Its Not Yet Love - IshRa - Page 6

Originally posted by: Shanig123

A very unique post Aani and I always say you have a special gift . I don't believe that they are in the phase of love yet but they have grown as two individuals who could not stand each other . I see a lot acceptance , sacrifice and comfort which is very important before you reach the ultimate , how long it will take or what will make them confess and identify that they have reached that stage only time will tell . The only thing I hope is that they will show developments soon and not in the final episodes .

But hats off to dialogue writers and the show it is the best seen thus far .

Well said Aani

Originally posted by: GredandForge

Do you always write long posts?😆

But you did good. It isn't easy to explain why you think they aren't yet in love without saying all that.

😆 not always Neha, but every once in a while I do and like you said this post needed the evidence to support my theory 😳

I completely agree with you. They aren't in love yet. This is just an acceptance phase and a lot has to happen before they fall in love. They are attracted to each other, yes but proximity and having good looks kinda does that to people so I guess that's alright.

@bold - agree they are young, good looking people who are married and stay under one roof- so its bound to affect them and make them feel attracted to each other.

This!

Another reason Raman cannot move on that easy is also because he has two kids with the woman, which is not something, someone; anyone can forget or just skip over. Not to mention the fact Shagun chooses to not leave him alone, time and again she shows up to open up old wounds, though now slowly her effect - poisonous and malicious - is not up to the par. With Ishita in his life, Raman no longer feels the joke Shagun always made him feel, the poor lone loser she painted him to be.

He is not just a married man now, he is someone who has found a solace and bliss in his life courtesy of that marriage, the woman who is now his wife that makes him rise above things. He has more to look forwards too and better things at that. his home and family don't feel like the ruins of a warzone or a disease struck place, it's a livelier, cheerful place - courtesy of his wife and the in-laws who always ensure some hustle bustle, even if it is of the crazy kind.

That right there sums up everything.

And this as well

Ishita is yet in a way a closely bound and undisclosed set of volumes - she is not merely a book to me. There are layers and stories to her, which are not even remotely touched. When the time comes that her story comes to the forth it will be quite interesting to see things from her end.

We've seen enough to know what Raman thinks or feels but Ishita is still a sort of a mystery. Its completely different from how most daily soaps are treated.

yep thats what makes me wanna watch this show - for once I am excited to know the girl' POV

Emotions and analysis aside, I really don't get some of the parts where they place the YHM title track in the background. Somehow it feels disjointed. Am I supposed to assume they are falling in love at that moment? Its all confusing🤔

LOL thanks for saying that I find the randomly played songs weird too but thats how daily shows are they place tracks out of nowhere and I guess they find it easier than to create more original scores or soundtracks 😳

Originally posted by: Fenice

That was such a long post!!!

But totally worth the space it occupied. 👏

I completely agree about the romance thing- it's a long way.

But at least their relationship is progressing slowly and steadily.

And the chase is always enduring and fun. 😆

The moments they are sharing are just the sparks which will definitely ignite the fire of love in future.

As a fan, I would love to see their relationship progress quickly but as an avid reader and writer, I know that characters need time to develop.

And I'm ready to give all the time in the world for my beloved IshRa.

Awesome post by the way, very apt and true.👏

Originally posted by: FieryLioness

Aani m yet to read this post so reserving my spot...

But reading title one thing I wanna say even be4 reading post. Watch the epi nd u will say Ishita is head over heels in love... her behaviour says it all... I never wanted this to happen at this pace :(

Originally posted by: Elita

Hmmm...totally agree with your POV. They have both suffered heartbreak and betrayal and have lived with it for many yrs. And now... married and living under the same room... they seem to be in the healing process. Apart from attraction...they are trying to know each other as individuals, parents and as spouses. And for a relation to be successful their ought to be trust, understanding, respect and love. So far we have witnessed Ishra's understanding, trust and respect for each other and with such a foundation...love will definitely blossom, but could take a little more time.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Originally posted by: smilydear

Very nice post indeed ! I completely agree with you . First of all I want to say You are one of my favorite writers here , I love to read your Posts, replies, FF And believe me I feels the same way .

thanks smily 😳

Your post said it all. I also feels they completely misunderstood each other initially. But being a Golden hearts(as they never take time to correct themselves if they found they were wrong, they Loved there Loved ones and can do anything for them) takes some time see the goodness in each other, You picked up the right moments when they really feels the goodness but hid that inside there anger.He first saw when Ruhi got a toothache, the bonding of Ruhi and Ishita in clinic, she protects Ruhi's life in a very dramatic way , Yes Raman got shock of his life that His daughter choose Ishita over her parents, that itself was eye opening for both parents. For Ishita she saw his goodness long back but all of that was in dormant estate when he protected her with those rickshaw drivers he gave her his hand to protect falling , to give a positive feedback to adoption guys, to convince Prateek to marry her as she was not at fault, to bandage her and gave a lift and specially mentioned that he is not doing it for Ruhi but for her.

the misunderstandings clouded their judgments but now they have a clearer idea of each other for sure

But when they came together for Ruhi they had lots of problems, Initially for Raman to accept Ruhi was the main Issue he was unknowingly hurting her girl BUT when ISHITA said Sorry to ADI n Shagun Just for the sake of Ruhi then Ruhi's reaction and listening Ishita-Ruhi conversation was the last stone to hit him he broke and being a self realizing person he gave a reality check to himself and after that He took away all the barriers for RUHI, He got confidence from Ishita that she is not going to leave his child even if he can be miserable to her.

yep that scene actually made him realize what he was doing it triggered the change we see in Raman today, he saw the consequences of his actions on his child and also understood how he wronged the woman who never deserved to be treated the way she was

BUT he realizes goodness of Ishita during Parmeet and Simmi's helping track, and then During Land deal. For Ishita that was not a particular point where she realized that he is a nice man, as she herself mentioned in last night speech that Raman's goodness can be seen in small gestures like when Ruhi was angry he took so much effort to get her forgiveness, for Simmi he didn't think twice to give money, to give proper respect to her and his parents , But she feels touched for herself when he gave that Tamil speech.

the land deal serves as another wakeup call for sure as well as her aiding perv and simi in their time of need for her too things came to light via small things but the first one was when he defended her while she was drunk and later of course proved her innocence after perv tried to defame her

I can say after the Punjabi speech they accepted kindheartedly each other as a COMPANION. They are getting Attracted towards each other now They have no hesitation to say anything to each other and taking there first step towards there Friendship is they both are acknowledging each other in Public. Raman already understood Ishita's importance during riot's time But behaved like a partner as you said during Parmeet's track he realized his mistake that he has to be a little open that his wife can come and talked to him regarding these matters. Ishita didn't make a big issue during Parmeet n then after Dance with Shagun as she knows her husband has a different way of handling the situations and she accepts and understood those ways and in a matured ways she showed him during both the tracks.

this is def the friendship phase and the understanding zone that is creeping in her along with the realization that they are now accountable for each other

Before Love I want there Friendship to blossom. They already took step to know each other and they still have a long way to travel that .

I am in those few believers who believes that Raman will fall for Ishita first. But seriously speaking I want Ishita to fall and accept it to Raman first as we all saw the Flirt Ishita and a completely bowled Raman , I like both of them that way 😛 .

I would love to see them fall simultaneously to be honest but Raman should confess first😳

Sorry for a long post .. Please give us beautiful stories and posts.

no need to be sorry and will try to keep posting as and when I can😳

Originally posted by: EkPaheli