Thanks for making this a 22 person response- discussion. I just spoke my mind. Since Ishita is the better person of the two and Raman is a jerk I was quite shocked to see her be indifferent and nonchalant towards his feelings.
To all those that mock and ridicule my love for Raman/KP. I cannot help it if I find the guy real. Being a straight woman helps as well.
His emoting reaches out and touches me. I said on Vyas, Rajma post yesterday, Raman is way more flawed I LOVE THAT about him. I have hated him on more days than I have hated Ishita.
She is a Devi, there is little in her for ME to love her. Haan pooja zaroor kar sakti hoon shayad for unconditionally agreeing to marry a "jerk" like Raman, and making a tremendous sacrifice by even living with him during and after the Adi track and most recently...reforming a rapist and sheltering her husband's ex runaway infidel wife from getting raped. She IS divine and perfect in every sense of the word BUT in a fictional LOVE story I personally DONT look for divinityš Sorry!
Secondly by doing such ridiculously selfless acts that no woman in her sane mind would do, she has relegated herself to being just another Kekta Bahu. They all angelic creatures that marry jerks/crooks/criminals/egotisttical b----- and reform them and reform anyone they can lay their hands on in their sasural. This one has gone one step further and is beginning to help out hubby's exš
There is no distinction anymore between her and the leading lady of any show on this network or any other networks. However much people would want to argue this, Her personality once upon a time was REAL and DISTINCT. Now she is just another crusader.
Shagun is a well connected, wealthy, "kept woman". Ishita is not her ONLY REFUGE. Ishita should have called Ashok, the guy that can come by and get her in the morning can also drive up to the middle of nowhere and get her at night.
Ishita despite her angelic qualities did not call her husband once and check with him, this was not Subbu she was bringing home, this was HIS ex-wife, who he loathes more than anything in the world.
I detested the parallels being drawn with Delhi crime rates. Whatever is happening in Delhi is sad, Ishita was out of line using that. I stand by that comment as well. The crime rate rhetoric did not justify Ishita's urge to help "sirf Ruhi ke liye" ki Ma
A marriage can be challenged in dignified decent ways, current wife making an ex sleep on her ex husband's bed is ridiculous. I made a post yesterday called YHM Then vs Now, there are over 10 things they could have explored, from the "Then" scenario. Only Ekta Kapoor chooses to challenge marriages by making husband consummate marriage on one night, followed by cheating on her with her own sister a few nites later (Kasam Se)
All those that don't want me to blame Ishita and feel protective about DT in a round about sort of way... I ended my note blaming the script. They could have made her apologize to Raman, or "try" calling him on his cell phone, or tried Ashok, or shown her driving up and down a few hotels. It would have added more credibility to the already perfect Ishita's character.š
Edited by Nisha0604 - 11 years ago
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