A guy perspective - Page 3

Originally posted by: RheaSh

Bang on post. More than Mani, Ishita's behavior disappointed me.

Originally posted by: Bul3

If this is a guy's perspective than guys need to grow up!! I am sorry I in no way want to offend you or anyone but I find this Mani hatred totally overreaction..

</div>Nothing is wrong in Ishita-Mani friendship..Mani has till now not crossed any limits..him knowing Ishita better is not his fault..he being concerned about his best friend is also not wrong..
<div>Ishita praising Mani is nothing out of the world..she sometimes overdo it but it is a way of teasing Raman as well..she goes to dine out with him and friends can hang out together and it does not need to mean anything other than they are friends who enjoy each-other's company..Ishita is not hiding and meeting Mani..She tells everytime Raman when she is going out..infact she has asked him to join along too but he refused plainly..And him butting in when in hospital is totally a wrong statement..he nowhere butted in..he was there and trying to be there in need of a friend..he was not taking place of a husband but only was there as a good concerned friend.. Even when doctor was asking questions about Ishita he chose to reply because Raman had no idea about any of the questions..and even when doctor commented on it he very politely said that he is a childhood friend so he knows these stuff..It was for Raman to realize not for him to feel insulted..

His genuineness is obvious when he asks Raman to stay with Ishita while he goes and brings the file..It is then that he meets Ruhi.. Raman is worried and the only thing in his mind is Ishita so I don't understand why him bringing Ruhi needs to be taken as anything else than a sweet understanding gesture by a friend/family..

I am sorry but Raman's jealousy and the hospital scenes cannot be seen as similar..While his jealousy was to feel possessive about Ishita this is way mature scenario where he needs to acknowledge deeper things and Mani is just being a catalyst in that realization..

-PS-personal opinion and no offence..

Originally posted by: -roshnee-

See you answered the whole problem:
He does things I am supposed to do

Then why don't you? If you did what you were supposed to do, the other guy needn't have to butt in at all. Now you go on blaming him and your wife while deep down you know it's your fault! (You as in typical male mentality, not directed to you personally)

Originally posted by: anjs

i will tell u my pov as a friend...my friend's husband used to taunt her a lot...she wud always complain to us...and we wud try to show her his pov...that maybe this is what he wants...maybe he didnt mean it this way, just his choice of words were wrong etc etc... our purpose was that no matter what, we are not suppose to judge her husband for her...we shud diffuse the tension n let them only make their life;s decisions...cause its her life and i cannot decide for her, no matter how close she is to my heart (m a girl btw, n a normal girl 😛)

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

WORD👏

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

epic post vyas...basic things wht v hv been tryin to say..n tht v understood evn after bein female...but u knw whts the outcome...nywz THANKS for this post yaar😊 esp the boundary party ws BANG ON

Originally posted by: Annthew

Hav been a silent reader for some time now but hav to say👍🏼To u.