Why only one who becomes a mother will know about children?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Often asked-taunted,this one line for many women-Have you had a kid that you know how it is to bring up a kid????Why do we have to fight in border to know how hard a armyman's life is?Do we jump in ocean to gauge its depth?Then why????😭.
Why people like Shagun whom nature has given bounty bounty(yes she became preggs because nature helped her)always taunt Ishitya(nature is cruel to her).I have seen many of my grand aunts who were the most affectionate were ones who were not mothers themselves(again nature).
How can one taunt another person when one is helped by nature and another isnt?????
There are many Shaguns in this world & many many more Ishitas who are constantly put in place whenever they want to be happy-WHY???🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Itz a social issue... Itz a myth i would say tht a woman says these kind of things to other woman.. Without realizing tht they belong to same gendre.. Same kind of situations they face.. But only a lady is the enemy of the other lady ! Thtz pathetic !

Women saying n taunting others for being infertile or having a girl instead of a boy etc are pathetic ! They don't even knw tht it depends on the male the gendre of a child n not on the female !
Above all itz all god's will not humans'.. Kaun si aurat baanjh hona pasand kare g ??!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yeah. It's a very pathetic social issue.
I am glad that YHM is focusing on this main thing in the show. I hope they also show how to fight back with those people who taunt infertile women. It's really ridiculous. Things, that humans can't control, are used to tease, taunt and insult helpless people.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ThePirateKing

Often asked-taunted,this one line for many women-Have you had a kid that you know how it is to bring up a kid????Why do we have to fight in border to know how hard a armyman's life is?Do we jump in ocean to gauge its depth?Then why????😭.

Why people like Shagun whom nature has given bounty bounty(yes she became preggs because nature helped her)always taunt Ishitya(nature is cruel to her).I have seen many of my grand aunts who were the most affectionate were ones who were not mothers themselves(again nature).
How can one taunt another person when one is helped by nature and another isnt?????
There are many Shaguns in this world & many many more Ishitas who are constantly put in place whenever they want to be happy-WHY???🤢



Well ppl like Balas mom n Shagun will taunt Ishu all their lives ... Bala's mom has not been able to get over the fact that Ishita got a husband who's so loving n caring n better than her son although she can't procreate n Shagun for obvious reasons hates Ishita ... Both of them know Ishita doesn't have any weaknesses she's a strong willed, smart, independant, working and family oriented lady ... So the only way to put her down is by insulting her over the fact that she can't procreate ... I mean ok shagun n Balas mom gave birth but what's the use of ppl like Adi who r on the verge of turning into a criminal or loser Subbu ??? Ppl like Shagun n Balas mom will never understand this logic n will always try to put the better person down just to glorify themselves n satisfy their fake egos ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good post 👍🏼

This serial began with Ishita relating d story of d birth of baby Krishna ... d day on which, not only a baby but 2 mothers were also born ...

So I guess that this question of who is d true mother - d one who gives birth or d one who nurtures - is going to come up time n again in this story ...

In d past, Ishita n her loved ones have always felt vulnerable to this taunt ... but I m hoping that with d progression of story she n d people around her will grow in confidence of d knowledge that - "janam dene waale se palne walaa bada hota hai" ...

The question Shagun asked in d pre-cap is at d crux of d story ... that after all one doesn't become a mother just because she has given birth ... rather, one is a mother because she loves n accepts d child selflessly n unconditionally, makes sacrifices for it n has d best interest of d child as her 1st priority ...

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