Ishita has the habit of interfering in the other's life which has caused problems for Raman and his family in past. In past she went to meet Param, brought him home, brought Shagun home & believed Sanjana and not once she consulted with Raman hence we all criticized her for that. And Raman getting angry and yelling at her was justified.
But now let's review Ashok-Shagun issue
1. When Ishita heard Ashok saying all that she did what any wife would do shared this information with her husband. So is it wrong to share something with your husband which directly affects his son?
2. She told Mihika to not to tell Mihir about this because she would tell Raman and let him handle this because he know the Shagun better and she is directly connected to him as Adi's mother. So unlike before going directly to Shagun she went to Raman instead then what did Ishita do wrong? Wasn't it we all wanted that before doing anything she talk to Raman and let him handle?
3. If Ashok doesn't marry Shagun, it affects Adi, Mihir and Mihika all three she care about. Then how Ishita's getting concerned about it is wrong?
4. This time Ishita didn't get involved directly which is evident by the facts that she asked Raman to handle it according to him, when Mani wanted to meet Raman she refused him as Raman was talking to Shagun regarding this issue, after that she refused to go to Ashok's house to confront him but Raman and Shagun took her with them and lastly when Ashok & Shagun were fighting she said to Raman that it is there personal issue and we should leave from here but Raman stayed. Where do you think that Ishita interfered in anyone's life here?
5. Raman tried to make shagun see the true face of Ashok but failed and Ashok won and he said Adi "his son" all these things made him angry and frustrated. Then at home he yelled at Ishita and even said the he would throw her out of his life. So was it because of his anger & frustration that he failed or his "unconditional love & care" towards Ishita? I think it was all frustration which he took out on Ishita his favorite punching bag other than Mihir & Romi.
6. It's not possible that you like everything about your life partner but does that give you the right to taunt about those fault and yell at your life partner all the time? Isn't as life partner your duty and responsibility to hide or rectify those faults rather than taunting and making him/her understand in a mature & sensible way rather than yelling? So what do you think that is Raman doing everything right as life partner of Ishita?
7. A working independent married women in our Indian society have any kind of self-respect or not? CVs fault or not??
8. If you have realized that you love your husband than does it take away your rights to be angry with your husband if he yells at you unnecessary or doesn't go out with you to your friend's party but he takes you with him to all of his parties? Ishita's fault??
So now what do you think who is wrong Ishita, Raman or CVs?
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