SOO..SOO true..
I feel soo bad for Raman. I mean, Ishita with her jagat maata social service attitude keeps doing all goody-goody things. But that is owing to her attachment to Ruhi, not to Raman. Whereas Raman (however bad his temper), is staunchly loyal to EACH member of his family, no matter who they are. Be it standing up for Ishita, Mihiki (the MMS wala incident), Bala (by giving Romi a piece of his mind), Simmi, Adi, Shagun ..you name it and he has stood up for them. Dude, if words are the only way you measure someone's worth, then Ishita really isnt worth his salt. Raman might be hot-tempered but if he truly cares for someone, he wil do EVERYTHING possible for that person.
If he were insensitive, then he wouldnt have understood that Ishita really wanted to experience a romantic moment in her life, and gone on to dance in the rain with her. Even she was surprised that he understood what she wanted, and how badly.
Show me one guy who will throw an honourable position just to get his wife's dental license back. Tab Ishita rok sakti thi Raman ko, ki nai aapka tareeka accha nai hai. Mani is so suave and charming, he wont even need to fight to get my license back. Sadly, Mani wasnt in the picture that time. And now that he is, WHY does he have a right to tell Raman how to behave and treat his wife. He has the license to openly flirt with Ishita and then have the balls to tell Raman, "shayad tum mere aur Ishu ke rishte se jalte ho." So obvio. Kyun na jale? You are hovering around his wife day in and day out, so tell me, which husband is going to like it.
Ishita is like Sita, doing her duty and giving stupid angeeparikshas to prove her worth. In this age, you need to be like Draupadi. Be a strong woman, be passionate, have your own mind, walk hand in hand with your husband, and fight for him. But I DONT see her doing that for RAMAN. It is always Ruhi, Ruhi, Ruhi. If she didnt try hard enough to make their relationship work, Raman's efforts will bear no result.
I am not saying she didnt try AT ALL. She did. She has been patient with him during the accident and picnic matter. But then Raman's hatred of Shagun is so explicit, that there need not be any doubt regarding Shagun seducing Raman. Raman is the bad guy EVERYWHERE. Even when that Param incident happened, Ishita thought "Raman mujhpe kaise shak kar sakte hain?"
Poor guy, he was collecting proof to catch Param red-handed. In the Adi incident, he became bad. I think its unfair to make a man's sacrifices any less than that of a woman's. Just because Ishita is calm and composed and patient and sweet-talking, doesnt make her an angel. And just because Raman is ill-tempered and hot-headed, doesnt automatically make him a monster.
If Ishita expects Raman to behave like MANI, then that is plain unfair. And in this case, I feel Raman should put his foot down. I mean, its ok if you change a little bit to make yourself likeable by the other person, but you dont need to erase your entire personality just to prove it to someone you love them. If they gotta love you, they gotta love you as you are. If not, then that wasnt love in the first place and then well, Raman would really need someone who can truly understand and accept him.
Shiv Shakti
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