after today ishra has become meaningless - Page 2

Originally posted by: pomegranate

you don't understand the intricacies of human emotions, everything is black and white for you. life, emotions, and human behaviour are complex and they cannot be put into rigid categories.

Originally posted by: pomegranate

if this show makes u this angry then just stop watching it.

I dont need ur advice
I hate raman and shagun
raman will never b loved as b4

Don't say this yaar ! It's not ruined..
IshRa's relation became stronger n it will continue the way it is n IshRa will be RELOVED by all of u bashing right now 😛 😆

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

How has he turned grey? Of course he is not your perfect Telly soap lead who almost always does the right thing..He is flawed and that makes him relatable..Raman is exceptionally vulnerable when it comes to Adi and nothing in this world can make him do something which in his opinion harms that boy in any way..He was totally in character IMO..You could see how horrible he felt about himself once he got back home..

Originally posted by: akruz

Exactly his character..But dont u think this character needs some redemption to make it a bit likeable and realistic to audience..parents ofcourse love their kids ...if this is obsession he should better get himself treated...this is definitely not love, for if it was love, he would have tried to bring his son in the right path rather than supporting him for every wrong step he takes

Of course..I do feel bad for Ishita cos the issue is complex..Its tough to deal with a man who comes with so much emotional baggage..But my only point was that Raman is not ruined..He was just in character..Raman overlooking Adi's pleas and getting Shagun arrested is what i would call out of character 😆 Raman's mistake is that he thinks pampering = good parenting..He has no idea how to deal with Adi..So he basically does everything under his control to get his approval..Which is really really sad..

Its just after the mind games ashok n shagun have played with him and he learned from tht he is falling for it again just for the sake of tht kid i get it its his son who he hasnt been in much contact with but if i was in tht position i would have used this as a leverage to get custody lol, its not just ishita tht will be disappointed by this but both families n even ruhi coz tht kid really gets it better than the adults sometimes. When all the truth comes out it will be a setback in the ishara relationship and i really hope the bad guys really get punished..

Originally posted by: -veronica-

I dont care
raman has turned grey
he is a bad human being
sad that he is male lead
people will not connect to him anymore

pt.1: If Raman did turn grey, he won't be looking so pathetic & feeling guilty.

pt. 2: Do u expect people men in real lives to be Super Man ? Life is a mixture good & bad. There's not a single soul who doesn't have both flavors mixed into them, that's what makes a human being. We are not gods or demi-gods.

pt 3: May be Ashok or Parmeet should have been lead for you, that would have suited good for you I guess, as they get away each time around with out any self consciousness.

pt 4: Actually people will def. connect to him, as you see the human angle of Raman, where in order to save his son's future, he is lying to his family, his in-laws & his own wife. In short, he is digging his own grave, as Raman is not Ashok or Parmeet to live with the guilt.

anyways.. on a side note... I don't comment usually in this forum.. But I have noted u being hyper very often, take a chill pill. Lets keep it simple, its a daily soap. You like it, u watch it, u don't like it, u don't watch it, buck stops there. Hating someone or some pair isn't gonna change a dime in the storyline.

Good to see lots of broad minded people out there who are even Ok with a husband hugging and consoling his "one hell of a cheater" ex-wife and assuring her safety and later hiding it from his wife...and calling all this as human turmoil...really great...

Aren't you overreacting a little bit. He is in conflicted situation right now. We know Raman and he will eventually tell the truth. We just have to be patient.