Ishita's Behavior Vs Raman's Behavior | Please Read!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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So Basically,

I hope you all remember the Param Fiasco when Parmeet blammed Ishita for trying to get his attention to fulfill her physical needs and nearly everyone agreed to that though at that moment Raman had nothing to say but afterwards He tried to figure out the truth and was able to prove Parmeet wrong infront on everyone except Simi [we all know why 🤢] and Ishita's respect and dignity was saved and she came back to her house, though she was angry but She was brought back by Raman [even though because of Ruhi]



Now comes a very similar case; when Our dear Ishita was told by Sanjana that Raman & Sanjana were in a relationship, now what Ishita did was to believe Sanjana just cause of that one Picture and hence She ignored Raman and stopped talking to him and we got to know that She was hurt, She did not try to find out the actual truth in any manner and lastly It was proved that Sanjana was not Mihir's sister and all this Ishita-And-Her-Mahanta resulted in nothing but Ishita's insult and Raman's too in a way.


Now before you guys state that no one was telling Ishita the truth about Mihir's sister I must mention Sarika at that time was also afraid to mention anything about Param.


If A Relation-ship is based on trust then I conclude Raman had full-trust on Ishita but as far as Ishita is considered She doesn't really trust Raman that much. isn't it?


So whose way did you prefer? Whose side would you take in this case and Why?
If Raman then Why?
If Ishita then Why?
If Both then Why?
If None then Why?



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree that what Bhallas did was wrong in hiding Mihirs sister's identity.
But Ishu believing Sanjana is plain stupid, especially after she saw Sanjana twice with Param. She should have gone into depth of the matter and handled the situation in a better way.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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More than love, romance n compatibility...a relation of husband n wife depends on trust n understanding...ishita never ever trusts Raman...time n again she has shown this...its not the first time that she has thought Raman to be the culprit...sometimes its shogun, sometimes its sajana..sometimes someone else...from day one she has been thinking wrongly of Raman...the truth is that there us no progress in relationship from ishita's side...she may be physically attracted towards him...but she is dumb enough to let go of Raman every time...

I SUPPORT RAMAN
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Posted: 10 years ago
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there s a huge difference in both the case... raman didnt believe ishitas present and ishita believed ramans past ...
it makes huge diff ... if sanjana says raman has affair nw ishu would slap her ... she even trusted raman with shagun in picnic... the prob s she dono abt past raman ... she s wrong in doubting but nt as wrong as u ppl accuse...
if alone raman didnt hide hid past or shut ishita wen she asked nothing would have happened...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I support Raman however now that whole world is against Ishita (ofc cos of her own stupidity) I personally would like him to go easy on her. He could give her silent treatment but later on should talk to her.
You know in married life sometime things go wrong, we all make mistakes but at the end we all need someone to lean on. Someone who will be there for you in your better and worse. Perfect timing for Ishita/Ruhi/ Raman scenes.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hey Isra!
Nice Topic... i dont exactly have much to add... because, honestly... you're almost absolutely right. Well... Ishita supporters might actually have stuff in her defence... and i have to say... the seriousness and depth of the two matters that youre comparing are different... i mean... i dont think we can compare this Sanjana matter... or ANY matter for that matter, to the seriousness and critical recog of the Parmeet fiasco... BUT maybe when IshRa's trust is concerned/regarded... we could to an extent compare the two.

With the Parmeet thingy, honestly speaking... noone really 'believed' Parmeet completely except for Simmi. Even Toshi ji knew at the back of her head that Ishita couldnt do this.. which is why she just kept asking Ishita to 'mitti paao' on the matter and kept stressing on how 'the matter is long gone now, no use discussing' type. But i do agree... noone completely trusted Ishita either... except... YES, RAMAN DID. AND AM I PROUD

Whereas for Ishita... well... i dont even know how people who defend her, will defend her... after the act of... stupidity and bewaqoofi and senselessness shes shown... she literally has won all medals for being the epitome of craziness/stupidity. Butchered her character almost completely yaar! LOL

Ishita ACTUALLY, is doing a LOT of mistakes... :/ EVEN in her relationship with Raman :/ i just hope CVs rectify this... and try and bring Ishita back on track? she's loosing it 😳 (or has already lost it...?)

PS: and HENCE, I SUPPORT RAMAN...
waise bhi thori zyada biased hoon since hes TOO close to reality... jitna Raman is close to reality, utna hi Ishita is running AWAY from being a real character.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice question...

In this case, I support Raman because I feel she should have openly asked him about what Sanjana told her. She blindly believed Sanjana and the photo and doubted Raman. Why didnt she think that there must be a big grave reason behind Raman hiding the truth about MIhir's sister?
Added to all that, she should have discussed Sanjana's story with Raman and Mihir in private before getting her into a wedding function. She didnt even think for a moment that it was her sister's wedding related function and any drama would spoil her happiness.

Even if Raman had a past affair, she should have confronted him about it openly. why does she expect that like her, he should also be open about his past affairs...all people arent the same...some may not be comfortable discussing it. So just because he didnt tell her, getting angry, stopping talks with him is really silly...
moreover, they dont even share a true husband wife relationship...she should first work on that and then fight with Raman for not being honest and open to her!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: serendipity.

Hey Isra!

Nice Topic... i dont exactly have much to add... because, honestly... you're almost absolutely right. Well... Ishita supporters might actually have stuff in her defence... and i have to say... the seriousness and depth of the two matters that youre comparing are different... i mean... i dont think we can compare this Sanjana matter... or ANY matter for that matter, to the seriousness and critical recog of the Parmeet fiasco... BUT maybe when IshRa's trust is concerned/regarded... we could to an extent compare the two.

With the Parmeet thingy, honestly speaking... noone really 'believed' Parmeet completely except for Simmi. Even Toshi ji knew at the back of her head that Ishita couldnt do this.. which is why she just kept asking Ishita to 'mitti paao' on the matter and kept stressing on how 'the matter is long gone now, no use discussing' type. But i do agree... noone completely trusted Ishita either... except... YES, RAMAN DID. AND AM I PROUD

Whereas for Ishita... well... i dont even know how people who defend her, will defend her... after the act of... stupidity and bewaqoofi and senselessness shes shown... she literally has won all medals for being the epitome of craziness/stupidity. Butchered her character almost completely yaar! LOL

Ishita ACTUALLY, is doing a LOT of mistakes... :/ EVEN in her relationship with Raman :/ i just hope CVs rectify this... and try and bring Ishita back on track? she's loosing it 😳 (or has already lost it...?)

PS: and HENCE, I SUPPORT RAMAN...
waise bhi thori zyada biased hoon since hes TOO close to reality... jitna Raman is close to reality, utna hi Ishita is running AWAY from being a real character.


Completely agree with you!

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