Raman's Question was the ANSWER[S]....

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Don't expect anything out of the ordinary...In today's episode, I heard the "unsaid words" and saw what is barely visible to the naked eyes... Maybe, I'm talking rubbish...I honestly have no idea but somehow the thoughts I'm penning down today is what's been running through my heart and mind..So I decide to stay true to them and write what I felt from within...

If you choose to read it, I would like you do something first before going ahead. Keep in mind the word, "Trust". When you think of it, whose the first person that comes to your mind? [You can share it if you want OR keep it to yourself, no worries about that.]


Raman's past was an indication of his shattered trust and love..

I believe that with trust comes love, both go hand in hand and there is no stronger bond created. The kinda bond that NOW has formed between ISHRA.


Trust...something that is very important yet neglected.

Trust...the basics of every relationship in life.

Trust...craves out the pathway to love.

I Trust You = I Love You


Raman might have openly asked Ishita if she was in love?.. Though her awkward pauses and hesitant in answering was enough to let the whole world and including Raman, know that they answer is YES... What bewildered me was how Raman had silently declared his feelings of being in love... It was subtle but he nailed it right into the heart...

Actions speak louder than words, they say but I've always strongly believed that both must work together cohesively. One is not greater than the other nor can one be valued more than the other. And it seems like Raman too is strong believer of this. Raman's actions has always indicated the impact, Ishita presently has on his life and together with his actions he has never failed to be vocal about it as well... Today's episode was the prefect example of where both his actions and words spoke volumes.


RamanKumarBhalla~~He's Past, a time when he had lost faith in the word Trust & Love... and He's Present, a time where his lost faith in word Trust & Love has been restored.

His Words:

Past: I want to be alone...[RamanKumarBhalla, long..long ago so long ago would have been anywhere in this world but never near IshitaIyer.]

Present: You want me to go alone?...[RamanKumarBhalla, today was not going to move a inch without his Biwi IshitaRamanKumarBhalla by his side.]

His Actions:

Past: Forget about even their pinky fingers touching when Raman didn't even want to be anywhere near Ishita..

Present: He tried to hold back his fear for needles but when he knew that he couldn't and needed support, his hand at the very instance reached out to Ishita and he held her hand..


Let is be his words or actions both were clear indications of how much he trusts Ishita.. I wouldn't want a person I don't trust to accompany me or be with me... I'm not going to place my fears and hold on to someone I don't trust for support.. RamanKumarBhalla is fully dependent on his Biwi and to be dependent on on someone doesn't come by easily without trust...

Trust, to me is like the foundation to a relationship and with trust comes love...Many might say, love is the basics of all but to me trust is the key foundation. Without a strong foundation, even the world's most amazing creation Dubai's Burj Al Arab will not be able to withstand the force that hits it..If a building made of stones, bricks, cement, glass and ETC cannot withstand without a strong foundation..How will a relationship stand tall without a strong a foundation? Trust is the root of a relationship and when a strong foundation is laid out, love is born. With each passing day, love grows..and the thing about love is, it doesn't need water or food to grow it needs love... Yes, love needs love to grow.. When love is just one sided, it withers soon..because there is no one to reciprocate it... That's why they always say, one sided love hurts more... One of the reasons why, ISHRA have always been protective of their feelings.. Neither want theirs to become a one sided love... Well, now they don't have to hold back anymore I suppose...


The ultimate question of all, "Kahin Tumhe Mujhse Pyaar Toh Nai Ho Gaya?"

I felt this was more of an answer or should I say answers disguised in the form of an question... This one question held the answers to many such questions that had been lingering in ISHRA's relationship... Raman proved that he's no bacha, he dared to put forth such a bold question..he already knew the answer but what he expected or expects through this isn't just a mere Yes, it's way more than that... Through this question, he had bared it all in front of her... And not forgetting the questions that followed by, he was giving her answers more than questioning her... Answers to the questions that had been running inside Ishita's mind... Ishita is in love..you know it..I know it and even Raman knows it. But she's still not at the stage to confess it in fact not even acknowledge it... But nothing goes unnoticed by RamanKumarBhalla.. Ishita forgot that her Husband is no ordinary man and fooling him is something she would have to spent years and years training for...He's seen through your soul Mrs.IshitaRamanKumarBhalla, he knows what's inside your heart..and seems like till he gets it out from you, his grilling is not going to stop... It's funny how, Ishita was the one stammering and being all hesitant when it was Raman who had openly bared his heart and he was standing there looking all calm,cool and collected..


I loved how, Raman was just silently listening to his Biwi while she was how he can't have food due to the blood test... I loved how, he wanted them to go together to fetch Ruhi back... I loved how, his heart went out to her seeing her in tears for his pain... I loved how, Raman had openly surrendered to his Biwi and has given her all the rights to hit him if she wishes but of course with one exception, it had to be done within the 4 walls of their house... and mostly, I loved how he was able to understand her unspoken words...<This.. is only possible if you're in love...

Today's episode had a collections of so many little things that were nothing but clear indications of ISHRA's Relationship foundation...It's been laid and by the looks of it, ain't no force of any kind however strong it might be can break apart our ISHRA...


Yes, I saw all the witty attacks and funny moments as well but than I saw something more... Maybe, whatever I stated doesn't make a single sense OR maybe it does.. If it bored you, I'm sorry.. Because I know, nobody wishes to spend their Sunday Afternoon being bored to death...LOL Have a great Sunday everyone... SPA and Gold Awards today, so all be prepared...

P.S. Rushing off now...I might change my title if anything better strikes me...😉


-Shiva/Shivu/Shiv [However, you wish..😆]

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Nikki_Titli thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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excellent post lik alwz SB...👏👏👏...

TRUST is the apt word..!!n hw brilliantly u gave apt example for his past n present-words n actions...tht ws enough..!!

Raman is very very unpredictable...This is the 2nd time,his words r givin indication tht hes kinda sure Ishita loves him..But khud kab realise karega Dhakkan Kumar?😆

my full take can be seen here yaar...4 ghante baitke,likhi...so no energy to repeat all over again...sorry..😳
Are Re Are KUCH Ho Gaya...Humne Toh Pehchaana..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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superb post shiva. its every word makes complete sense.
Thanks a lot for this! !!!

'action n words should go together ..'
loved it how u linked it to our raman, his past action n words :)

and ur understanding of trust, its place in every relationship, love. awesome dear 👏


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Posted: 11 years ago
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wow again another wonderful topic Shiva. .great analysis. .past and present ...soo true..he moving each and every moments in present. .which he cannot get from his past life trust, friends, respect, support, caring, love..soo true his life fully changed. .by ishita beautiful angel entry..as ruhi mom..now turning yowards Raman Kumar bhalla wife...how bold he asked u not love me na..bit he capture her each lies..soo he only knows how to get truth out.dear waiting for that..shiva great post awesome dear..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved ur post trust is main pillar of any relationship
vidya29 thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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That was a real good read and deep too.I like reading your posts.You don't mince words and the posts are peppered with maturity,musings,learnings,anecdotes and your own brandd of masti.Definitely not a boring sunday read! 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Such a beautiful post! and well said!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shivu lovely post ...
Hugz to you 🤗
You past & present comparison is apt . RKB knows it now Ishu loves him aur har bar ki tarah he ig going to get it from her mouth ...😳 Now I am waiting to see Ishu Catching Raman in same way 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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True post! You said everything!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Rkb is a unpredictable man!!

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