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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi everyone, I have been a silent reader and a sporadic commentor. But i felt something really awkward yesterday regarding Simmi.

Is Simmi a nutcase or what? I mean is true that Indian women do trust their husbands blindly but here it's a little weird.😕
I just find it weird that Simmi is blindly trusting her husband when again the second time his character is being questioned.😲
She should doubt about SOMETHING!
This is the second complaint on Parmeet's character.
When its the first time, fine one can thing that her husband is not at fault. But also the SECOND time when the complainant is HER OWN bhabi??🤢
A bhabi who initially supported them so much before and who has a loving husband (At least that's what the rest of the family members believe!😃) ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agree, but then again, to answer your question, Yes, Simmi IS a nutcase. and so is Toshi ji. Infact, atleast SHE shouldve been a tad bit concerned about her daughter/// family... NO! Shes only concerned about what "OTHERS" might think and she only wants to "dabaao" the matter, hush-hush mai... i mean thats so immature of her "mitti paao" it seems! -__- shes not thinking of the repercussions... just avoiding the matter. Idiot. I dislike her much more now.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: serendipity.

i agree, but then again, to answer your question, Yes, Simmi IS a nutcase. and so is Toshi ji. Infact, atleast SHE shouldve been a tad bit concerned about her daughter/// family... NO! Shes only concerned about what "OTHERS" might think and she only wants to "dabaao" the matter, hush-hush mai... i mean thats so immature of her "mitti paao" it seems! -__- shes not thinking of the repercussions... just avoiding the matter. Idiot. I dislike her much more now.


You know what? I do not find Toshiji's reaction weird because her jamai has acted sweet as ever in front of his mother-in-law! So Toshiji's actions are still justified for me to a certain extent. But definitely NOT Simmis!🤢
P.S: Thanks for replying!😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree,first time I definitely would understand simmi not doubting her husband, I mean who would, but this is a second complaint so even though she may love param, something at least should make her question. But in the end, she loves him a lot and param has never shown his bad side, his always been the perfect husband so it's easy for simmi to be blinded and I also agree about toshi in your second comment. Though both are a tad nutty already and this situation would make them go overboard. Good post hope to see more
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^ How come? Param is also very sweet in front of his wife... SHE LOVES HIM. She TRUSTS him... and should... way more than that Toshi ji should! How can a WIFE question her husband when a normal Saas isnt? She would blindly trust him and even if she does have that fear, she will not let it come out, she will be in denial. Toshi ji is completely at fault. Simmi is plain stupid, i agree, but Toshi ji? other than him being "sweet" in front of them, theres no other reason that Toshi ji has.
Not just Simmi but everyone knows about the Sarika fiasco! & still! i would still maybe give leniency to Simmu but TOSHI JI? or ANYONE ELSE in the Bhalla Family who would side with Simmi... NO WAYS!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bila_a

I agree,first time I definitely would understand simmi not doubting her husband, I mean who would, but this is a second complaint so even though she may love param, something at least should make her question. But in the end, she lives him a lot and param never shown his bad side, his always been the perfect husband so it's easy for simmi to be blinded and I also agree about toshi in your second comment. Though both are a tad nutty already and do this situation would make them go overboard. Good post hope to see more



Exactly! Even though Simmi loves her husband way too much but AT LEAST A SMALL UNCANNY THOUGHT won't be harmful right?😲
Eee. Thanks.😃
Even i'm hoping to type some more!😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: serendipity.

^ How come? Param is also very sweet in front of his wife... SHE LOVES HIM. She TRUSTS him... and should... way more than that Toshi ji should! How can a WIFE question her husband when a normal Saas isnt? She would blindly trust him and even if she does have that fear, she will not let it come out, she will be in denial. Toshi ji is completely at fault. Simmi is plain stupid, i agree, but Toshi ji? other than him being "sweet" in front of them, theres no other reason that Toshi ji has.

Not just Simmi but everyone knows about the Sarika fiasco! & still! i would still maybe give leniency to Simmu but TOSHI JI? or ANYONE ELSE in the Bhalla Family who would side with Simmi... NO WAYS!



Hmmm. Then i guess Toshiji just wanted to do justice to the saying that - "Saas and Bahus are Jaani Dushmanns!"😃
Did anyone notice that she told Ishita to end that topic there itself because she knows that the rest of the family members loves her way too much and will trust her blindly. God knows what is going on in her mind!
And Simmi is truly a DOLT! That's my point of view.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post afsanaanjum... Do post more often.

I too agree that they should have shown Simmi at least have a Questioning thought since it was a second time and then perhaps rationalizing it away. To her credit, she did listen fully and then look to Parmeet who of course wiggled away.

While of course we have no idea what will happen in the long-term, I do wish that after Perv gets thrown out, Ishu and Simmi bond and Ishu helps her becoming a stronger inner woman.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thank you.😊
I truly hope that Ishita-Simmi bond in the near future is strong enough.👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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For a moment I thought Toshiji was to worried about her daughters only. Simmi would end up alone and divorced and Rinki should be married someday... She only worries for her children.

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