Sibling Relationships & Ishita Factor

So this is a take on sibling connections in YHM and Ishita's role in it.

Today when I heard the story from Mihir's mouth n the way he showed old photograph of his sister who won a race to provide him with a good pair of shoes. My doubts were cleared that this person is no other than Shagun (unless cvs really want to trap us in one of their OTT stupid dramas, I think this Sanjana Arora is just a red herring)

It is difficult to digest that a person like Shagun was so protective n loving towards Mihir in their childhood. Shagun who is out n out a selfish person to the core n who gave two hoots before breaking off the marriage n dumping Raman n Ruhi to settle into a more promising materialistic lifestyle.

As we got to know today that SHagun n Mihir had a difficult childhood where they were not able to even afford a pair of shoes and had to struggle hard. SHagun wanted to be a model but because of her family problems was married off to a middle class Family man who did not earn much and who had hell lot of responsibilities on him (Aging parents and siblings to support). Barely this man was able to provide for the family with his 25,000 a month n in that maybe Shagun was really tired of managing.

She was tired of running after money hence she decided money to run after her using her only weapon i.e. Beauty. Y did she resort to breaking off her marriage n kids is a different issue, i am not justifying her decisions her but just trying to understand where she comes from.

He decided to support Raman (righteousness) over his Blood relations ie. Shagun. It must be difficult for him to take it that his sister betrayed the man he looked upon as a Father Figure (a provider after Shagun was married to him) as Mihir has stated before that he doesn't have a father. I am speculating here that his father is dead. Hence he literally worships Raman blindly and is even ready to lose Mihika if Raman asks him to do so.

Maybe this is the very reason that Mihir is not able to come in terms with that his ever loving sister will betray him n others trust and choose materialistic things over love. Mihir n Shagun story never really had a proper closure, n now we will see that Ishita who is his Rakhi sis will give him that, life coming a full circle as they say.

I think for story purposes Rinki was Mamaji's daughter n Raman n Romi have only one sister i.e. SImmi. Naturally she must have been pampered since childhood (papa aur mummy ki laadli) considering she was the only girl child in the house n girl child eventually gets married n leave the household 😛. Unfortunately we are yet to see this happening.

So when Raman says that uska Haath pakadkar usko chalna sikhaya n now how she is not able to walk on her own n take the right decisions in life, it is really difficult for him to see his sister suffer this kind of a life. I guess SImmi was always protected since childhood, never the house taught her to be independent and make strong decisions for herself. Since childhood she was interested in settling down and having a good family life, she thinks this is her life's only purpose.

Simmi is completely blind in understanding her husband n somewhere Raman blames himself for marrying Simmi off to a guy like Param. It would have been really difficult for Raman to let Simmi go n stay with that lecher, hence Ishita decided to get Param into bhalla Houshold. So that they can still protect Simmi n someday she will realize the truth that her family loves her n supports her. (Although I would have been happier if they would have shown Mr Bhalla getting Param home than Ishita herself literally, she could have been the idea giver but the act should have been performed by someone else, I am ignoring this part of the story)

So again here Ishita is going to act as the person who will build the bridge between Raman n Simmi's relationship currently and help SImmi come out of her false pyar for her paramji.

So on Monday episode we got to know that Mihika was the only child raised by Ishita's Sowmya Chitti. Naturally Ishita and vandu were protective about her n pampered her a lot to fill in the gap of lost father. Its wonderful how both MI MI have daddy issues 😉

We see this trio going out on shopping choosing dresses for each other n having fun in general like typical sisters. No wonder most f the times people get confused that these are not real siblings but cousins.

When u r the only child u tend to connect more to ur cousins to fill in the void of necessity of sibling in ur life. Ask me about it, coz me too only child of my parents. 😊 Ur friends might not be there always with u but ur siblings will b there all the time especially during ur growing up years.

So we got a glimpse of how Mihika teased Ishu during her marriage that the person she is getting married to is Handsome 😉 n now Ishita n Vandu helping her in setting up Mihika's future home n packing her off to beautiful honeymoon destination.

Ishita has again taken up on her sleeve to do the background check for mihir just to ensure that Mihika is married off in a safer family and also to solve the issues cropping up in their marriage. Its again wonderful how she is going to give a closure to this relationship as well. But in YHM closure actually means a new beginning. 😉

If ishima was not there Ruhi wud never have got Sharvan in her life. Ruhi not only got her Father back but also got a brother and a best friend in the form of SHravan. Shravan who is actually smarter than Raman n Ishita put together 😉 got a lovely sister whom he can play and fight with. 😆

Although Ruhi craves for Adi bhaiyyas love recently we have seen them relishing Rakshabandhan again thanks to her Ishima. N there will be a day when her Ishima will reform Adi too and complete this relationship as well. 😉

I know I know these two kamines shud not be here 😆 But ishita is the only person who has taught them a real lesson i.e. to respect women. Its really sad that these two don't want to learn. I hope SHagun with the help of Ishita teaches Suraj another good lesson and traps Ashok in marriage, ussmain Ishita ka bahot bada fayda hai 😆 n humara bhi 😉

Ishita is again the common factor in this story, but it also meant that Bala lost a brother but gained a sister in Ishita through this story. N Ishita not only gained a Jiju but a good friend for life who will support her even if her Husband points a finger at her. The way he questioned Raman during Param molestion case even Mr Iyer didn't raise his voice on anyone in that situation, only Bala spoke up.

Again today we got to know that Romi truly loves Sarika. Raman has helped Sarika find another job. I am sure again the CV's will tread a difficult path for ishita who will go against the family n support Romika. Simmi will be against this coz of Pervy issue and Toshiji will be against this coz she doesn't like Sarika's family background 😉. It will be most difficult for Raman coz he wud want to support ishu but will find it difficult to convince his mother n sister in doing so again he will be sandwiched between this trio 😉. Lets see what waits for us here 😆 Drama Drama aur more Drama 😉