Dheere Dheere..Jiya Ko Dheere Dheere..Bhaayo Re Saibo!!

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Helloo YHM-ianz...πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ...What a sweetness filled epi tonite..!! LOVE IS IN THE AIR...
...Thank u YHM CVs...Its such an endearing feeling to see BOTH Raman and Ishita falling for each other at same time..!! Karan Patel and Divyanka Tripathi-words are not enough to appreciate the level of perfection with which u two r portraying this best phase of IshRa...Just heartfelt thnx a ton to u two..!! U two make us feel IshRa is there FOR REAL...😳😳...!! And am extremely back to make an IshRa topic aftr almost a week..Also this is my 40th YHM topic i hv made...just 10 more left for half-century for YHM topics count......Nywz nw jst get straight to the post...

Raman Kumar Bhalla...The man who used to detest Ishita's presence to the core,few months back is now FLOORED by her presence n just cant imagine his life without her...πŸ˜†πŸ˜‰..He is falling hard for her for both her inner n outer beauty..!! Her thoughts means a lot to him,jo few months pehle aisa bilkul bhi nahi tha..πŸ˜†πŸ˜†...The best example is his approach towards making Ishita involved in Aditya matter..!! Pehle he forcefully dragged her to Adi matter(makin ishu say sorry to Adi) and today he genuinely wants Ishu to give her consent to Bala teaching Adi dilse n not forcin his decision on her..!! As he feels Ishu might get hurt if she comes to knw Bala is teachin Adi,he hv think of a route where he can make her understand and NOT ANNOUNCE HIS DECISION to her lik last time n hope she would giv her consent..!! And thtsy i am loving his all fake antics to make Ishita say yes for Adi and i am finding them as cute coz this time its not just Aditya,its abt Ishita too for him..!! There ws ABSOLUTELY NO NEED for Raman to go out of the way n do all these n he could hv just told his decision lik old Raman as puraane Raman ko koi fark nahi padta if his decision would hurt Ishu or not..!! But current Raman mein puraane Raman ka koi naam-o-nishaan bhi nahi hai...πŸ˜†πŸ˜†...Current Raman,either completely avoids situation which can make Ishu hurt(reason y he tried his best to avoid Parmeet coming to Simmi's kid ka naamkaran function)or atleast make her feel less hurt(thtsy hes doin all these manao ishita mission for adi coz along with Adi gettin best teacher in form of Bala,he ALSO wants to let ishu knw "indirectly" tht he respects her feelings,evn if she giv her concern nt tht much happily atleast she could see Raman genuinely wanted herself to give her consent if he makes her happy by his mission)..Anyways,though this ishita ko patao current mission for Adi had Raman clearly fakin many things,which Ishu herself knw too..but he did END UP DOING SOME THINGS FOR REAL too and tht made evn Ishu doubt tht is he changing or doing things only for Adi..πŸ˜†πŸ˜‰..!! Before i get into real things raman did for ishu,i hv to do small mention abt Raman-Mrs Iyer scene..Tht ws 200% genuine..!! It ws a son-in-law's way to cheer up his mom jaisi mother in law..He did hear hw much she wanted to attend Pooja,bt coz of her current condition she couldn...But Raman made sure Mrs Iyer attend the funtion..So he carried her in his arms frm Iyer house to the place where his car ws there..!! That he did purely for Mrs Iyer,NOT TO PATAOFY ISHITA..πŸ‘πŸ‘...

Now back to IshRa...The FIRST GENUINE MOMENT in the mission came tonite in the 2nd bedroom scene of tonites epi...πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ..Raman ws all ready in his south indian look at raat ke 2.30am...πŸ˜†πŸ˜†...But when he saw Ishita sleeping peacefully,he couldn control...He ws all angry tht when he ws wide awake for the function,there Madam jee ws sleeping ghode bechke..πŸ˜†πŸ˜†...So bade gusse mode mein gaye Ishita ke paas to wake her up...πŸ˜†πŸ˜†..But the moment he saw Ishu sleeping like an angel,with hairs falling on her face and some other things too πŸ˜†πŸ˜‰, KK mode of Raman ws ACTIVATED...😎πŸ₯³...He ws KHULLAM KHULLA DROOLING AT ISHITA and all smiling to himself lik a luv stuck boy...πŸ˜†πŸ˜†...And knwing KK, drooling ke saath aur bahut kuch mann hi mann imagine bhi kar rahe the seeing her darling KKSS sleeping...πŸ˜†πŸ˜‰...But because Sane Bhalla in Raman knew tht agar KK ko abhi control nahi kiya toh jo kuch bhi vo mann mein soch raha tha,he would actually end up DOING IT with Ishita,jo ki abhi nahi hona chahiye as they hvnt confessed their love to each other..πŸ˜†πŸ˜†...So sane bhalla finally took the control of situation n made KK come out of his WILD DREAM LAND...πŸ˜†πŸ˜†...And uss chakkar mein,sane bhalla also made Ishita awaken too by mistake..πŸ˜†πŸ˜†... Jo kaam KK nahi kar paaye,vo sane bhalla ne kiya n Ishu ws finally awaken..!! But yes hv to say,agar Raman ko Ishita se sach mein pyaar nahi hota,toh KK KABHI NAHI AATA in this scene... But he came n thts another indication tht his drooling ws for real n tht too poore dilse...HAQ SE..πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰...

Next scene is after all Iyers enter his car,outside car,before Ishu got into car,Raman stopped her..He then complimented her for gajra n said in the pooja evryone will look at her only..!! Now this tareef is half fake IMO,bt half real too...Raman in the 1st ishra scene tonite,had said gals generally loves going for coffe dates,shopping n all..So he ws ACTUALLY seeing Ishita also in tht general category..!! But v clearly knw Ishita is a person who gets happy evn in simple things..!! So being the CEO minded Raman,i STILL FEEL he complimenting her gajra came frm his generalising Ishita with other common women who loves compliments frm their husbands n thought of winning brownie points with tht..!! Aisa nahi hai ki Ishu dnt lik compliments,bt currently she ws nt at all hvin any umeed frm Raman n she ws fine with it too..!! So gajra compliment looks fake to me..But in his line of hw everyone in the pooja gonna see his wife,tht ws real for me coz indirectly he ws tryin to say to her that he donno abt others,bt for him SHE IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN he hv ever seen..!! That was real n thts wht touched Ishita too...Gajra compliment looked fake to Ishita too n thtsy she din evn waste a second to ask him is he being sarcastic or wht,meanin indirectly she ws askin whether this tareef ws part of his mission..πŸ˜†πŸ˜†..But the moment he said tht line-"aaj pooja mein sab mere biwi ko dekhenge",she knew he ws being SERIOUS indirectly..!! He also knew he ws being serious n thtsy both ended up doing a REAL EYE LOCK and its tht pic i posted at starting of this topic..
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Now moving on to Ishita Raman Kumar Bhalla..Like Raman,even she used to hate him to the core initially few months back..But now madam khud realise nahi kar rahi tht her world nw starts and ends with Raman...πŸ˜†πŸ˜‰...Aur itna hi nahi,Raman ke pyaar mein vo khud itna change ho gayi hai ki poocho hi mat..πŸ˜†πŸ˜†.. Few months back for Adi sorry drama,when she realised Raman did drama of taking Ruhi-Ishita out for dinner ws for Adi,she HATED it..!! And today she ws the one who ws encouraging him to do all tht drama for again Adi again with her..πŸ˜†πŸ˜†...Old Ishita ko Raman ke drama se irritation aur nafrat hoti thi aur current ishita ko wohi drama by wohi Raman ab achche lagne lage hai...πŸ˜†πŸ˜†...Itna hi nahi,old ishita Raman-Adi rishte ko kabhi samajh hi nahi paayi...But current Ishita,Raman se bhi zyada..Ishita ab samajhne lagi hai Raman-Adi rishte ko...Itna samajhne lagi hai ki vo khud chahti hai Raman-Adi ke rishte mein sudhraav ho n for tht she dnt evn mind if her own brother in law can be medium to start tht change of eqn b/w Raman n Adi by bcomin Adi's teacher...πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘..So when she realised Raman is trying to make her say yes for making Bala the teacher for Adi,purani Ishu hoti toh offend ho jaati...but yeh waali toh bilkul bhi nahi..πŸ˜†πŸ˜†...Instead she decided to do chance pe dance..She made sure Raman will try her level best to manofy her(evn though she had already said yes to bala)...πŸ˜†πŸ˜†..It ws her plan basically to hv fun with her Raavan Kumar..But wht she din knew ws she herself ws gettin trapped in it..πŸ˜†πŸ˜†..She did realise amidst all cute fake dramas Raman did to impress her for adi,she din fail to recognise THE REAL THINGS he did too-lik his genuine love n care towards his mom by makin Mrs Iyer attend pooja,his real compliment of hw evryone gonna look at her in Pooja as she ws lookin stunning...All these were making her think if her Ravan Kumar is actually doing as part of mission or is he changing for real?But Ishita darling ek sawaal tum apne aap se bhi kar leti...Are YOU realising u r ALSO CHANGING?πŸ˜†πŸ˜‰...U hated drama n nw u only encouraging Raman to do drama..U disliked Adi's presence in his life as u felt it ws making Raman do all wrong things n nw u want his presence in Raman's life coz u realise thts wht makes Raman happy...Raman ki khushiyaan ek zamaane mein never matterd to u..But now seeing him happy u r also happy..πŸ˜†πŸ˜†...Take tonites epi as example..In the kitchen scene,when Toshi told Ishita to see how Raman n Mr Bhalla r hvin so much fun together by watching cricket n both r being so so happy aftr ages,Ishita ws all goin full smiley smiley n evn thanked Toshi for no reason out of blue..πŸ˜†πŸ˜†..Toshi ws surprised hearing it n she askd y thanks to which Ishu told for likin her pakode she made n Toshi answered hw can tht be possible when Toshi hvnt ate her pakode by then...πŸ˜†πŸ˜†..Bolo Ishita apne pati ko khush dekhne ki khushi main itni khud khush ho gayi kya ki baaki logo se kya bol rahi ho yeh khud tumhe bhi andaaza nahi??...πŸ˜†πŸ˜†...Dhakkan kahin ki..πŸ˜†πŸ˜†..


So all these moments shows the GROWING LOVE b/w Raman and Ishita..And how beautiful is their current phase nw...From the stage of i dnt care what u are,who u are to the stage of i do care evry lil,big things abt u-IshRa hv travelled a lot..!! And thtsy jo ek zamaane mein jaani dushman ki tarah nafrat karte ek doosre se ,ab ek doosre ko achche lagne lage hai...And this is THE REASON i used these lines from "Saibo" song from the film-"Shor In The City"as my topic title as it totally suits IshRa of tonites epi and as well as current phase of IshRa..!! Even the pic i posted at starting of post,can be givn this caption which is the topic title.....

Dheere Dheere..
Jiya Ko Dheere Dheere..
Bhaayo Re Saibo!!

^^tht means slowly slowly this soul is enchanted by u
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Posted: 11 years ago
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NIKKOOO FINALLY! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€— oh man it feels like AGES since I've edited my post on any of your threads yaar πŸ˜³πŸ˜† (well except for KK one :P) and I'm SO SO glad you're back with an IshRa topic after a week! I was really missing them! 😳 BTW! Congrats on your 40th topic yaaraa woohooo! πŸ₯³ Hopefully by your 50th topic these dhakkans come to realization of their love just like you wanted! πŸ˜ƒ So without any further ado.. let's get on to today's IshRa scenes! πŸ˜ƒ
1) The way Raman approached Ishu and asked her out on a coffee date and then later a long drive or shopping.. uff HOW romantic this "ramantic" bhalla is! πŸ˜‰ he knows his JKR so well.. he know she loves going out for coffees just like typical "friends" do.. yeh lo isne bhi "dosti" ka naam chipkaa diya dhakkan kahinka! πŸ˜† -- side note: you know how he said "aaj ruhi bhi nahin haii.." my dirty mind got ACTIVATED.. I don't think I need to explain why :P 🀣

2) It was SO CUTE how Ishu checked his forehead.. if he had a fever or not.. bechaari ko dhakka lag gaya ki uska Raavan Kumar achanak se Ram Kumar kaise bangaya! 🀣 But I'm glad she figured out he was doing all this to "pataoo" her for Adi's tutoring sessions.. smart girl Ishu! πŸ˜‰ hahaha Loved the 24 hour-Ishita-banke-raho-challenge.. LOLL RKB's face was PRICELESS! <3 aakhir woh apni biwi ke liye KUCH BHI karne ko taiyaar hai! πŸ˜‰πŸ€£

3) MANGOES! AHH I LOVE mangoes.. they are my most FAVORITE FRUIT! πŸ˜ƒ and Ishu loves them too.. aur jab RKB ko pata chal gaya toh of course he would use mangoes to makkhan lagao his wife! πŸ˜‰πŸ˜† but seriously that was SO SO sweet yaar! <3 again I want an RKB for myself ABHI ABHI ABHI! πŸ˜†

4) I LOVE it when Mihika teases her Akka and brings out a sharmeeli sharmeeli Ishu in her! πŸ˜‰ I find it SO cute when Ishita blushes whenever she gets teased about Raman! πŸ˜³πŸ˜†

5) RAMAN IN A VESHTI <33333 HOW FREAKING ADORABLE! All for his wifey dearest and bechaara 2:30 AM pe uth gaya! Hats off to him! πŸ˜† and AWWW the way he was "nihaaring" her when she was sleeping.. that was PAKKA KK as you said.. he couldn't get enough of drooling while watching his JKR sleep.. kuch na kuch toh ho hi jaata if that glass hadn't fallen down! πŸ˜‰ There was just SO much love and affection in his eyes and in that smile.. he ADORES Ishita with all his heart.. it proves how much he NEEDS and WANTS her in his life! 😳 My RKB ka pehla pehla pyaar! hayeee!

6) He even chose a saree for her! ☺️ CAN HE SERIOUSLY GET ANY CUTER?!!? RAMAN WHY YOU GOTTA BE SO CUTE?!?! πŸ˜† And along with that he brought Amma downstairs in his arms! I just could not stop grinning.. what an ADORABLE son-in-law is he? No wonder Ishu is head over heels in LABH with him! πŸ˜‰πŸ˜† It was such a sweet gesture and it was 100% GENUINE! 😳 Ishu loved that about him! 😳

7) hehehehe "yeh phool tum pe ache lag rahe hain" "aaj sab meri biwi ko hi dekhenge" DEAD DEAD DEAD. ☺️ Ishu toh gayi kaam se after he said that.. she was FLOORED. And yes completely agree with you Nikkoo that second line was from his heart.. completely genuine.. and that EYE LOCK! UFFF so lovely.. it was their first "lovey-dovey" wala eye lock! πŸ˜‰πŸ˜† and they didn't mind when Mihika said "baaki romance kal ke liye bachaao" hehehehe MY ADORABLE BACHAAS ! πŸ˜³πŸ˜†

8) LOLOL RKB and his one liners kick in once again :P "dara singh ka fan club" 🀣🀣 you can be the president of that club and make your JKR the vice president! πŸ˜‰πŸ€£

9) He sat in the pooja JUST FOR HER! 😳 that in itself was such a big thing even if he was doing it to pataao her.. he REALLY has changed and ONLY for her! Loved how lovingly Ishita made him drink water and asked him to sit outside if he wants.. but he denied. He wanted to be THERE for her! as HER husband! 😳 that's what love is all about.. being there for each other! 😳

10) Ishita.. no need for any confusions.. your patidev HAS changed for the better and that too only for you! πŸ˜‰πŸ˜† yess he's a dhakkan and will give you mixed feelings and all but no worries we are here to parda-faash RKB's REAL feelings for you! πŸ˜‰πŸ˜†

Once again, AWESOME AWESOME post NB! :D You explained everything SO well and the song is SO SO apt! Saibo is definitely one of my favorites and the pic you used with this line is EPIC totally perfect for this song! πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜³ here's a song of the day from my side! :)

(It's in Ishu's POV)

"naa kuch pucha.. naa kuch maanga.. tune dil se diya jo diya.. na kuch bola naa kuch tola.. muskuraake diya jo diya.. tu hi dhoop tu hi chaaya.. tu hi apna paraaaya.. aur kuch na jaanu bas itna hi jaanu.. tujhme rab dikhta hai yaara mein kyaa karoon.."

Hope you liked it! :D Till next time my pyaari behna! I LOVE MY RS! YOU DA BEST GIRL! *MUAAAHHH* πŸ€—
Edited by -Garima- - 11 years ago
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Nikki my mentor my partner .. A bada wala hug for making this post πŸ€—

First of all... I love love and just love your post... you got all the details and best moments of today's sweet epi πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘... and congrats on your 40th topic
And do you know how much I love the song Siabo!!! Apt title and choice of song πŸ˜ƒ
Now hopefully I am coming back to my routine of editing my comments on your post same day...as usual it will be long πŸ˜†
So my take for this epi...
RKB... Dude YOU IN LOVE ... keh diya na ...BAS πŸ˜ƒ..yes initially all this pataying IRB was to make her say yes... but as you perfectly said ... if this was old RKB he wouldn't have bothered with all this tam jham in the first place... but NO ... he is actually wanting IRB to genuinely give consent for Adi to be taught by Bala... he wants her to be happy with what is happening with his family members...
So some of his efforts may look fake and like bribery ... but just look at his intentions ...he now not only wants a good education for his son like any father ... but also his WIFE to be a part of this and be happy about it too because of the differences between Adi Shagun and Ishita... this concern is from RKB the hubby
In the first scene... when RKB comes up to her and says ... tumhari chuti haina aur Ruhi bhi nahi hai... I was thinking and I hope Ishita was thinking... so Ruhi isn't here yes... to ab kya irada hain hmm?? ... tells tellsπŸ˜›πŸ€£ (thank you Garima for reminding me of thisπŸ˜‰)
Now him agreeing to go for the Pooja... even if it wasn't about Adi... he would have done nakhra's yes... he would have maybe mocked IRB yes... lekin he still would have attended for Amma and Appa... and then him helping Amma ...carrying her from 3rd floor to the car... this was the same SIL who saved his MIL life and was so worried for her as he would be for his own mother .. the same SIL's care
Bedroom scene...yes he was in a taunting mood...seeing his wife sleeping ghode gadhe bechke πŸ˜†... but as soon as he knelt and sat near the couch... he was a goner πŸ˜†... I quote you Nikki... Khullam khulla drooling over his wife ... (btw I loved the white satin shirt πŸ˜›)... bilkul hi kho gaya in his biwi's beauty ... or shall I say sleeping beauty .. this was RKB the hubby again ... hayee I was like dhakkan RKB beta aise hi ghoor te rahoge ko *ahem* chamatkaar ho bhi sakte hain πŸ˜†πŸ˜†...
Oh and did you notice the wind of the fans made someone's kurti flutter πŸ˜›πŸ˜†
But he had to control... and he snapped out of his trance...πŸ˜†... him picking out a saree for her ... now this was just adorable... just look at this love struck RKB πŸ˜†
Now gajra scene... Nikki believe me I share same feeling .. when he mentioned about the gajra .. that looked fake to me too... but what he said after ...aaj sab meri biwi ko hi dekhenge... that was 100% shud desi ghee jaise pure... yeh dil se tha πŸ˜ƒ.. and the fact that he said meri biwi, not tumhe .. that was the main acknowledgement by him again ... and that smile at the end with the eyelock...
IRB... WOMAN YOU IN LOVE ...kehdiya na ...BAS πŸ˜ƒ... just look at her... she herself wants the father son relation to be bridged... she wants Adi's education not to affected by others silly war games ... and that too because she knows how much Adi means to her hubby ...sach love kaha dekh ne ko milta hain
She also knew why RKB was being ever so sweet to her... but she wanted this drama to continue... she wanted her hubby to give her attention... and she KNEW when it was REAL and when it was him just trying to IMPRESS her ... that is why like you said she asked if he was serious about gajra comment ... but next one looking gorgeous ... she actually smiled dil se...knowing this was a genuine compliment from her husband.. hence a sweet and love filled eye lock was there
And her mindlessly saying thank you to Toshiji... I mean IRB do you even know you on planet LOVE RKB MY PATI ??... seeing her husband stress free hoke enjoying a cricket match ... uski khud ki khushi ka koi thikana nahi tha .. πŸ˜†
Saying this... I guess RKB chun chun ke badla lega from his JKR πŸ˜† ...not for any malicious intent...but just to annoy her like he usually does and then enjoy the impact πŸ˜†...one liners bhi aayenge ... and it will be interesting to watch
Precap ... I can't wait πŸ˜ƒ
KP and DT were both fab today... nailed every expression and scene...such outstanding actors ... their comic timing is BANG ON πŸ‘πŸ‘
Just loving this beautiful transition in IshRa's relation
Bas I'm done πŸ˜›
Edited by PreciousPri - 11 years ago
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Awesome post Nikki !!!!

Tumhara Zulf ke saye mein
Sham kar loonga...




Hulcul Hui Zara Shor Hua
Dil Chor Hua Teri Aor Hua
Aisi Chale Jab Hawa
Ishq Hua Hi Hua ...



Edited by --Sia-- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nikki..Bang on post as usual...CONGRATS on your 40th post...Let me tell you ..you are an INSPIRATION...I have NEVER in all the years I have been on IF made as many posts as I have on YHM and all due to you!!!!

It was a FANTASTIC ISHRALICIOUS filled episode and KK and KKSS back in full swing...

Yes RKB was out to Patao Ishu but there were DEFINITELY times that PROVED his inner feelings of growing LOVE that he has for ISHU!!!

What an about face by RKB...before he could have cared less what she thought about his actions but now he is seeking her "approval" her "permission" to have Bala teach Adi...NOW that is the signs of a changed man...a man who is falling in LOVE with his wife and cares about her feelings!!!

The first scene where he brings the mangos was too cute (I SOO LOVE THEM LIKE ISHU)...and she knew he brought them for her...

She was so perplexed when he started saying, "Ruhi nahi hai...you must be bored, Coffee ke liye chalthe hai vagera vagera" The little gesture of feeling his forehead was cute and RKB facial expressions were totally awesome in that scene...loved their nok jhonk!!!

Neelu aaj notice thi..poor girl almost passing out with RKB kindness and that too during a cricket match...lovely scene!

He is such a good DAMAAD...kitni izaat kartha hai Amma Appa se and that was utterly GENUINE!!! Another GENUINE gesture was his carrying Amma downstairs so she could attend the function..awww..how can someone not fall in LOVE with this man!!!

The man is sexy but he looked DAMM SEXY in the veshti!!!

AWW... HE WAS BOWLED BY HIS WIFE'S BEAUTY WHEN HE WENT TO WAKE HER UP...HE GENUINELY GOT LOST IN IT! I loved that the CVs gave us the promo scene .. would have been nice if he brushed away her hair from her face but alas will wait for a future scene with that!!!
Will agree with what most have said on his "gajra comment" being fake however his "sab meri biwi ko dekhega" I felt was REAL..and the eyelock .. (that Mihika had to break L )

THE LOVE BETWEEN THESE TWO WAS SO VISIBLE!!!

Again a delisious ISHRALICIOUS episode!

Karan Patel and Divyanka Tripathi are amazing with Such NATURAL ACTING!!!

Edited by luvsagar - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Is it okay to reserve or do you need this space for BGDs? 😊
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Nikki, first, congrats on 40 YHM-related topics! I'm truly impressed with how you work endlessly and tirelessly to provide us your colorful and lovely posts! Makes this forum all the more fun and lovely! 😊 Thanks for your posts, as always!

On to my post:

This is truly the best phase in the Raman-Ishita relationship. We can discuss each little point of progression ad nauseum, which we even have at times. πŸ˜† It's these little moments, though, that make such a big difference and contribute so greatly in showing the slowly but surely changing relationship between Raman and Ishita. Tonight's episode showed great progression, but once again, under a guise. Although the guise can be frustrating, it's perfect in how it's situated and aligned with the current Raman and Ishita. As they both are new in the ehsaas phase, it's these little things hidden under third parties and external factors that make this progression all the more realistic and natural to watch; we are literally watching an initially 'arranged' married couple learn to live with, understand, and love each other. That's pretty darn close to reality in regards to arranged marriages in our society and culture, if you ask me! There were moments tonight when there was confusion and hesitation, both from the leads themselves and myself, in grasping the real vs natak. It is this confusion and hesitation, however-- in particular during this point in this phase-- that convinces me what we saw today is indeed the direction in which the characters and their love story should be heading, that everything externally aligns with everything that's happening internally and vice versa.

A major quality of the character of RKB is his love for children, almost to a fault. His love for Adi has made him do crazy things, which he realized when he used and hurt Ishita before when he made her apologize to Adi. Like you noted, Ishita was ultimately on the receiving end of major hurt in that situation. Raman did hesitate there, knew this was something he shouldn't ask, that he might regret later, that this was really pushing it, but his desperation for his son's acceptance and love was in a league Ishita and her feelings were nowhere near at that time. He therefore chose to hurt Ishita, fully aware and conscious of what he was going to do: hurt Ishita. For him, it was the situation that was unfortunate and desperate, with Ishita's feelings being a very very distant second. Present-day: we are once again presented with a situation where Raman has his son on one end, and his wife on the other. The differences here to be noted: Whereas in the previous situation Raman really did have his son vs his wife, in this situation, he only thinks he does, because the uloo has yet to completely understand Ishita 😑. When before it was directly Adi vs Ishita, Ishita was a means to an end for Raman. Now when it's not even a direct set-up with the two against each other, Raman thinks it is because now Ishita and her feelings matter, so much so that that he'll go the to lengths he did today to be careful there's not even a slight chance that he will hurt Ishita. He is now trying to make sure both Adi and Ishita are on equal footing with him in regards to him being fair, even when neither are being pitted against each other! The other difference I want to note is the level of care and consideration he is giving to Ishita and her feelings in the present-day situation. Whereas before he knew he made a mistake and hurt her, it was ultimately for Ruhi that he knew he had to do right by Ishita. During this time of their relationship, although painful for us viewers to watch, there were no feelings for each other, so Raman not considering Ishita was aligned with their then-status, which included him rectifying his mistake for Ruhi. In their current status, there are feelings for each other present, evidenced how In this situation, Ruhi is a non-factor. Raman is exercising a great amount of caution and care to Ishita'a feelings not because he's afraid of what Ruhi will feel and say if she comes to learn about this, but because he's afraid to hurt Ishita and her feelings as he has come to respect and care about both. Today's episode showed once again the internal matching the external.

Ishita has been shown to be very guarded and careful, but still loving and compassionate. We have seen that she is willing to open her heart again if she finds that trust that, although once shattered, can be re-built. Although Ishita was adamant there will never be any feelings between her and Raman and that this relationship was nothing but a compromise, it was Ishita was saw time and again being open to building an actual husband-wife relationship in addition to co-parenting. Like Raman, Ishita had been burned, once by her ex that broke her trust in love, and second by Raman, when he used to put his feelings and the feelings of others above hers. That first incident with Adi where she was made to apologize hurt Ishita deeply, and rightfully so. She understood then this was a blatant example of being used as a means to and end, and that she and her feelings were not considered once. It is therefore both surprising and not not surprising that she is encouraging Raman to manao her when she knows he's doing this with the motivation of love for his son. It's surprising considering how hurt she was before, but given the status of their relationship during that time, her hurt highlighted how distant the two were emotionally. Coming to today, it is not surprising she encouraged him as she has come to understand Raman and his heart, and knows he's a good person who is now really trying to do right by both his son and his wife. She now realizes that Raman does take her feelings into consideration, but I bet she wasn't expecting the extent! πŸ˜²πŸ˜† Given that there are now real feelings between two outside of their mutual love for Ruhi, Ishita trying to make Raman realize how he's an idiot for still not understanding her is therefore very much in-character and logical and cohesion storytelling.

A brief (hope I can make this brief πŸ˜†) highlights for me from this episode: Raman's smile when he gave Ishita the mangoes, his smile when he saw her sleeping (and had to snap himself out of it πŸ˜†), that gorgeous eyelock and smiles from both after he said how everyone will be staring at his wife. Hayyy. Coming back to my point about the hesitation mixed in with feelings, these were the moments I found genuine, with everything else mixed with hesitation and confusion for both Raman and Ishita (and me! Haha.). I think as much as Raman would like to admit everything was for Adi, it's hard to argue considering how he went above and beyond, which even Ishita noted (hence the confusion for all). πŸ˜ƒ Raman is in serious denial mode if he thinks Ishita expects or wants all of this, when I'm sure he knows by now that just a small gesture from him and she will melt. πŸ˜ƒ

So for me, this episode had a little confusion, a little hesitation, a little denial, a little love, and lots of progress! And that, right there, is why today was so perfect when looking and matching these emotions and moments against the evolving Raman and Ishita relationship.

Acha I really need to sleep now because it's almost 1 and I have work in the morning. πŸ˜•πŸ˜†

Thanks for the post! 😊
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Originally posted by: serendipity.

Going to keep it short and sweet... (or so i'll try) hehe/

Yesterday's episode: ONE WORD: B E A U T I F U L !
BAS! What more to describe? it was an out and out IshRa-licious epi, and a wholesome treat 😳 phir chaahe woh Raman ki over sweetness with wife and fam ho... ya his frustration at doing things... LOL. LOVED LOVED LOVED the parts where his genuine ASLI feelings were taking over, and he was trying to make himself believe that its only for his son... when it wasnt, in reality.


I absolutely LOVED how Raman over show karraha tha and was trying to impress ishita with the mangoes πŸ˜† hehehe, repeating her very own dialogues... and then agreeing on coming to the Pooja... yehi nahi, he HIMSELF Proposed the idea of wearing a veshti ANDD HAHAHA HILARIOUS, when Appa k saath jaate jaate he made sure it was an awesome move by him and that he had gotten full marks by confirming with her through a thubs up! HAHAHAH HILARIOUS! 🀣

All the IshRa scenes were too cute, Raman's expressions... "Face pe mat jao, face aisa hi hai, Bhaavnaaon ko samjho" < 🀣 🀣 E P I C! LOLOLOL The whole episode was soo soo good i was grinning like an idiot through out... IshRa are too cute. The best part was when hubby dear was all dressed and decked up in a Veshti at around 2:30 am & came to wake his dear wife up... LOLOLOL "Uthjaa KumbhKaran!" 🀣 LOLOLOL I can soo soo understand the feeling when youre awake early in the morning (yeh toh night thi :P) lol and the other person/people are asleep... Dil karta hai GALA DABADO! 🀣 hahaha JEALOUS FEELS! :P When he comes to her and she turns and then typical hawaaien and THAT SCENE where the world stops and only the two remain... lost... woh BEST tha! <33 aah the typical E H S A A S ! <33 HIS Nice content smile/grin... staring at her... lost in her... KK in action... thanks to the hawaaien... was just plan BEAUTY! [8-.] <3 ... WHEN Ishu got ready and came and he saw her KHULLAM KHULLA IN-YOUR-FACE Tareeke se scanning her 360 degrees... HAHAHAHA LOVEEE! <3 and then telling her that the flowers look good on her today :P and that everyone would be staring at her tonite... hehehe/... it was cute... but umm... definitely not AS genuine as id want it to be :/ :$ it was pretty obvious... but its okay... har dialogue, har harkat, har gesture mai kaheen na kaheen toh sacchai chupii thi warna woh karta hi nahi... Adi k liye bhi nahi! 😊 All the scenes at the Pooja were beautiful <33

Ab kal Lap mai bithaane k liye utaavla huii raha hai Bondwa ;) hehehe i am LOVING his eagerness and desperation! :P

cantt comment more gtg

BYEE! πŸ€—


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Originally posted by: ForbbidenLove

Awww, as usual AWESOME BLOSSOM Post NB...πŸ€— LOVED each and every bit of it... I was in LOVE with ISHRA all over again after today's episode..especially with Raman...πŸ˜‰πŸ˜³

When I saw Karan walked in wearing the Veshti... Absolute FANGIRLING Moment☺️ I truly adore MEN who look SEXY wearing a Veshti.. thus far it's only been My Appa and now Karan has joined the list...πŸ˜‰



When Raman was getting LOST in his Biwi DIVINE Sleeping Beauty... He could have gone on staring at her for years & years... AND..I was like,


When he said, "Aaj Puja Mein Sab Meri Biwi Ko Dekhenge"... I literally just,


ALL in ALL..throughout the entire episode Raman was basically looking like this whenever he was near Ishita...LOVE struck Puppy.


When I saw the PRECAP,



P.S. Woke up midway from my sleep, saw you update on FB so came to read and eventually commented too...heheheheπŸ˜† Defo not ramaz of any sort but just a little on what I felt...😳 Back to sleep now...


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Nikki big big hug πŸ€— reading this i would never think any of us hail from the KK family🀣 IshRa/KK bring out all the different sides of our personality- ahemπŸ˜³πŸ˜†

Ok I'm going to discuss Ishra here because seriously i just Cant get out of my head them gazing into each others eyes☺️☺️

I agree that Amma scene was totally genuine on his part. The gajra scene was a bit of both, as in felt that he was going to make a smart remark and then he circles her☺️ and its like he can't help but to tell her that everyone will be looking at HIS wife at the pooja. I ❀️❀️ how he praised her in such an indirect way but she totally got it because she couldnt help but look back at me. The look on his face---aaah KP frickin nailed it, i'm blushing just thinking about it!!!

Also I think that the fact that they used Mihika as quite a clever 'mechanism' of showing both Ishita and to an extent the audience ( though we have laser laser vision we don't need no help right Nikki?) the fact that her relationship with Raman is changing, it is evolving and there is a heap load of ehsaas going on here.

The 'sleeping beauty' scene to me completely depicted the feelings that Raman will always have for Ishita and how they are merging with his love for her. She does annoy him and she does irritate him, but he can't help but fall for this lady. She is totally winning his heart and he gets so caught up in the moment that he is looking at her in such an affectionate way- like a lover looks at his love whilst she is asleep😳. Its their differences which make them so perfect for one and other and I'm so glad to see that the core characteristics of the characters are not changing, instead we are being shown a very realistic way in which we as humans adapt and evolve when certain people come into our life.

I have so much respect for all those involved in the show, because it is truly fantastic and a credit to the tv industry in my humble opinion 😳

I am so excited to see KP and DT play out IshRa's love story ☺️


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isma..completely fine..as i saw all BGDs reservin..i reserved for RB n SB..had no plannin either...bt seems majority of BGDs here,i reserved for other two who r offline nw
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Omg bang on post nikki πŸ‘ n congratulations for half century πŸ˜‰ topics.. Look at the smile rkb has on his face can't take my eyes off...okay I haven't watched the epi yet, after I watch I will comment in detail about ishra relation moving forward 😊 πŸ˜‰ love ur posts everytime,how beautifully u capture thr emotions πŸ‘ once again dilse thank u 4 making such wonderful posts n taking ur time to make it!
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