Does mature adults need Jealousy?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Eventhough I find the jealous Raman cute, does Ishita and Raman really need a jealous angle. Aren't they supposed to be mature adults. They are parents, and when you are older and mature you truly understand the essence of a relationship. Jealousy has no place where there is trust and understanding in a relationship. I have always thought Ishra is a couple who really understand and trust each other. The dialogues they were given in the previous tracks and their character and relationship build up just don't fit in with this jealousy. Suddenly I am seeing both of them doing lot of immature, teenage kind of things.

I would have preferred to see a sensible bala who has influence on both of them to be that outside factor which gives that gentle push they both need to overcome their insecurity and making them accept and realize their feelings. I am so not liking Mani's scenes and there is an awful lot of Mani to put up with these days. I would have preferred to see bala-Raman and Bala-ishita over Mani-Ishita any day.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is my thought too. They are mature adults yet we're seeing OTT jealousy track.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree
Thank you for creating this topic
I was glad when the guy appeared
I admit
I was hoping for some mature classy envy track but nope Raman went off spying only to say some extremely insulting things about south indian men then the toilet seat cringe worthy humor -and then the whole upset stomach -more verbal abuse'-stranger pawing wife in the dark routine
They cud have kept it classy
They could have had Raman rival him at work
Bump into Ishita or be invited to dinner and discover its her
Raman and Ishita could have talked about why it should matter to either etc
She in her peach or green kurta on the bench
Around the accident the scenes were so classy. I miss the Raman of the first 5 months
Quiet angry brooding Now he talks like a tapori and plays for the chavanni audience Some humor is so tasteless
I am distressed
Edited by Nisha0604 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think more than Raman, we viewers, are getting jealous on Ishita and Mani's closeness on Raman's behalf and sympathised with him.

I am okay with the jealously track as long it harmless and Raman's jealous face is worth watching 😆 however I do think that Ishita and Mani scenes need to tone it down a bit for instance the way she handled the proposal situation was wrong, it's should been Mani to reject the proposal not Ishita and she spent time with Mani too long when she was supposed to get Raman's medicines. Also she need to draw a line by making it clear to Manj that she is a happily married woman and he should stop or cut down the flirting and be in his limits. Even friends have limits. I am starting to think that Raman is entitled to be jealous since anyone in his situation would. CVs are making Ishita incredibly naive
Edited by CharmGal - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Evn i would prfr ishu-bala nd raman-bala ovr mani scenes...its nt all intrstng...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree with u ..
In beginning I liked it but execution of this track is not good ..
Dont understand what r CVs trying to show or in which direction its going ..they r dragging Mani track ..not liking it much ..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with you... Ishra has suddenly become teenagers from matured people. The maturity, sensitivity which they had earlier has suddenly flown out of the window and now what we see are kids of age 13 or 14 year old, who has fallen in love and are now trying to put their stamp on each other.

I used to love the subtle way Bala used to hint on Ishita about her change in equation with her husband and in-laws. I would have preferred that rather than this annoying Mani track which am sure is not just jealousy but something more sinner and very soap like.
Edited by abhilasha_dream - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post. You bring out a valid point which many are thinking. Its true that Raman and Ishita both are matured but both have a very bitter past and to overcome that past and express their feeling to each other they need a small push. Ishita still thinking that Raman loves Shagun and Raman thinking that Ishita still have a feeling a subbu and i think to make realize each other feelings this jealous track is being introduced. Initially loved it but it is going overboard. CVs are now i think are not handling well.
Edited by venkata - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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jealousy comes in all case. that isvthe last option to realise how the the other person is important to u. it is also a universal fact that no husband can stand another man coming into his wifes life
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thats what exactly i felt when i watched todays episode.

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