Originally posted by ...EhSaas...May i ask question?
Is raman wrong to doubt ishita? No! She's given him reason with her lies and hiding, working to get his post with Mani behind his back...the reasons for her secrecy makes no sense.š¤Ŗ
Is ishita action is right to say that she won't give character certificate to raman? She doesn't want to justify herself but she didn't blink twice before she thought the worst of him when a total stranger off the street told her she had an affair with Raman. How can she claim to love him when she didn't trust him? Without trust love is just a four letter word.š
Who play biggest role here raman insecurity or ishita behaviour? Both, but Ishita knows about Raman's painful past with Shagun and didn't consider his insecurity when she was running around with Mani. She doesn't know Raman overheard her and Mani's silly talks but it was a serious body blow to him...Raman ought to remember not to eavesdrop on part of a conversation. Ishita is not behaving like usually does, she has started lying and hiding things from him, she knows he's jealous and yet she throws gasoline that has fueled the fire in him. I'd say Ishita plays a bigger role for this mess.
Is she liable to answer raman insecurity? Not answer but have a talk to assure him and sort the misconceptions and misunderstandings once and for all.
Is ishita right to lie and hide things from raman just because she was helping raman from mess?
No. LIes have a way of rotting at the root of a marriage. Once doubts creep in the trust goes out the window and it will never be the same again. What was the reason to make this a secret mission is beyond me? Makes no sense to me that she ignores Raman but is running around town to save his post with the man she knows her husband can't stand the sight of...esp. around her, while she can't seem to get by a day without spending hours with Mani or chatting with him on the phone endlessly.