Raman's outburst - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Anku-

If Raman would have just let Shagun be there, and not reacted or not be affected that his wife had bought his ex-wife at home, you and many others would be saying. Raman doesn't care if Shagun comes into the house. It means he wouldn't mind if she'd be there.

Why wouldn't Raman be angry? Shagun isn't any other woman who is in need of help. She's a selfish woman who has never cared for anyone but herself. She doesn't even care for the kids she herself birthed. She merely few days ago tried ruining Ruhi's mind, made her insecure and hurt her, just in order to win Ashok's confidence. She didn't once think of what that child would go through. She let out a personal and very delicate matter out in the open for her benefit. How can Raman forget all that? How can he let that sort of a woman enter his house?

Raman is human, and his reaction on seeing people who have intentionally tried to harm him, his family. his kid and wife is completely natural. Not everyone can be as selfless and generous as Ishita is.

Originally posted by: pomegranate

I agree. Raman isn't a perfect or flawless human, but he's human. He makes mistakes, realizes he's made them and asks for forgiveness too. But to expect him to forgive and forget past wounds, that haven't healed because the one whose inflicted them keeps tampering with them time and again is so heartless to his feelings.

People need to give Raman a break,and probably put themselves in his shoes.

I don't agree. I felt his anger was justified. I felt he was not angry with Ishu rather he was angry at what happened. He was insulted in front of his family for something he is not guilty of. It was very clear that Raman was not happy that Shagun was in his house. He didn't even step into his own room when Shagun was there. However Ashok made a point that Raman still has feelings for Shagun and that he has cheated with Shagun. I guess Raman was furious about this allegation. It is very clear by his actions that Raman has no feelings for Shagun so maybe all that drama was just too much for him.

I also noticed Raman's expression right after he stopped shouting. I don't think he intended to be harsh at her but that was merely a natural reaction from his side. Ishu also realized her mistake. I don't think any sane person would tolerate such rubbish from anyone so can imagine his frustration when he was accused by Ashok.

I think at the end Raman was just trying to lighten up Ishu's mood as she was very upset hence made that comment about bringing Shagun himself to quiet Ishu. I didn't feel that part should be taken very seriously because its just a joke. That's what I felt.

Originally posted by: vandana21

Alright, I do agree with all the posters who've written in favor of Raman ..His outburst might have been justified had he always shown such strong hatred toward shagun..

He was able to have her around for an entire night when Adi was sick ..Well if he was so disgusted, he could have booked another room for her then..

He went for the picnic ...for Adi's sake he was able to put up the woman he is so bloody angry about? ..

He held Shagun's hand and comforted her time and again during the lousy accident track...

Where was all this disgust and anger ..Fine he did it all for Adi ...and now for Adi, it's OK to leave shagun lying on the street?????? ..If Adi told him that his mom is on the street and to save her ..he wouldn't have done the same whole heartedly ..

I don't get the unfairness ...I mean it's not like everytime shagun has been around ..he's gotten so mad..

Also, their bedroom/bed has no meaning YET...they don't share a bed...he has said it several times that he has no intentions of doing anything with her ...I mean with all his past comments how is Ishita to hold their bed/bedroom as sacred? It's just another piece of furniture in another room of the house as far as she is concerned for NOW at least! ..

It's raman's fault that he hasn't voiced any feelings to ishita that makes her feel otherwise about her bed or room ...!