Can We Think bit Neutrally and Chill??? - Page 2

Great post, dear Tanni. I enjoyed your views and like the fact that you too, like Ishita, are very forgiving. It is a great trait to have and I commend you for it.

This track had so much of potential... now , it s just gone!

Originally posted by: Nichuss

I didnt feel ishu completely forgiven raman..
She was just replying his ques..
She finally understood she mistuk raman's silence n saving shagun

she was relived on fact it was adi who raman was protecting...
She was making her mil n amma too about this matter...

I guess ishra confrontation will happen .. Acrdng to sbs..ishu trying to talk to raman...


About 1st child obsession...
Im so confused...
Its always neglecting ruhi...;(
is it bcz adi nt in house? Or due to marg wreck raman didnt experienced ruhi birth????

Wht ever if boys r waaris... Girls r lakshmi of th house... Its better yhm gvs ruhi too importance

Yup...Nishuz. Exactly, I too dint feel that Ishu has forgiven Raman yet. May be after Raman apologizes she will forgive him. But, not yesterday she forgave him, her disappointment and anger could be seen in her eyes, she was trying to pacify herself. Another thing as you said, her insecurity as a wife has vanished knowing that it was not Shagun who Raman was saving. I guess, it's enough to forgive for a sensible and soft heartened girl like her. That's why she said those lines. Hopefully, we can see tonight an IshRa scene clearing all our confusions.
First born thing, I really want CVs to give proper justification on this clearly very soon. Why Raman loves Adi madly, why doesn't he feel the same to Ruhi...I want him to admit these to Ishu and in detailed.

Originally posted by: ThruMyEyez-Nita

Well said and I completely get your point of view.

Ishita's forgiveness: This is something that I am going to have a hard time with if it's going to happen everytime something major happens between IshRa because I'm the exact opposite - silent treatments are my forte (unlike you - and I'm not saying that's bad, it's definitely a good trait to have, to forgive and move on is not an easy thing to do Sometime I wish I was like that😊).

As far as the first born, last born concept: Raman's obsession with Adi is also fueled with the fact that he is away from him and the relationship has never been fulfilled. But I do think that the CV's are pushing it a tad bit too far.

And your last point, I hope we get to see what you mentioned, with regards with Raman's realization coming from Ishita and the fact that just because he is a kid, he shouldn't get away scot-free.

This track has definitely tested our patience and hopefully the story will move forward in a good way. 😊

Yup...we all have different features and thoughts😳.
Thanks.

Originally posted by: rockstar29

Good topic
Raman obsessed with adi doesn't make sense and neglecting ruhi don't want to mention it hurt .
Rkb character has been butchered by creative team .

Thanks.
That doesn't make sense...true. But, hope his obsession will end once he can see comparing characteristics b/w Ruhi and Adi. Then, he will understand what Ruhi is...his life and Ishita is his life savor.

Originally posted by: berrysweet

This track had so much of potential... now , it s just gone!

With this track we should have seen a remorseful Raman who would KNOW and understand his wife. Instead we have a Raman who has lied, cheated, distrusted. his wife. He has called her a thief and a liar . Not showing any sign of remorse, he is now manupalating her..

In other words he is happiliy taking advantage of her goodness and vulnerability. And here, my dear kind TM, is the problem... When you forgive and let it go too easily (As u do not want to make issues of things} you have in a way not helped at all. The person who has been forgiven might in fact just grow more arrogant as he would not have learnt any thing at all.. Like Adi , they will grow only in the negative way.

They way Ishu is blamed and spoken about so rudely by Shagun is not acceptable. The way he simply agreed that Ishu will without a thouhgt harm Adi is even more disgusting. The way he came in trying to talk to her as naturally as possibly in such a false manner is also a grand put off. Is there no honesty in Raman any more?

The relationship, if not repaired by tonight or Monday ,has gone awry. According to spoilers things will go the normal way soon... that makes me puke!

Originally posted by: Angel13

Unless and untill we don't get to see IshRa taking and have communication regarding the whole fiasco I won't ever be able to enjoy them ever again
I have very very less hope or can say no hope that we would get IshRa scene tomorrow and before Adi jail and all drama 😕

Yup...that's what I too am counting on. I really hope there's a scene of IshRa confrontation and their justifications tonight or Monday, I mean before Adi's jail sending,

Originally posted by: -Inferno-

This is a really nice and sensible post.

Regarding Raman's obsession over his first child I had a lot of questions. First I was pissed off that he was so biased towards Adi and thought it was absolutely unfair (and it is!). I can never understand that concept because my parents are happily married and love all their children. However, how many of us are divorced and in the exact position as Raman?

I'd like to know from an individual who got divorced and only has the custody of ONE of their children. I feel THAT could somehow help me understand the emotions Raman has for Adi better.

Thanks dear.
Yeah..someone like him would make us understand his feelings better. The far we have always seen members defending him, but I guess no one was such who has such experiences. And, me too can't understand cos of my parents' great treatment like yours.

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

Yup...that's what I too am counting on. I really hope there's a scene of IshRa confrontation and their justifications tonight or Monday, I mean before Adi's jail sending,