What would you feel if you were in Ishita's shoes?

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kaamchorni

@kaamchorni

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

As lovely_lady said, it was a total dick move.

The whole thing made me wonder whether Raman is confused as to whether her name is Ishita or kal ka leftover pizza. No, really. His little speech about Ishita 'completing' everything Shagun left behind made Ishita out to be unwanted leftovers. His little charade, no matter what the intention, was insulting and - this pisses me off the most - completely unnecessary. There were other ways he could have handled the situation and none of them would have involved humiliating Ishita in front of a family that clearly thrives on drama.

When Raman asked Ishita to finish Shagun's dance, I could see that part of him that is still smarting from being left by the woman he adored. Yes, Raman does need closure. But being involved in a tamasha every time he crosses paths with his ex-wife is not closure. He can't be indifferent to her yet because he still harbours something for her, even if it is hatred. I understand that. But are you still telling me that his supposedly brilliant brain could only come up with THIS as a solution? Come on!

What makes me mad is that, because janaab has 'explained' himself, Ishita's feelings of hurt and betrayal are being invalidated and will probably not get their due importance tomorrow. As a viewer, I don't like feeling worried that Ishita will be mocked or (hopefully worst case scenario) screamed at for having feelings every time she expresses her anger to Raman.

Edited by kaamchorni - 11 years ago

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yhmfever

@yhmfever

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

If it was a real life situation which is next to impossible to hubby will do that

but IF
and if i was in ishita place i wouldnt accept his dance man !!!
LOL

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Binita

@...Binny...

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

I agree..

his behavior just seemed childish.. I would have been far more pleased had he simply ignored her actions all together that would have been the mature thing to do.. not only did he give Shagun a strong reaction which in turn portrayed although he may no longer care for her he still feels the need to compare what he has to what he no longer wants.. if he truly wanted to put her down he would have went ahead with the dance and proved his affection.. his happiness in his new life through his performance..

He wanted to prove a point fine.. but not once did he think of the effect this public ridicule would have on his wife.. he states she completes him she stands by his side.. what was he thinking when he compared her to the women who left him when her child most needed her.. above all this need he has to punish Shagun tends to overpower his intellect.. he should have thought of Ishita of course she was upset once she would have liked to have his entire attention.. she would have enjoyed performing with her husband for the first time and after all the effort they put in.. but most importantly overlooking Shagun's taunts would have been a slap on her face just as well.. ah well he meant well and he was most definitely in character.. hence his reaction was expected.

BUT... I can't get over his nerve to state she will finish Shagun's dance.. completely unnecessary once again she was not no. one in his life.. she should come before his ex it looks like Raman has a way to go before he can completely overcome the scars left behind by his past relationship.. !!

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john909

@john909

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

ok here raman was not wrong in what he did. it is shagun who keeps interfering in his life and also keeps trying to mess it up. raman has tolerated all kinds of nonsense from her but this time shagun crossed her limit by talking abt personal stuff abt ishita-raman. raman was right in showing shagun her place coz if he wud just keep on tolerating this nonsense, a day will come when shagun's actions would have major consequences on his relationship with ishita. when a problem is small it is better to control it then rather than waiting for it to become bigger. time and again shagun has insulted ishita so is raman is suppose to keep quiet? i dont get it, people here have issues if raman keeps quiet or raman take strong actions like this one. so far raman never took any actions against shagun's stupid plans but today instead of verbally replying her back, he showed her her place.

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xxRiaKapoorxx

@xxRiaKapoorxx

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

AMEN SISTAS, AMEN.

Like most of you said, Raman's act was ridiculous. I hated his move, and if I were Ishita, i would be pissed as eff. And I probably would really not want to accept the dance. BUT. Its a family function..Mihika-Mihir-Trisha drama is at its peak... and more than that... Ruhi is watching all of this unfold. I would really hate it, and want to say no. BUT... I would have to dance anyway, because theres so many things that could go wrong if I didnt. Which is why... Divyanka's portrayal of Ishita's anger is so apt and wonderful during the dance. Shes no longer dancing because she wants to... shes dancing because she HAS to. Inside, shes feeling pure disgust.

*sigh. I wish Raman didnt make such a shitty move. But again,... this is an indian show. an Ekta show, actually 🤔

Im really interested to see what happens after the dance. I would really like it if Ishita let herself out on Raman, and told her how pissed she is. But,... seeing that all this Mihika-Mihir drama will unfold in Raman's favor... she is probably going to feel conflicted. Shes going to have trouble understanding him. I think it would be nice if they show her sharing her confusion with Raman... you know what I mean. Like be thankful for what he did, but at the same time... get him to talk about why Shagun still matters so much to him. Raman needs to let all of his angst, revenge, grudge... all that shit needs to come out of this man before he can love Ishita. and only she can help him get out of that. Maybe, after all this... the positive will be a starting of this transformation. Maybe Ishita will express her pain and confusion, and help him figure his life out?

Looking forward to the track. Who knows what Ekta will do... she will prob bring Parmeet-Simmi nonsense into all this somehow... further delaying the Ishra development 🤔. Kya patah... kuch bhi ho sakta hai.

REGARDLESS. whatever it is... Im excited to watch! I love this show, Ishra and Divan so much... its becoming a serious obsession. Im sitting here writing deep analysis posts on this storyline... when I really should be doing all this REAL LIFE WORK i have pending. 🤓 Its 2am here!!! UGH.

xxRia

Edited by xxRiaKapoorxx - 11 years ago

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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

Exactly, I wanted to post such topic. But, you made it TM. Great topic.

I won't go saying he is wrong or not, but it wasn't necessary actually. He was right to show Shagun's place, but he couldv shown this by dancing with Ishu more passionately.

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smilydear

@smilydear

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

So much needed post. I love your post and read all the comments .

For me Raman is still not overcome with Shagun yet . If I would be at Raman's place , I could have said " Shagun, I still respect Marriage, I love my wife or not is not that important , I respect her and I'll never CHEAT on my partner, As a husband I always did and always will complete all the responsibilities" and after that did the beautiful dance with Ishita. That was enough for her to understand he actually moved on.

Raman today humiliated himself again, Shagun( which she deserved) and Ishita too . WHY COMPARISON ??? They are two individuals ? two different personality ? one women who left his 6mnth old child and one who accept the same depressed 6yr old child and make her feel like a princess. There is no way a comparison!!!

If I was at Ishita's place either i could have left the venue right away when he announce to dance with Shagun and after some time joins the party as that was a family function in clothes which are comfortable for me or if I would have stayed I did the same which Ishita did and at the end i would say " Nice performance Rama " this statement must be enough for Raman to realise what he did. I can't be childish like him , he is like a child in the party like I have this doll better then this and I want to show it to others. Raman tries to do the damage control but damage was also done by him. BUT on the contrary He is Raman and this is his style to deal with any situation and Ishita knows it . She herself said he did something good but the very next moment he did very worst which took away all his goodness.

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luvsagar

@luvsagar

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

Ishu is perfectly justified being angry! But more than angry she is extremely hurt because she was looking forward to dancing with her husband and has wholeheartedly accepted him as HER husband! However, Raman did what he did to public ally humiliate Shagun and uski aukad dikhanekeliye. He wanted to drive home that she means nothing to him and the way he apologizedti Ishu was heart melting! The way he asked her if she would walk with him in life...Beautiful and Ishu should look in his eyes where she will see his truth and his heart which had become hers...whether he verbalized it or not!

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 11 years ago

#29

This is what i wrote in another thread .

was it really necessary to make such a public spectacle and push her down ? I mean she is the mother of his kids and Ruhi was there ? She always says irritating stuff , how about ignoring ? And why should Ishita be put up at the cost of putting Shagun down always , why CVS don't show independent relation ? Its always for 'Ruhi's sake' or 'better than Shagun' .

For me as i watched i did not like it a bit coz the child was watching .

So many things were wrong .

This kind of public spectacle was not needed in Mihir's engagement .

She is ultimately [ i assume] his sister and no one likes to see a sister humiliated thus by pushing her down .

Child feels disturbed too .

Ishita felt pained , yes , but she would not have if this had totally not happened .

Last and perhaps the least , if this value ever exists in an Ekta Kapoor show who makes tamashas in each function , a gentleman never pushes a woman down . When Raman dropped Shagun home on the curfew day i felt good . Today i did not .

So she said some vain stuff , she always does that . Did not the occasion demand ignorance as the best policy ?

And why constantly talk about the ugly divorce in public . CVs seem to know very limited ways of putting Ishita on the pedestal , favorite way is putting Shagun down and jab kuch nahi bacha tab 'Ruhi ke liye .'

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ZaaraBB

@ZaaraBB

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Posted: 11 years ago

#30

THANK YOU. Atleast there is ONE person who thinks like me. If i was Ishu i would have kept walking and Wales right out and go home. Raman has been constantly placing Ishu as 'second'. and that is NOT fair.
When he stated the dialogue that the adhora dance Ishu karlegi..like everything Ishu complete after her pissed me off. Is it only me with the.thinking thay Raman had insult Ishita MORE in trying to INSULT SHAGUN. i found it very disgusting and disturbing

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