Ishita's Behavior Vs Raman's Behavior

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Vishwa

@-Inferno-

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

I remember that one scene where Raman said something along the lines of not being able to tell the truth because it was between Mihir and his sister to Ishita.

I agree he should have told her that, but I feel he didn't because Mihir didn't want anyone knowing. Why Mihir didn't want to tell anyone is his own concern but I don't support Ishita interfering.

Usually I see posts of everyone bashing and criticizing Raman but honestly Ishita is at fault at times as well. She should stop interfering when Mihir has clearly told her that he wants nothing to do with his sister. He didn't find it necessary to tell her who his sister is because he doesn't see her as a part of his life anymore.

Also, she believed Sanjana too easily. I mean she knew that Sanjana had emotional ups and downs, I would be doubting the girl from the first sentence only.

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Israa.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: serendipity.
Hey Isra!
Nice Topic... i dont exactly have much to add... because, honestly... you're almost absolutely right. Well... Ishita supporters might actually have stuff in her defence... and i have to say... the seriousness and depth of the two matters that youre comparing are different... i mean... i dont think we can compare this Sanjana matter... or ANY matter for that matter, to the seriousness and critical recog of the Parmeet fiasco... BUT maybe when IshRa's trust is concerned/regarded... we could to an extent compare the two.

With the Parmeet thingy, honestly speaking... noone really 'believed' Parmeet completely except for Simmi. Even Toshi ji knew at the back of her head that Ishita couldnt do this.. which is why she just kept asking Ishita to 'mitti paao' on the matter and kept stressing on how 'the matter is long gone now, no use discussing' type. But i do agree... noone completely trusted Ishita either... except... YES, RAMAN DID. AND AM I PROUD

Whereas for Ishita... well... i dont even know how people who defend her, will defend her... after the act of... stupidity and bewaqoofi and senselessness shes shown... she literally has won all medals for being the epitome of craziness/stupidity. Butchered her character almost completely yaar! LOL

Ishita ACTUALLY, is doing a LOT of mistakes... :/ EVEN in her relationship with Raman :/ i just hope CVs rectify this... and try and bring Ishita back on track? she's loosing it 😳 (or has already lost it...?)

PS: and HENCE, I SUPPORT RAMAN...
waise bhi thori zyada biased hoon since hes TOO close to reality... jitna Raman is close to reality, utna hi Ishita is running AWAY from being a real character.

Well. I do agree to the fact that Parmeet fiasco was a more sensitive matter compared to Sanjana Fiasco but In both cases as you said IshRa's trust matters and hence I had made this post.

Then we come to Ishita's mistakes, I don't really get it why does she have to spoil it everytime. And i really disliked the fact that she ended up crying within herself and didn't ask Raman about that, similar things have happened before.

Parmeet Fiasco - She didn't mention about it to Raman till the last moment when Raman told her that you could've told me about it before and this time she in a certain way repeated her mistake She didn't discuss the topic with Raman, like seriously She is his wife and we ALL know she agreed to this fact and She could've asked him like We've been watching Ishita as a strong independant women since start She must've questioned Raman about it and not just started crying.

I just don't know why They are spoiling her character?

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Anu

@-HoneyDukes-

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

I don't know why the two scenarios are compared...
Anyway, both of the scenarios are completely different in my opinion. In Param fiasco, she spilled out everything infront of them and still was insulted and thrown out of the house. For that matter, even Raman didn't say a word to stop her or did nothing to stop his family from hurling those brutal words at her. Yes its agreed that he later took the effort to find out the truth and brought her back.. But the damage was done. Even in the accident track, he chose to agree with Shagun and hide everything from Ishita.. Where was his trust in her.? Okay, he was shown to be guilty..But yet again the damage was done..

Coming to this track, Ishu knows nothing about this issue. Everything was hidden from her and knowing her nature of trusting people she trusted whatever that came her way. I agree, she should have shown more trust on Raman instead of believing Sanjana, but honestly when has she ever been told anything by anyone.? Starting from Adi to the truth about who is Mihir's sis.. she knows nothing about their past..
To all those who believe, she should have confined in Raman about this..For sure, so he could have yelled at her once again. If she would have mentioned about this to anyone in the Bhalla's they would have hid it from her or worse someone would have ended up shouting at her once again like it has been done in the past.

I don't support her completely in what she has done, yes she should have acted more maturely but its not just from her side that the trust is lacking, its from Raman's side as well. Somehow, him being portrayed as the saint doesn't go down well with me because he was screwed up big time in the past as well.

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Coco

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

They both are fault! Raman should have told Ishu the truth about Shagun and Ishita for being stupid and believing someone she just meet. I know her intentions were not wrong in reuniting a lost bro and sis but she should have done some more research! If she didn't want to ask Raman or tell him because she was afraid of his reaction, she should have gone to some other member in the Bhalla family. I bet you they would have to her the truth because they know how naive she is. I think Ishita has some serious trust issues and I hope Cvs shows a backstory why that is.

Edited by cocololo123 - 11 years ago

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3fra

@3fra

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

Poor ishita whol ward blame her and give Raman big award for hiding his past from poor girl and make her stupidest and dum person in front every one , Raman is the one who did not trust his own wife and her family

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Israa.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: -IshRaDivAn-
I don't know why the two scenarios are compared...
Anyway, both of the scenarios are completely different in my opinion. In Param fiasco, she spilled out everything infront of them and still was insulted and thrown out of the house. For that matter, even Raman didn't say a word to stop her or did nothing to stop his family from hurling those brutal words at her. Yes its agreed that he later took the effort to find out the truth and brought her back.. But the damage was done. Even in the accident track, he chose to agree with Shagun and hide everything from Ishita.. Where was his trust in her.? Okay, he was shown to be guilty..But yet again the damage was done..

Coming to this track, Ishu knows nothing about this issue. Everything was hidden from her and knowing her nature of trusting people she trusted whatever that came her way. I agree, she should have shown more trust on Raman instead of believing Sanjana, but honestly when has she ever been told anything by anyone.? Starting from Adi to the truth about who is Mihir's sis.. she knows nothing about their past..
To all those who believe, she should have confined in Raman about this..For sure, so he could have yelled at her once again. If she would have mentioned about this to anyone in the Bhalla's they would have hid it from her or worse someone would have ended up shouting at her once again like it has been done in the past.

I don't support her completely in what she has done, yes she should have acted more maturely but its not just from her side that the trust is lacking, its from Raman's side as well. Somehow, him being portrayed as the saint doesn't go down well with me because he was screwed up big time in the past as well.

Bold - Because A d i t y a. his first son though I never supported Raman in that case, he could've discussed it with Ishita but in some sense I also believed that Ishita in that case could've kinda like trusted Raman in being supportive towards Shagun as She knew Raman was totally supporting Amma. so I'm kinda neutral in that case.

Bold Red - I agree with this specific thing that yes trust is kinda lacking in their relationship from both sides.

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karela63

@karela63

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

raman did try to keep away silently but ishita poked her nose so he had to shout...she accused him having n affair...was tht right...no i dont think so...but ishita being good human being try to believe sanjna n try to bring bro n sis colse...so this is completely sajish of shagun ...n ishra usmei fans gaye

nothing else so u cnt blame both of thm

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Venkata

@venkata

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

I support Raman . Reason of support you already gave. Today even when Raman and Mihir trying to tell her that Sanjana is not Mihir sis she was not ready believe. Here Ishitha is having major trust issue. Today one side i really bad for Ishitha but she is herself responsible for this condition. See i am married and if some one say in bullshit even his sister i just go directly and clear it then and there. When Sanjana told IShitha why did not she went directly and asked Raman and Mihir if she had a doubt.

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ria

@mythical

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

there is a saying - 'love me the most when i deserve it the least'

this is what is needed here - love, trust and open communication.

contempt, indifference and distrust destroy relationships - they are like termites which will hollow out the healthiest tree.

both are still stuck in their past and are finding it difficult to handle the present and build a future. they need time, healing and TLC.

raman is like a porcupine and ishita is finding it hard to hug him due to the different quills that poke her, she has to turn vinegar into honey.

ishita is very insecure and also not as confident as she likes to make people believe. raman has to work on this.

Edited by mythical - 11 years ago

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KP_DT_Fan

@KP_DT_Fan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#20

I would support both of them.

During Param's fiasco, there was nothing hidden from Ishita's side. From the beginning of the story, Raman knew Ishita speaks truth like the Coffee wala incident before marriage where they shared the same auto to reach home. During that time, she said to Prateek that she was with Raman. Such similar incidents make a person trustworthy. Also, her care,affection etc towards his family made him support her,

Coming to Ishu's behaviour, it is not that she does not trust Raman. But her trust on Raman is very weak i would say. She tries to believe Raman, but the situations make her to lose that trust which she built on Raman. During that stem cell scenario, both spoke and decided that they share everything about their children things with each other and both will be support for each other. She had built trust on him, but what happened , Raman hid Adi who was culprit in amma's accident track. Here, her trust is broken, Coming to Mihir's sister fiasco, Raman could have disclosed Shagun is mihir's sister and closed it and could have asked her not to create any issues further. She would have done it, Didn't she do the same with Adi's case when she came to know about it before Raman disclosed it , If , she had thought, she could have got punishment to adi but she was silent. Instead of that, Raman shouted on her, Also, when she had asked Raman about Sanjana, Raman could have immediately said no,instead he thought for few seconds and then said no, likewise, there are several incidents where ishita would build her trust on Raman stronger and the next moment, it is broken.

Raman's trust was grown stronger day by day as there were no such incidents which is hidden by ishita and Ishita's trust was weakening day by day as there are lots of incidents which is hidden by Raman,

I hope,atleast in future, both trust each other and share everything.

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