


This misunderstanding is getting tiring. Don't know till when I will be able to watch

They made Raman act animalistic just to give a basis to her anger, to justify Ishita and wake up her self respect as woman...it's disgusting and so disappointing

I liked his dialogues though. Ishita is not innocent, she too has a big hand in current situation. Those dialogues made sense in this context (just didn't like the part where he said he will take the haq that comes with their status)

Raman has by now said more than enough for Ishita to at least ponder and start self introspecting.
But rather than that we again see her involving Mani in family matters *sigh* one would think that the parents should be the ones getting to know that their son is in hospital first but nope here heroine think it wiser to call outsider...

Going by precap nothing can be done, Ishita is lost...seriously after so much has been said, she will still sit on her high horse giving lectures on how he shouldn't point finger at her coz of the despicable way he behaved
For once Mani had the decency to back off but it's ishita who will make him stay

Whole drama is pukeworthy
Edited by Aeryn - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#80

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

I will just say that although Raman was rough and his dialogues were bit mean thankfully he did not loose control and force himself on her otherwise this would have been end of show for me

ya I think he wanted to lay his claim on her n wanted her to accept but not force her.

Ishita I think is self absorbed person who is only interested in seeing things from her side and not from any other angle

Yes she is still thinking only from her POV n refusing to understand raman hopefully we get a good confrontation tomorrow.

It is important that she realises her mistake in fanning the mu

High time.

I guess Raman ishita relation has taken turn for the worse and point of no return

nope don't think so, coz confession n Suhag rat is still to come but ya after that anything can happen 😆

I though agree Raman dialogues were sleazy and ott but I guess natural extension of storm brewing up in him

yes but from Raman's POV he was justified.


Ishita is defiant and is going to add fuel to the fire
Really hope not.


my answers in red 😳

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