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Good morning friends. I am back with a topic after a long time.
This is a neutral post. I tried to clear some of our matter of disgust in a non partial way. I said my POV and also mentioned what others may think...and that's not actually wrong in some cases. So, don't misunderstand this post. I am just pointing out what I feel, experience and what others may😃.
Ishita & Her Forgiveness😆 :
Well, many of us hate this thing of her. But, we all know that she has inherited this from her parents, like Raman has inherited bias from his parents😆. Jokes apart. Some may think that this is highly unrealistic that Ishita forgives and forgets every mistakes, cos may be they dint see anyone like this. But, I can say it loudly that it's not. Cos, may be I am like her in this matter. No matter whatever wrong things happen to me by anyone, shockingly, next day when I see her/him, I just forget what she/he did to me last day. I don't know whether I forgive or not, but I don't defo want to remember the wrong deeds, I am just normal with them. Even my friends scold me for this ''Did you forget what happened...blah blah''? I say that ''I dint forget, I just don't want to stretch it further as it will spoil moods, oneday he/she her/himself will be ashamed thinking their wrong deeds by my constant forgiving, and believe me it would be even more better for them''. That's why may be I can relate to Ishita and also her some other characteristics are similar to me😳. So, I guess, this time also she will forgive Raman, though I dint want, but expected considering CV's fondness over same thing.
Raman's First Born and Last Born Concept😳 :
Well, I don't know what to say about this. Whenever Ramz talks about Adi..it feels like Adi is everything to him and Ruhi is a timepass baby for him, whom he loves as Adi is not here. It's defo not like this, but his actions and words give such feels. Anyways, I just don't understand this first born obsession. In my home, there is no such thing as first born and last born etc. We two siblings get equal love, in fact most of the times I get more affection than my vaia. Sometimes, I am given priority and importance in taking a big decision even if everyone is involved in it. I never felt that being a last born, I am being discriminated. There is no obsessive discrimination in my home about first born and last born. That's why may be I can't relate to Raman's Adi obsession. Those who have faced such discrimination or who know such incidents may understand his point. But, it's totally impossible for me to understand it. That's why I don't like this obsession thing.
Ishita's Anger and Raman's Decision Regarding Adi :
Umm...I was never so positive about this track. I am generally positive though. But, this track dint allow me, I am admitting it. But, I want to say to you all to just wait till tonight and Monday's episode. We can't say that Ishita has forgiven Raman already or Raman will send Adi to Judicial Center by himself. Raman always stands by truth. This time, he chose his son over truth. He was obsessed of getting Adi out of this case so that he doesn't get punished. So, it will be highly unrealistic if he suddenly takes that tough decision by his own. His guilt isn't enough for this. There will be something or some convo with anyone that will open his eyes that he has done a wrong thing as a father to his son. I really hope that it's Ishita who will vent her anger on him saying that he should've told her everything before, she is taking the case back for family and a kid's future sake, but she thinks Adi should've been punished at least to a smaller extent so that he will think twice before doing anything like this again, that his fault is that his upbringing is not good...both his parents failed to do that etc. I guess, this will lead Raman to take that tough decision. I don't actually am expecting anything from CVs, but I want you all to wait and see what happens.
Adi's Custody :
We are assuming that Adi will come to live with Bhallas. Even I too am feeling irritated thinking this. But, what if Raman doesn't get Adi's full custody? I mean, if only if custody case is reopened, court may not give Raman's Adi's custody considering the allegations on him. Court may also not give Shagun the full custody as she will be proved as a bad mother. So, court may give a decision that Adi will live with his father for one month, then with mom next one month...like this. By this we can see Adi reforming and there will be lots of scopes for IshRa scenes and romance also. Only one thing I am not clear that will Adi be fully mended, if that then how will Shagun come to Raman's life back through Adi? May be there will be no such track in YHM...hatke hain na!
That's all what I felt and experienced in my life also.
Till the episodes air, keep calm and like I am trying to think neutral, you too give it a try😆.
(Added another point).
Sorry if I bored you with my long post😳😆.
This is a neutral post. I tried to clear some of our matter of disgust in a non partial way. I said my POV and also mentioned what others may think...and that's not actually wrong in some cases. So, don't misunderstand this post. I am just pointing out what I feel, experience and what others may😃.
Ishita & Her Forgiveness😆 :
Well, many of us hate this thing of her. But, we all know that she has inherited this from her parents, like Raman has inherited bias from his parents😆. Jokes apart. Some may think that this is highly unrealistic that Ishita forgives and forgets every mistakes, cos may be they dint see anyone like this. But, I can say it loudly that it's not. Cos, may be I am like her in this matter. No matter whatever wrong things happen to me by anyone, shockingly, next day when I see her/him, I just forget what she/he did to me last day. I don't know whether I forgive or not, but I don't defo want to remember the wrong deeds, I am just normal with them. Even my friends scold me for this ''Did you forget what happened...blah blah''? I say that ''I dint forget, I just don't want to stretch it further as it will spoil moods, oneday he/she her/himself will be ashamed thinking their wrong deeds by my constant forgiving, and believe me it would be even more better for them''. That's why may be I can relate to Ishita and also her some other characteristics are similar to me😳. So, I guess, this time also she will forgive Raman, though I dint want, but expected considering CV's fondness over same thing.
Raman's First Born and Last Born Concept😳 :
Well, I don't know what to say about this. Whenever Ramz talks about Adi..it feels like Adi is everything to him and Ruhi is a timepass baby for him, whom he loves as Adi is not here. It's defo not like this, but his actions and words give such feels. Anyways, I just don't understand this first born obsession. In my home, there is no such thing as first born and last born etc. We two siblings get equal love, in fact most of the times I get more affection than my vaia. Sometimes, I am given priority and importance in taking a big decision even if everyone is involved in it. I never felt that being a last born, I am being discriminated. There is no obsessive discrimination in my home about first born and last born. That's why may be I can't relate to Raman's Adi obsession. Those who have faced such discrimination or who know such incidents may understand his point. But, it's totally impossible for me to understand it. That's why I don't like this obsession thing.
Ishita's Anger and Raman's Decision Regarding Adi :
Umm...I was never so positive about this track. I am generally positive though. But, this track dint allow me, I am admitting it. But, I want to say to you all to just wait till tonight and Monday's episode. We can't say that Ishita has forgiven Raman already or Raman will send Adi to Judicial Center by himself. Raman always stands by truth. This time, he chose his son over truth. He was obsessed of getting Adi out of this case so that he doesn't get punished. So, it will be highly unrealistic if he suddenly takes that tough decision by his own. His guilt isn't enough for this. There will be something or some convo with anyone that will open his eyes that he has done a wrong thing as a father to his son. I really hope that it's Ishita who will vent her anger on him saying that he should've told her everything before, she is taking the case back for family and a kid's future sake, but she thinks Adi should've been punished at least to a smaller extent so that he will think twice before doing anything like this again, that his fault is that his upbringing is not good...both his parents failed to do that etc. I guess, this will lead Raman to take that tough decision. I don't actually am expecting anything from CVs, but I want you all to wait and see what happens.
Adi's Custody :
We are assuming that Adi will come to live with Bhallas. Even I too am feeling irritated thinking this. But, what if Raman doesn't get Adi's full custody? I mean, if only if custody case is reopened, court may not give Raman's Adi's custody considering the allegations on him. Court may also not give Shagun the full custody as she will be proved as a bad mother. So, court may give a decision that Adi will live with his father for one month, then with mom next one month...like this. By this we can see Adi reforming and there will be lots of scopes for IshRa scenes and romance also. Only one thing I am not clear that will Adi be fully mended, if that then how will Shagun come to Raman's life back through Adi? May be there will be no such track in YHM...hatke hain na!
That's all what I felt and experienced in my life also.
Till the episodes air, keep calm and like I am trying to think neutral, you too give it a try😆.
(Added another point).
Sorry if I bored you with my long post😳😆.
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