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Posted: 11 years ago
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I feel that as IshRa dont share a normal husband and wife relationship thats making raman insecure of loosing ishita to mani as everyone is impressed by mani and upon that all iyers going ga ga on him so thats common but if they would have shared normal husband and wife relationship then he wouldnt be jealous of mani...though they love each other but are scared of getting rejected again so they are not confessing but this insecurity will lead to gaining ownership on each other and once they get ownership on each other no mani or no sanjana can make the insecure...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks for making this post! I have mentioned something similar in one of my previous post...

I just wish the Cv's had not got this Mani character at all... (But I know it is a TRP wala move so be it)... IshRa realising love on their own without help from other extra terrestrial creatures would have been wonderful story telling...

Instead of Ramu getting jealous they could have showed his fear on seeing his wife once again getting close to a man...I know Mani and Ishu are just friends but a once bitten Raman could undergo a feeling of fear... This would have been correct moment to address his fear... The CV's may decide to take this turn but for me this jealousy thing could have been avoided... There was no real need... This Mani track is getting too cheesy and creepy... Juvenile stuff!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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hoping fr best ..dnt want too streched jealosy track .wanted some maturity
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well dear to ur question of Jealousy 😆 I feel maturity has nothing to do with jealousy, jealousy is just an emotion and can happen at any age of mental level. People r jealous if they see somebody else richer than themselves or more beautiful etc. irrespective of how much they r matured or not.
yes somewhere I agree that CV's r handling this track in a shoddy way maybe they r not clear of how to go about it or maybe lack of supporting actors like Param who has been absent for a very long time now. So suddenly they pushed his track and introduced this Mani track.

I feel whatever it is jealousy or not, but this track is helping realize his feelings and also somewhere both Ishra r asking valid questions to each other like Ishita asked "wud u give second chance to love" Raman asked "Harama rishta kya hai" So basically ya Ishra r progressing in their relationship.

But in this we get to see Ishu doing Mani jaap 24000 times a day which is actually unbearable. n Then Raman taunting Ishu 24x7 that is another I think a bad way of progression. Coz if these two r falling in love n if subconsciously know that they like each other but don't want to accept it but somewhere they will try n do some things for each other.

Like in yesterdays Aarti scene they could have a small soft eye lock all we got to see was a grumpy Raman holding tightly Ishu's hand and laying claim over her and she just confused. So while before Mani we got some soft scenes now the scenes look devoid of any softness or falling in love part. 😳


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I was actually excited for this track - we have always seen a somewhat jealous and insecure Ishita but Raman has never had a reason to be.
But after giving this track a week, I have to say they have completely butchered it. Why...

1. Ishita-Mani's OTT friendship - her initial excitement was fine but it is starting to get really annoying to see the way Ishita is like a teenager in front of her so-called best friend. I expected to see a more mature friendship - the kind where you share your feelings, being able to understand the other person without saying a word - kind of friendship. (Along the lines of Bala and Ishita's relationship)

2. Mani's infatuation for Ishita - why can't a girl and a guy have a platonic relationship??? Bringing a romantic angle into this was just not needed.

3. In a way, rather than bringing Raman's feeling to the fore in a beautiful way - it's turning out to be another barrage of insulting taunts,etc. Maybe in the near future, the story will move forward but at this moment, it looks like it's going to be moving in circles for sometime.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ThruMyEyez-Nita

I was actually excited for this track - we have always seen a somewhat jealous and insecure Ishita but Raman has never had a reason to be.

But after giving this track a week, I have to say they have completely butchered it. Why...

1. Ishita-Mani's OTT friendship - her initial excitement was fine but it is starting to get really annoying to see the way Ishita is like a teenager in front of her so-called best friend. I expected to see a more mature friendship - the kind where you share your feelings, being able to understand the other person without saying a word - kind of friendship. (Along the lines of Bala and Ishita's relationship)

2. Mani's infatuation for Ishita - why can't a girl and a guy have a platonic relationship??? Bringing a romantic angle into this was just not needed.

3. In a way, rather than bringing Raman's feeling to the fore in a beautiful way - it's turning out to be another barrage of insulting taunts,etc. Maybe in the near future, the story will move forward but at this moment, it looks like it's going to be moving in circles for sometime.


So very succinctly written Nita
I am impressed👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It would be interesting if mani did show his feelings of liking ishita more than just friends and ishita put him straight and goes and tells raman what happened which leads them to talk about their relationship. now that will be called handling things mature way.
Edited by momb24 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Im seriously not linking this mani thing now 🥱
Its gone overboard 🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Loveforlife

Thanks for making this post! I have mentioned something similar in one of my previous post...

I just wish the Cv's had not got this Mani character at all... (But I know it is a TRP wala move so be it)... IshRa realising love on their own without help from other extra terrestrial creatures would have been wonderful story telling...

<font size="2">Instead of Ramu getting jealous they could have showed his fear on seeing his wife once again getting close to a man...I know Mani and Ishu are just friends but a once bitten Raman could undergo a feeling of fear... This would have been correct moment to address his fear... The CV's may decide to take this turn but for me this jealousy thing could have been avoided... There was no real need... This Mani track is getting too cheesy and creepy... Juvenile stuff! </font>

completely agree with you, i was always against this jealousy track, it somehow seems to me very immature and cheesy,esp for a couple like ishra, as someone said raman seems to be catering for chauvani type audiences,i missed the old raman bhalla who was was quite, sensible and classy! Also if they wanted to show this track, they could have shown raman being insecured because of his past experience rather than being jealous, actually this track was totally unnecessary when they have other imp tracks.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Jealousy is a human trait present in people of all ages. It can resurface itself at any stage in life being triggered by any situation. As long as it is not harmful to anyone it's ok to be a lik jealous as it keeps the relationship alive. Here we need the relationship to be born fiest. Here jealousy is acting like a spark between the lead couple. As long as it is free from any kind of non pleasant behaviour it's ok.

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