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sang3241

@sang3241

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Posted: 10 years ago

Good Morning Guys,

As the forum is flooded with post regarding yesterdays epi, i thought of sharing my POV,,, I am ardent IshRa/YHM fan and silent reader/follower of this forum, here is my POV.

I felt yesterdays epi was the one of the powerful epi in the entire history of YHM in terms of story. I completly defend charecter of Raman and Ishita and i ddnt feel they were out of charecter or or did mahanta atleast according to me,,,

Ishita

We all know that Ishita has a golden heart, she saved Ruhi and then saved Shagun too, we saw her golden heart but i wanted to tell one of another good qualitym she has a straight heart, yes she is like glass which veri transparent, her past, her actions , she never hides anything except her pain of infertile and breakup with Subbu.Her past is crystal clear to everyine including Raman and when Raman asked about Subbu, she replied honestly about her feelings.As she said in one of this week epis, they are dil se acha people. so plese relate this with her actionof not trusting Raman. Raman was never open about his past to Ishita or to anyone.He hide manythings like accident track, Mihir family etc. Ishita many times asked Raman about this and finally she made a conclusion that Raman knows about Mihir family but dont want to share. About Sanjan, when she had first doubt, she confronted Raman but he ddnt say anything. So as a smart self respectful professional will she go again to Raman regarding Sanjana thing. I ddnt think so... If she asked Raman also, will he say her the truth? No na,, She never hide antything from Raman, think about the Satya Narayana Pooja incident, she told lie to Raman but she only told the truth last, she was not abel to hide simple things, like green dress alteration, car damage from Raman , so she is veri straight person but Raman not,She understood that so she hide thing from Raman. Ishita is smart professional women who needs proofs to belive things and she got her proffs, so she believed Sanjan over Raman and Mihir who never told her truth. Completly justified

Raman

Raman was never open about his past to anybody including Ishita, bUT hIDING mIHIR S FAMILY THING HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH RAMAN, its completly Mihir thing and he chose to hide it.Remember 2 incidents where Raman is asking Mihir to reconsider hsi decision but Mihir kept quiet.I am not going further as we still dont know exact cause of his disownment of his family.Coming back to Raman, i ddnt think its his fault to hide things from Ishita,,,, Compare Raman relationship with Mihir and Ishita, i agree we cant compare but think about Mihir, who chise Raman and was beeing Loyal to Raman, it would be highly shameful if Raman told the thhings to Ishita. Its about trust which Mihir had on Raman and Raman completly truthful to it. Eventhough he loves Ishita, but hiding things from Her is completly justified as Mihir doesnt want to .Its Mihir choice and Raman accepted it

IshRa

Ishita loves Raman , Raman loves Ishita, Raman cares about Ishita and Ishita.Raman is attracted to Ishita and Ishita too si smitten, then what is lacking in their relationship. One single word TRUST.They dont trust each other as a normal couple, do they? I think not, what is the cause of that.Please compare our serailw ith toher similar serials like BI, RR etc they all had confession, consummationa and seperation, we are still struggling for realisation.Think about new serail KKB, where they started the feelings already , for us it took 6 months for a romance, Why so? simply beacuse it s the story of 2 mature individuals which had broken relationships.Its because of their past, they are taking time to move on. Raman and Ishita never had heart to heart talk about their past which is veri much required. Knowing a person is veri important for a relationship but in our case Ishita started knowing Raman but his past is mystery to her.We all knew aboout Shagun and Mihr, and we all wanted that revelation , then what happened now? this is not about Mihir, Mihika, , its about Ramans past and Ishita s understanding of about the same which veri important for their relationship.

I truly belive that, its becaus eof his past,Raman stopped from Kissing in the rain scene, they are attracted but want to wash of the past debrings atleast from Raman side which will hopefully happen though this track,

Sio i competly enjoyed yesterdays episode and looking forward today..

Thanks for coming till now and i am writing this much for the first, please forgive for mistakes,

Thanks a lot for reading my post

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Posted: 10 years ago

very nice post ..amazing ..

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Riya Desai

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Posted: 10 years ago

Loved your post and I agree with everything thing you said👍🏼

Ishita has always been very empathetic towards others. She even doubted Sanjana's story and said "shayad phir koi mujhe buddhu bana raha hai" but then thought of the legitimate proof and believed Sanjana.

Of course this wouldn't have happened if Raman had just told her. But like you said, he too asked Mihir quite a few times to let his secret be known. But this is Mihir's secret and Mihir's wedding. And Raman respected that as any brother would have.

I think they're both right in their own places too. Can't wait for this upcoming epi!

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FieryLioness

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Posted: 10 years ago

i am glad i read this post😊

very beautifully written... i swear i love to read such positive post when whole forum is after one of the character... some times its Raman and sometimes its Ishita...

though i dnt agree to many points

but still for the sake of peace of my mind,

m mostly agree wid u ...

specially i loved whatever u said abt ishRa relation...

as individuals both have flaws and both have qualities... and we fans very much following the human nature we ignore the qualities and point only flaws 😆

khair never mind, hope this track will end up on happy note

bringing IshRa more closer and they might learn they need to trust each other... be it from ishita side to believe others over her hubby or from Raman side to hide things from her ...

Edited by FieryLioness - 10 years ago

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ThruMyEyez-Nita

@ThruMyEyez-Nita

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Posted: 10 years ago

Loved your positivity about the current track and I do agree with most of your points regarding the trust issues between Raman and Ishita.

My problem with Ishita wasn't that she believed Sanjana, but the simple fact that despite being told by Mihir and Raman that they do not know Sanjana and that she isn't Mihir's sister, Ishita kept going on and on without listening and giving it a thought. She even went as far as implicating Raman's affair with Sanjana in front of everyone and how he was at fault, which in my opinion, made things a lot worse. Whatever her trust issues might be with Raman, that isn't something that you bring up in a public event like that, in fact none of it should have been addressed in public, especially on a special day for Mihir and Mihika which is now turned into another family drama with Shagun and PP.

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DiVa

@Dihiva

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Posted: 10 years ago

I completely agree and thank you for this post. I did not feel that Ishita's character was being assassinated in all this because Ishita is like that fromt the beginning. She even married Raman to unite Raman and Ruhi and bring them closer. So, Ishita wanting to unite Mihir and his sister is completely acceptable for me. She has always been that type of a person.. she loves her sisters so much and understands the value of family and couldn't see mihir estranged from his sister. Ishita inviting Sanjana to the function was Mihika's fault in part.. she is not being blamed here because she is not the lead.

And Ishita was tricked into all this. She was always open about everything to Raman. She even asked him if he knew Sanjana. She did not confront him about his affair with Sanjana because she was hurt that he always hid important things from her. And even in yesterday's episode she was pretty straight forward with what she was doing. I do not agree that she should have chosen this occasion but its not her fault completely. THis has nothing to do with how educated she is either. Being the nice person she is, she just believed in Sanjana's story. Poornima also cheated Ishita in a way that she did not even doubt her. This proves that Ishita is not mahaan and infact she is only human who makes mistakes. And the fact that she was angry with Raman was because of her jealousy. I, in fact felt bad for her yesterday.

Raman was also in sync with his characterization as you said. I would love to see Raman faking anger that Ishita did not trust him and believed Sanjana about their affair. He should give her a lecture or silent treatment like she gave him. I would love to see her struggle to talk to him and get accepted back by her Raavan Kumar.

Edited by -Hima- - 10 years ago

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FieryLioness

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Hima-
I completely agree and thank you for this post. I did not feel that Ishita's character was being assassinated in all this because Ishita is like that fromt the beginning. She even married Raman to unite Raman and Ruhi and bring them closer. So, Ishita wanting to unite Mihir and his sister is completely acceptable for me. She has always been that type of a person.. she loves her sisters so much and understands the value of family and couldn't see mihir estranged from his sister. Ishita inviting Sanjana to the function was Mihika's fault in part.. she is not being blamed here because she is not the lead.

And Ishita was tricked into all this. She was always open about everything to Raman. She even asked him if he knew Sanjana. She did not confront him about his affair with Sanjana because she was hurt that he always hid important things from her. And even in yesterday's episode she was pretty straight forward with what she was doing. I do not agree that she should have chosen this occasion but its not her fault completely. THis has nothing to do with how educated she is either. Being the nice person she is, she just believed in Sanjana's story. Poornima also cheated Ishita in a way that she did not even doubt her. This proves that Ishita is not mahaan and infact she is only human who makes mistakes. And the fact that she was angry with Raman was because of her jealousy. I, in fact felt bad for her yesterday.

Raman was also in sync with his characterization as you said. I would love to see Raman faking anger that Ishita did not trust him and believed Sanjana about their affair. He should give her a lecture or silent treatment like she gave him. I would love to see her struggle to talk to him and get accepted back by her Raavan Kumar.

superb Hima 👏👏

u just wrote my thoughts ... completely agree wid ur every single word

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@lovely_lady

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Posted: 10 years ago

I agree!

Like the other posters, I could totally see why Ishita behaved the way she did! It made sense! She is a good person at heart. Heck its evident in the way that she treats everyone.

Honestly, I really wish that Raman had at least mentioned the poornima thing. The bhallas are purposefully keeping ishita in the dark about so many thing. if i was ishita, i wouldn't be happy. ishita had a right to know that she was being played by poornima. and on that note, i feel like raman needs to be more open with ishita. she's open with him but he isn't as open. its not really fair to ishita.

the mihir and shagun thing i can understand. but i see it as inevitable. the truth was going to come out one way or another and it was going to be just as shocking as it is now. mihir should've AT LEAST told mihika about it.