My take on Angry Raman (30th sept)

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Raman, Raman, Raman... Why do you shout so much when your voice is already getting so hoarse?


Anyways, coming to the point.
SCENE ONE : Today Ishita was concerned about what was going on in Shagun's life and decided to share her thoughts with Raman.

Why did she do it in the first place?
1)Because Shagun, as Adi and Ruhi's mother (ishita's own words), doesn't deserve such treatments.
2) Because Shagun, as a Woman, doesn't deserve such treatments.
3) Because Shagun, as a HUMAN BEING, doesn't deserve such treatments.
4) Because Shagun is Mihir's sister and if Ishita cares about Mihir, then she cares about Shagun.
5) Because Shagun is Mihika's Sister in law (soon to be) and if Ishita cares about Mihika, then she cares about shagun.

Caring about Shagun means caring about her relationship with Ashok because Shagun is currently LIVING for her soon to be wedding.
I personally think that Ashok and Shagun deserves each other and deserve the pain they give each other, so i couldn't care less about them, but that's not today's point.

So Ishita heard Ashok talking trash and shared her doubts with Raman.

SCENE TWO : Raman was first not feeling concerned but then figured he had to help the mother of his kids. He decided on his own to do something about it after ishita informed him. It was HIS decision.
1)He tried to make her understand at the coffee shop. They settled for going and confronting ashok right away
2) he assisted (with ishita) to the fight between Ashok and Shagun
By the end of it, he realized that shagun wasn't going to change and he couldn't do anything about that. He left her with her fiance and came back home.

SCENE THREE : Raman is now angry at ishita for meddling into everyone's life, especially Shagun' who is the most stubborn person on earth. He added that he would throw her out of his life if she didn't stop her meddling habit.

Now everyone is wondering two things
- why is Raman angry at Ishita for meddling since HE DECIDED to go and help Shagun?
- why is Raman angry at Ishita for the insult SHAGUN threw at him?

Reading all of this, i understand some people are getting mad at Raman for acting so weird. But the truth is that cv cut out a scene. There is a missing scene between scene TWO and scene THREE ! Let's call it scene TWO AND A HALF. And let's figure what happened
Raman and Ishita come back from Ashok's place.
Raman is quiet but Ishita keeps talking about Ashok and Shagun. Raman tells her to forget about it but Ishita goes on and on about what is right, about what they should do, about what is wrong and what is Shagun to them.
Raman now is angry because Ishita saw just like him that Shagun didn't need their help so they should just let her live her life the way she wants.
Again Ishita continues talking about what she heard from ashok.
Raman gets angry. He says : "Bas, bohot sunliya mene teri baat".
Here starts scene three.

So basically Raman wasn't angry at Ishita for going at Ashok's place because that was his own decision, he was the one who asked Ishita to come with him when they met outside the coffee.
And Raman wasn't angry at her for what had just happened because that was out of Ishita's control. They were both surprised when they saw Ashok-Shagun fight.

Raman is shouting at ishita because she still isn't letting go of the matter. Raman tried to help shagun out but she refused his help AND insulted him so now, she can go to hell . But Ishita being mahaan keeps asking him to find a solution. Raman is fed up with her Mahanta and starts shouting at her.
Yes he did say, "you get out of my life if you don't stop"; It was mean but necessary. Ishita brings HUGE troubles into his life only because she can't stop meddling in people's life. So Raman can either keep her and all the troublse or say bye to both of them. It's a bit radical but we ALL KNOW here that he won't leave her in the end. So we shouldn't take it to heart. He says that to wake her up from her dreamland where she solve everyone's problem, but he doesn't mean it.

Now tell me. Is that really out of context for him to shout at her ? Do you really hate him for doing that? 😲
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Reading all of this, i understand some people are getting mad at Raman for acting so weird. But the truth is that cv cut out a scene. There is a missing scene between scene TWO and scene THREE ! Let's call it scene TWO AND A HALF. And let's figure what happened
Raman and Ishita come back from Ashok's place.
Raman is quiet but Ishita keeps talking about Ashok and Shagun. Raman tells her to forget about it but Ishita goes on and on about what is right, about what they should do, about what is wrong and what is Shagun to them.
Raman now is angry because Ishita saw just like him that Shagun didn't need their help so they should just let her live her life the way she wants.
Again Ishita continues talking about what she heard from ashok.
Raman gets angry. He says : "Bas, bohot sunliya mene teri baat".
Here starts scene three.

I thought the same, the CV's definitely took out the scene right before Raman's outburst which makes Raman look worse. Agreed that he should have rephrased what he meant to say, but Raman being Raman had to be harsh and rude. But my guess, is Raman's reaction was mostly to the scene that you have described above which wasn't shown.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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My answer to your question is yes .Raman was wrong today .No matter what a women doesn't deserve to be treated like this...she hasn't done anything so wrong to deserve such a treatment from him.There are better ways to deal with problems .How come he only does this with Ishita .Is she his punching bag.The day Ishita decides to walk out of this marriage then he will know her worth and I guess it will be too late .
Did Ishita react the same way when he was committing way bigger mistakes during accident track ?


I cannot understand this justification Raman being Raman he was rude...how long will he behave like a jerk ...if he expects people to accept the way he is then he needs do the same...

This guy deserves a women like Shagun who can be demanding ,stubborn ,a shallow person who judges others based on their looks


Edited by yyyy - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yes. he shouldnt have shouted at ishita.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Just because Raman's anger is fine at his place doesn't mean he can say whatever that comes into his mind. Why is it he needs to give such ultimatum and harsh words? He can't explain something calmly. Was Raman not going all cukoo during adi stuff but Ishita kept her patience.
Now want to say Raman is just angry guy that's why, well then Ishita too is just this kind of person. It is same meddling nature that once saved Ruhi's life and this samajsevika who agreed to marry "ruhi ke liye" in first place.

So If Raman is just angry guy hence it's ok for him to say this, then Ishita too is just this person.

CVs are stretching this whole being angry and saying whatever issue.
It just makes this couple so stupid !! Is this same couple who had so many mature talk on the bench? 😕 No matter whatever happens, which woman wants to hear such words?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No matter what its not acceptable to say like that words to her..he is angry and he can't control his anger so he can say anything to her??? This is second time he said to her ...what is the meaning of that..read so many post says that Raman actually doesn't mean whatever he said then why he reacted whatever ishita said ..she too like this only..try to help everyone even a person doesn't want her help.. People will call her mahan lady..but always give justification of Raman's act ..double standards..
@jay_bpm completely agree with u ..which lady take this type of things from her husband!!!!


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Scene 2 and half is an assumption to excuse Raman. Raman has so far shown his anger and uttered rude comments at every oppurtunity.
When he is angry --- he shouts. When he is happy ,he taunts. When she tries talking to him on any serious matter, his first response is to again make fun of situation.

Not acceptable. Am wondering why she takes it. Is it because she is tooo grateful for her marriage and Ruhi?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think we should call a spade a spade...
The CVs are going too far with the nok jhok...so much so that it is hurting viewers...
Hope they understand...such behaviour towards a woman you are in love, seems quite bizarre.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Exactly my views raji...I thought they must have edited the scene and you have put it in words...
Actually the credit goes to the cvs...They wanted the people to bash raman and they are successful now...

Because they have to make everyone sympathetic towards ishitha so that they could easily fit into 7.30 slot...and they have achieved that...

anyway i am sure raman will apologise to ishitha for his shouting...Slowly they are taming our tiger ...

Thats all i can say now...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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ON a lighter note -Every lead actor should say this dialogue to lead actress in their show. because in every other serial it has almost has become the duty/rule of every lead actress to interfere and solves everyones problems with or without their consent...

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