Layers of the Bhalla onion - Page 6

Originally posted by: paru_rox

If Pervert could have dropped off the face of earth for just two more days, then Ishu would have become a maneka for RKB. I tell you this girl can (& hopefully will 😉) go naughty. Bechare Raman ki jaan nikal jayegi 😆. If this crappy track hadn't begun, Ishu would've definitely loved that Raman bought the extra dress in his favourite color and would have worn it for him *courtesy our tiny cupid*. She would have knocked Raman flat in the blue dress 😆

Now the dress would go into the Daily soap blackhole where all that the CV's can't/won't/refuse/don't bother to remember goes *sigh*

On a side note I want Ishu to refuse to come back to Bhalla house & Raman n Ruhi move in with the Iyer's to pataofy her ... Now that would be fun 👏

Oh and I want to hit Simmy... NOW😡

Originally posted by: Jay_tapori

@ek paheli and @forbidden love ...u ppl are such fabulous writers i love u both sooo much...tum dono ke posts mere to read list ko badhaatey jaatein hain..i am very very angry with u both...y r u both sooo awesome..haaye 😉

Originally posted by: yashasvi_88

Nice post😊 He is one of the most complicated characters of Indian Television and that is what I love the most about him. 😆

Originally posted by: bila_a

Wow, wonderful post, it's so great to see such a well thought out analysis. You have no idea how long I have waited for a good hindi serial that portrays love story's well. I'll be the first one to admit I used love watching those chocolatey hot and heavy youth oriented love stories. I'm sure you know which shows, until one day I got tired of it, I got tired of the constant angry man which are always portrayed much the same, I got tired of the horrible amount of man handling/ abuse and blatant invasion of a women's Personal space, it wasn't romantic but that's how they intended to show it,as hot romance, like that's the only way to make the couple realize their love or give them ehsaas. Don't get me started on like what you, serendipity and Rogers have said, about the whole eye locks, trip and fall, dupatta a scenes happening when the couples aren't even in love, happening every 5 seconds, it just takes me out of it now, and like you guys have said, it such a shallow basis for love to start from, it's boring and it happens so fast and it doesn't have substance.

Now getting back, YHM is nothing like that, they've been together for 5 months and no love has happened but you know what has happened great character development at a gradual pace that makes sense, how Ishu and Raman have changed, how they've changed in the way they act with one another, towards each other. Because like you said and like one of the commentators have said these two have experienced love before and it broke them and damaged them, and this process doesn't happen with trips and falls scene but through time. It's a long process especially for damaged souls, I love the fact they are slowly understanding each other, accepting each other, becoming used to each other, valuing personality then beauty even though they themselves don't realize that.

I love seeing the small details of their journey. It makes the love story so raw and real as if you are standing right next to them going through this journey with them, it gives it such rich substance and more interesting to watch. I have to hand it to the crew and cvs for such a well exucuted story and development as well as the tracks. The consistencies of the tracks and how they don't appear out of no where in each episode, it's all set up before hand and it makes sense. One thing I don't lke anymore is seeing hot romance when the two people haven't fallen in love, it just seems like it's done for shock value and the hotness, what I loved about the phone convo is it bring a whole other level of intimacy, and I love seeing that, I would take that any day, cause one thing this show knows how to do is show intimacy in different way and it's beautiful and comforting and makes our heart race and calm down,

Also karan and divyakya are amazing, the different nuances and mannerism they bring to the character makes this show for me, it's so natural and raw and feels so good to whatch them, it doesn't feel wooden or cringy. Also also karans improv, gotta love him, they are so subtle and they bring another layer to the romance scenes.

Phew that's pretty long, but your post brought out my utter love for this show, it's so unique in the way it handle it's characters and love. And you know one thing, the Ehsaas track seemed to have started way back and it's an long ongoing track under all the chaos, Ehsaas can't happen so fast, over one night or one fall. And that's what I love about this show as well. Wonderful post

Originally posted by: jeetega

Totally loved your analysis. The whole way they are taking the show is awesome. Its not like dupatta fell on hero's face and he got attracted or just because she dressed up and the hero got his heads turned. Or she started doing good deeds and he fell in love.

Raman is a man with a lot of baggage. From many flashback scenes, it's shown that he was a simple human being who was happy with simple things and was ready to work hard. He believed in goodness and easily trusted people and was loyal to the core. But he was left in mid way by his wife whom he loved and trusted the most. She publicly humiliated and made a mockery of goodness and his love and his family. Later when he succeeded financially in his life, he met more Shsguns who were ready to become his mistress or anything just like his ex-wife is. So he had stopped believing in human relationships, especially with women. He was not giving time even for his mother or sisters.

Ishita came into his life with a bang and though he has seen her goodness, he was not ready to trust her because that has become a part of his nature, post Shagun. And also like any other human being, sorry, man, he hated her lectures and ''I know it all''s. Even my husband, when sometimes happen to watch the serial, asks me "don't she have any other job than giving lecture to him. why can't she mind her own business"

when Ishita came into his life and household to be become a mother to Ruhi, then slowly he started understanding her, what she is. That she doesn't don any masks. she is what you see and doesn't care what others think or not think about her. She is a person who calls spade, 'spade', be it her family or anyone.

Actually this understanding unravel the baggage within Raman, and is becoming balm to his wounds. After he makes Ishita say sorry to Adi, Ruhi wss angry and a hatred had started to bud in her, which he saw Ishita was budding at the nip, even when she herself was not ready to forgive him. He saw her doing that even when she herself didn't trust him, just because she didn't Ruhi to grow with hatred in her heart. There he saw the difference between Shagun and Ishita. This brings him down and slowly gives him the courage to change, for the better.

The healing is making him to lower his walls, and start take notice of his surroundings. And Ishita is a part of what he is slowly building his life into. That makes him call her his Superwoman, his Jhansi ki Rani.

It will take a lot from Ishita to heal him, because when the wounds start to heal there is an itching which makes you irritated, and he will be giving all this to her only.

oh I have written too much. Sorry! ;-)

Originally posted by: GredandForge

Wow!

That was amazing and there's nothing left to add to it that hasn't been written in all the pages😆

Except for the scenes involving Parmeet, the last two episodes have been wonderful. I can't get enough of it.

The scenes were brilliant.

I always cribbed about how some incidents weren't dwelt upon but they have showed the progress in relationship really well. The easy banter, the ribbing, even the apparent hatred shows that there's a bond beyond what we see.

Also, for the second time probably, we could see that Raman is elder to Ishita not only in terms of age but also experience.

Originally posted by: Nikita99

I agree with each and every word you wrote in your post. Loved how you portray each and every aspect from Raman's point of view. I was kind of depressed after reading all these articles about upcoming track but your post made me think that there is always light at the end of the tunnel.

I really hope that Raman holds on to that feeling, that respect he has for Ishita now. It's a long shot but I really hope that his love emerges the way that it gives him courage to get out of that "web of relationships" and stand by his wife.

Originally posted by: ZenerDiode

thanks to my buddy -Eris- I got to read such a beautiful analysis post after long time .

He was visibly affected by Ishita' proximity which wouldn't allow him to look at her for long ... but also forced him to look away, especially the moment he turns his head around when Ishita had to lean in... especially the second time around when he could stand it no more - which made him take refuge in their comfort zone - taunts and bickering. this thing - a button scene is such a old Hindi film cliche but the layers somehow just added to its charm to me. They amaze me.

^^ loved this para most

I wish sslk forum could have analyzers like you for kabir rachna

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Hey so good to hear from you... Btw I keep forgetting to ask you your name 😳 Could you pls tell me that ?

thanks for the reply @ bold - I agree