Raman's way of treating Ishita

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi, I'm Divya ...just want to share this with you guys...

From past days everyone is just talking about the harsh way Raman treats Ishita ok agree to this Raman has always shout hurt n rudely spoken to Ishita , but he did realise and say sorry too , now u can argue to me that sorry doesn't change anything,so does u all want Ishita to leave Raman and punish him in that way, Raman is the one who lose his loved one in past because of his flaws in past ,..he was caring n lovingly before too but despite al this he lost his love !Ishita is Raman's strength , he loves her but hide his love n care behind his taunt because he is scared to lose her..if they will change Raman 's nature suddenly just for him to get Ishita's love it will be fake as true love is that we accept and love the way the person is!What is Raman's fault ???..that he shout at her and at time remove his frustration on her , in a relationship we shout at the one whom we loved the most and cared about the most! We are free with the one that we love and somewhere we know that the person will not leave us and will understand us , it's human nature ,its not called taking the one we loved granted , its claiming on the one we love !

Raman taunts Ishita everytime ..he say bad things on her mock her ...but whenever anyone else taunt Ishita ..have Raman not defend Ishita??? For instance when Subbu'mom was insulting Ishita , at tht time Raman didn't even have feeling for Ishita like now but stil he did said that Ishita is my wife and he supported his wife!! What have Ishita done since Mani enter the show , just Mani Mani Mani ...and if i'm not mistaken Ishita once told Mihika that don't say anything wrong about Raman?? So she can prevent Mihika from insulting her husband but when her best friend does so , then she will just keep quiet.. wow!!

Ishita is not so good , the only good point for her is that she doesn't shout n scream like Raman does , but the talk she say is equal to Raman's taunt with a difference , she say it in a low tone !Just reverse the situation , if it would hv being Shagun or let's take another girl and Raman would have being with that girl and talk about her endless times , how would Ishita react??? Sanjana's case , Ishita misunderstood Raman , she didn't feel the need to even confront Raman once and just conclude that he is having extramarital affair with her on the basic of no prove is that how much she trusts him??

The best friend thing is getting too much now , seriously he should have give the couple their required space , but no he just interfere between them and even advise Raman😆!! Now to the way that Raman shouts at Ishita it is merely the way any person would have react in that situation...whenever i'm ill and i refused to eat , my parent first reaction has always being shouting at me and then after sometime they calmly n lovingly make me eat , now what should i think that my parent hates me insult me..no because behind that shout it is their care n love hidden and here if Raman shouts at Ishita it is out of his love it was his first reaction..he was insecure to feel that he was losing her ..and Mani didn't give them space , he just came to interfere , he didnt give Raman time , because after shouting at Ishita , Raman would have talk well to her in few time later but he was not given the opportunity!

Ishita has always say she loves her Ravan Kumar , agree to some extend Raman does treat her badly , Raman has many flaws but so does Ishita have na , and from the past days it can being seen that Raman is trying hard to be a good son in law and husband ,but Ishita comparing him to Mani ,this also is great na an this also people will say Raman deserve this treatment , how would it look like if Raman would have compared Ishita to Shagun, Raman would have being the worst husband n villain ever which now also he is no matter what he does 😛but Ishita comparing Raman to Mani tht is justified because Ishita lacked care and attention which she is getting with Mani and Raman has just ill treat her and never done anything good for his wife..wow👏

I believed that if this jealousy track is bring up to make Raman realised Ishita's worth and his love for her then Ishita too should have a reality check ..if she say Raman doesn't understand her she should realised that she also doesn't understand Raman , despite all those actions care sacrifice that Raman did for Ishita despite seeing Raman's reaction when Shagun was brought in his room , still she believed that Raman loves Shagun..This is so not done !!! But here in this forum whatever will be said in Raman's favour , it will be said that its unfair to Ishita and we are being baised towards Raman ..but if its against Raman then it's fair judgement😃

Anyways ..It is merely my point of view , didn't meant to hurt or insult anyone!Sorry if i did so...have a good day everyone!😳
P.s I love Ishita Raman equally and no intention to insult any actors portraying the character , it's all about the way the characters are being portrayed and my pov! and please try to maintain a healthy discussion it's a request😊

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Posted: 10 years ago
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This is the MOST MOST PERFECT UNBIASED POST aftr last nite epi n on loc vid ws out..👏👏👏

Thank u for conveying tht Raman is NOT criminal and Ishu is NOT saint either..😛😉

thts all i wanna say coz rest u hv PERFECTLY WRITTEN ki i dnt feel to add anything else..thanks for this post..😃😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Res. all be back here 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thank u for ur positive post...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

This is the MOST MOST PERFECT UNBIASED POST aftr last nite epi n on loc vid ws out..👏👏👏

Thank u for conveying tht Raman is NOT criminal and Ishu is NOT saint either..😛😉

thts all i wanna say coz rest u hv PERFECTLY WRITTEN ki i dnt feel to add anything else..thanks for this post..😃😃


Yes neither Raman is a criminal nor Ishita is a saint😛 Thank you so much Nikki for ur lovely comment and for making me post this as a topic😳
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Originally posted by: _Dipsi_

Thank u for ur positive post...


Thank you for reading and understanding 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I totally agree with you yaar. Raman is not a bad man. Due to Shagun's betrayal he has put a strong shield around him and not likes to open up with anyone. Trust is the most and the only factor that holds husband and wife relationship. Shagun has broken that and after experiencing such a worst betrayal in life, it will be difficult for anyone to look for a second chance. This is the testing phase for our Raman puttar and he will certainly prove that he is the best choice for Ishita.
Seeing the circumstances, Mani is getting to a conclusion that Raman is not doing good with Ishita. But it is Ishita, who should make Mani understand what all he has done for her.

He is the one even before knowing much about Ishita stood for her during Param fiasco.

This is the same Raman who was dying with guiltiness for not able to speak the truth to Ishita about the real culprit of Amma's accident.

This is the same man who has not once made her low before his ex-wife.

Trust is much more than love in a husband and wife relationship. Just love alone cannot move this relationship to a long journey and Raman has not mistrusted Ishita for once after their marriage.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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some one who have personal contact with sonali jaffar , please send her this link
superb post TM. maintain both characters realism at least. one just does mistakes and reforms for each fault and other gets away for whatever damage is done. that is clearly not fair in realistic story

i want to say something : if man slaps woman, he is called jallad, if woman slaps man, is called jansi ki raani.

Do I make a sense^^


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Wonderful post. Thanks for sharing.
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Originally posted by: malaxmi

I totally agree with you yaar. Raman is not a bad man. Due to Shagun's betrayal he has put a strong shield around him and not likes to open up with anyone. Trust is the most and the only factor that holds husband and wife relationship. Shagun has broken that and after experiencing such a worst betrayal in life, it will be difficult for anyone to look for a second chance. This is the testing phase for our Raman puttar and he will certainly prove that he is the best choice for Ishita.

Seeing the circumstances, Mani is getting to a conclusion that Raman is not doing good with Ishita. But it is Ishita, who should make Mani understand what all he has done for her.

He is the one even before knowing much about Ishita stood for her during Param fiasco.

This is the same Raman who was dying with guiltiness for not able to speak the truth to Ishita about the real culprit of Amma's accident.

This is the same man who has not once made her low before his ex-wife.

Trust is much more than love in a husband and wife relationship. Just love alone cannot move this relationship to a long journey and Raman has not mistrusted Ishita for once after their marriage.


You got it completely , Trust is the most important factor for any relation to work ...Thank you so much for ur comment 👏😳

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