Disintegration of Raman Kumar Bhalla - Page 3

Originally posted by: Zenith_Zen

Hi rogerrocks...😃

I really appreciate you for writing such an amazingly insightful post...You are bang on with your reflection on an enigma called RKB...🤗...

Raman Kumar Bhalla is the most complex and multi-layered fictional character I have ever seen on tellywood as of late...As you have rightly pointed out, this man has such an amalgam of emotions and feelings in him that border on two extremes...most of the times, there is no in-between...be it his caring and funny side, his arrogant and egoistic attitude, or his vulnerable and emotional foolishness...For all the goodness he has in him, he equally has this tendency to hurt the people that love him the most...

Most of the times, he wears a facade of having a well-balanced attitude in his personal and professional lives, and succeeds in his mission more often than not even with his devil-may-care attitude, but when it comes to his son, Adi, he just tends to lose his rational thinking, at least initially, becoming so vulnerable...And, I have always felt that this trait of him is totally in with his character, and I was not surprised to see him doing it once again last week...

At the end of this ongoing accident track, there will definitely be a justification for his sudden change of attitude towards Shagun, and CVs may show RKB mellowing down in his obsession for Adi and do right by Ishitha and her family, like how he made Adi apologize to Ishitha during that school fiasco...As far as I have seen him, he has always been one man who, even after lots of faltering and floundering, has stood up for what is right even if he has to pay a price for it, and I strongly believe he will do so once again in Adi's case also...But, the matter of fact is Adi was, is, and will always be RKB's Achilles' heel...He can't help but give himself to a momentary weakness and lose his sense of what is right and wrong when it comes to his son's flaws and bratty attitude, and that is RKB for you...And I would feel really weird if he does not behave that way...It will definitely take time for him to come out of this so-called love illusion, which he has surrounded himself in...

I am hoping against hope that he will at least soon realize he is heading towards a self-destructing path knowingly or unknowingly, and by doing so, hurting the most important people in his life... I don't want to see him a changed man in one day, and that does not happen in real life, but as far as I am concerned, the realization is what matters the most...the realization that the love for his son has blinded his judgment poorly and become an obstacle in his relationships with others...Once that realization strikes him hard, he will be back on track, I hope, as a good parent to his children, and that is the major change I am desperately waiting to see in him...Once this happens, the rest will soon fall in place, i.e., his complicated relationships with his wife and ex-wife...But, as much as I pity and empathize with him, I really don't want him to be let get off the hook easily this time around...He needs to take in the dense head of his that he can't take his things for granted in his life anymore...😈...Trusting our awesome YHM CVs to do that job and the fabulous actor Karen Patel to enact all the emotions with such an incredible finesse...

Regarding KP's acting, I can go and on about his acting...It is pure bliss watching him on my TV screen every day...I don't have a great command over Hindi, and most of the times, I have to do with subtitles, but KP is such an awesome actor I can feel and understand what he is going through with all those little nuanced emotions that flit through his face in nanoseconds without the need for any dialogues...If I have to describe his acting in a few words, I would say "no hamming, subtlety at its best"...Kudos to him...👏

Sorry for such a long rant...😳

Great post 😳

I agree..Raman loves with all his heart..To such an extent that he becomes blind to that person's faults..The problem here is that Raman is desperate for Adi's love & approval..This desperation makes him lose his foresight and sense of judgment..Raman sucks as a parent tbh 😆 He has no idea how to handle bratty kids..He is indirectly ruining Adi by giving in to all his unfair demands..Adi will never learn this way..He'l know that all he needs to do is cry & emotionally manipulate his dad & he can literally get away with anything..Exactly what Shagun is doing 😆

Originally posted by: srkcc

I have been thinking of Ramans love for Shagun. Maybe I missed something as didn't start watching the show until march but I don't think we know the history of that relationship i.e. how did that relationship start? was it a love marriage (as Raman had said to ishita that college main he was soo shy he had not had a relationship)

Sounds to me like it was arranged marriage and maybe Ramans first encounter of relationships...Shagun is beautiful so maybe it was a relationship based on veerry strong physical attraction which can sometimes be interpreted as I am so in love'. Hence the love he felt for her was the 'blind, obsessive, self-destructive love' which to me in not the true, pure and passionate love i.e. the ishkwala junoon wala love type. The Rab ne baa di Jodi wala love... where ek ko chot puchti hai or dusre ko dard hota hai... where ek dur hota hai to duja pant pehna bhul jata hai...Jo ek ke dil mein hota hai, the other ko pata chalta hai.. They are sooo aware of each other that when one enters a room, the other knows... that wala connect...and after all that, there is also physical attraction that its sone pe suhaga. It's the mental and the physical that Ishita and Raman have which Shagun and Raman NEVER had. When Adi was ill and Ishita and Raman were chatting away on the phone Shagun even said har ek baat batane ke zaroorat hai which obviously states to me that when Shagun and Raman were together they did not talk about everything? . I think Raman's love (or whatever you call it) for Shagun turned to obsession and anger after the betrayal as he lost Adi and then his ego was probably hurt...

In that marriage Shagun's love can never have been true as her true love was and is money, glamour society...

Yeah it was an arranged marriage..And true, it was shallow in the sense that Raman fell for Shagun's looks rather than her character or personality..And at one point, he made her the centre of his existence & the love turned obsessive..With Ishita, its more gradual & deep..Where you look beyond the looks or other superficial aspects & fall for the personality/ character of your partner..

Raman sucks as a parent tbh 😆

Hey! I am so glad you made this post. Even I loved the recent episodes. They were fabulous. Raman Kumar Bhalla is an emotional fool. Period. And I love him to bits.❤️

Nice post.

Won't say much. But, what I gathered is for Raman there will always be a discrimination among people. Tell it fault or or quality, it is a wrong deed obvi. And, whatever fault he has in him that doesn't justify some of his actions in last few epis (Asking Witch about telling Ishita, misbehaving with Ruhi...which is his favorite job when he is distressed😆.

hello roger
awesum post ..agree wid u ..in dis whole track raman behaved d way he was supposed to ..d only thing dat disappointed me is d fact dat raman is lying to ishita

@Rogerrocks apt analysis😊. must say you possess an analytical mind. The critical appreciation of Raman's character is effectively sketched. Raman encompasses traits of an ordinary person with aggression at the base. He is ill tempered, however the anger evaporates just like air bubbles which fizzles in less than a minute.

Awesome analysis Roger. Love reading all posts in the topic. Nice posts everyone.

Originally posted by: Zenith_Zen

WORD...😆...Big time...😛...

As I have already addressed in my earlier post, I want him to become a good parent first more than anything else...at least try becoming one by mending his ways and treating both his children equally...😊

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Yeah he needs crash course on parenting from Ishita 😆

Originally posted by: Metamorphmagus

Hey! I am so glad you made this post. Even I loved the recent episodes. They were fabulous. Raman Kumar Bhalla is an emotional fool. Period. And I love him to bits.❤️

Adi was always pampered by both his parents but since the divorce, Raman has extra love for him. I guess he showered Ruhi's portion also on Adi 😆.

He craves for the one who isn't with him and ignores the one near him. I couldn't agree more with you about Raman and Ruhi. It is always that little girl who takes a step in their relationship. I cannot forget that cake scene at Adi's Birthday party. It is the perfect example.

And again you are right. He will never love Ishita the way he did Shagun because with the latter it was only about her beauty. Him sharing his decision of telling Ishita, for me, signifies their past and a feeling of kinship. It changes a lot about how I look at Shagun. She wasn't as useless as I thought.

Ishita, I think will be hurt about the fact that he lied to her and probably come to the conclusion that he doesn't trust her. It was the same thing that disturbed her with that permission for Adi's tuition.

Karan Patel and Anita Hassanandani share a great chemistry as exes. The entire scene in Ashok's house was too good. 👏

IKR..Raman's obsession with Adi is borderline psychotic 😆 Shagun actually understands Raman really well..And thats currently the biggest problem 😆 She knows Adi will always be Raman's biggest weakness and she used it brilliantly to her advantage.You could see that on his face when Adi was crying..He looked so aghast..And he is obviously ready to fight the world to bring that smile on his son's face..Shagun has to be really cruel to take such ruthless advantage of a father's craving for his son's approval..I mean she dumps him, makes his life a living hell & if that were not enough, she still manipulates him & forces him to submission by using his son🥱

Yup..Anita were KP were brilliant in that scene..I know a lot of them were disgusted with the hug but i thought these two nailed it..It was not a romantic hug for god's sake 😆