A guy perspective - Page 5

Originally posted by: Colt.Pixy

excellent vyas😎make more post please . that scene is worst you feel 3rd wheel and extra person. not the part of family

Originally posted by: Nichuss

i will tell u my pov as a friend...my friend's husband used to taunt her a lot...she wud always complain to us...and we wud try to show her his pov...that maybe this is what he wants...maybe he didnt mean it this way, just his choice of words were wrong etc etc... our purpose was that no matter what, we are not suppose to judge her husband for her...we shud diffuse the tension n let them only make their life;s decisions...cause its her life and i cannot decide for her, no matter how close she is to my heart (m a girl btw, n a normal girl 😛)

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Well

I find the basic premise wrong

I wouldn't interfere in my best friend life based on perception

Has ishita asked him to help her

Has she told him she is unhappy

Originally posted by: Bul3

</div>thanks for understanding the POV!
<div>Well I think CVs are not trying to show Raman the bad guy or Mani the good guy..The intent is to make Raman realize how less he knows about Ishita..Raman has always been a caring husband but as I read somebody post in the forum Ishra are more like friends than spouses..If they need to move forward in their relationship than first should come the realization that something is missing and does it make a difference that something is missing?

As far as Mani, yes he flirts with Ishita but in a casual jolly manner..he has flirted with her even in front of Raman and that shows that he is just kidding..And Raman has heard Ishita replies to his flirting which are always like I am married, you do not have any copyright on me etc etc.. She also has praised Raman various times to Mani..And Ishita praising Mani for finding Romi drunk was not wrong again..he is the one who found on gate that Romi was drunk and she was having a normal convo with Raman that thankfully pooja was not compromised and Mani found out in time..because otherwise Romi would have entered and raman would not find out about it until its too late..Again there also Mani liked and praised Raman's behaviour..Also I am not anti Ishita or anti Raman but I am also not anti Mani..I feel nobody is wrong in this scenario..and this situation will only be fruitful for Ishra relationship..and I feel if anywhere Mani crosses the line Ishita will be the first to react..

Originally posted by: Nichuss

I dont agree that Ishita has crossed any boundaries ...Is she meeting her friend behind Ramna's back?Is she lying to her husband about her friend?Is she romancing her friend ?

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Nearly all the answers mani gave to doctor were wrong

So cvs were forcefully trying to fit mani in the angle

Originally posted by: -roshnee-

Your friend has to ask for help? Then what's the difference between a friend and a stranger? If that's how all guys think, then I'm happy once again that I'm a girl.

Originally posted by: Tanyaarora11

I don't agree with your post and with due respect, I honestly don't think this can be generalised to a 'guy perspective' though I'm glad you shared your pov.
TRUE, Raman is bound to feel jealous,insecure and dejected. But still that does not give him the right to do anything and everything under the sun.
He is surely not at fault because that is his demeanour, he shouts and gets angry at people he cares for, he has a different way of showcasing his love and Ishita understands all that however, when she is on the hospital bed,How can one expect her to get into fights and stand for him and all that because in her mind, everything is normal, Mani is a friend and Raman is her husband. She trusts him completely and she expects the same from him, beyond a fun jealousy moment, such deep thoughts that she is not happy with Raman and Mani is better and all that doesn't even cross her mind. I understand that once she did compare the two in her thoughts, that I would say was a terrible fault of the CVs. What I can gauge from the current scenario is Raman realisation which is absolutely essential, not because he's been lacking in his care or love, not even because she has felt bereft of the love and care. However, it's time they took a next step and I'm loving the way Cvs are portraying that bit. What I absolutely hate is when they involve mani lusting over Ishita, that is pathetic. But mani being her best friend and knowing everything about her is but natural. Raman is no way at fault, so many husbands don't know about their wives illness, that's justifiable. However, it's time he learned all that. This is just a way for him to take an initiate to know her better, it doesn't mean he was wrong or had been wrong. In the entire scenario, not once did I see Raman in the bad light and honestly speaking I don't think even the Cvs intended to show that. It's realisation, the way Ishita realised she should have handled the Pammi matter better. I agree that was too small a matter! But what the Cvs are trying to show that it's not necessary for the male protagonist to always be so righteous and awesome. He's a flawed character and he has more than one reason to be one. His defence mechanism is to shout at people and we all know that, and I don't even say that he should act indifferent towards her when she's in the hospital. I'm kind of sure, Ishita loves his rudeness as well. Give them some time, the moment she learns about what's going on in his mind, she'll come around and clarify. It's ISHRA after all, we've been super crazy for them, there's a reason for them to have such a sizzling chemistry and writers would never ever want to mess that.
Also, about Mani I think it's absolutely okay for Ishita to be bestfriends with him, what's wrong in that? As long as neither of them showcase lusting for each other. I really don't think she has crossed any boundaries as of now, she never hid the fact from her husband that she's meeting him or never lied to him. Well that star struck behaviour is an inherent trait of hyperness which she possesses, honestly I've been there so I know that. There is absolutely no wrong in two people of opposite sex being friends. Raman is acting like this because of his past, he's insecure and rightly said he has every right to be that because he's endured too much. That's what the writers are playing on ; her oblivion and his insecurity which will eventually commingle and give us a beautiful heartfelt conversation when things get clearer.