My take on Raman based on Spoilers - Page 3

Originally posted by: Reina1

We are all pretty upset with the fact that Raman does not react to the reverse allegation on Ishita, and frankly so am I. But don't you think its better that he said nothing at all? Better than him joining the Bhallas on Ishita Ki Band Bajaao Wagon. It is an improvement, because earlier, he would blindly support his immediate family. He would have been the first to kick Ishita out, especially seeing these 'suggestive' messages from her. But he said nothing. We have to understand that it is a delicate position that he is. I am sure he knows Ishita is not wrong, which is why he didn't say anything. But think about it, this is his sister's husband, and Raman has experienced infidelity so he knows the repercussions on the victim . HE does not have any proof against Param right now, because he has this facade of innocence going on. So on what basis will he support Ishita and go against his sister? If he does support Ishita, then Simmi and Parmeet would leave the house livid, and everyone would turn against IshRa. There is no way of proving to the family that Ishita is not wrong then, because the culprit has fled.

There is also the aspect of denial, he would not want his sister to go through what he did. So everything considered, it wouldn't be wise for Raman to pick sides without solid proof against Parmeet, which neither he nor Ishita have. To simply say, I support Ishita only because I know she is a good woman is stupid. I am sure Shagun appeared to be a great woman at first too, look what she did. The Bhallas would never go against their lovely damaad unless there was nothing else to believe. Raman is a smart man, he would know that if Ishita was inviting Parmeet, then why do all this police drama. I am sure, Raman would look at all sides of the story, do some investigation and then support Ishita.

Right now he is at a delicate crossroads, he needs to assess everything first, so I don't think the track is completely wrong. In the end the truth is to come out, but practically. Let's give Raman the benefit of the doubt, and hope he secretly lets Ishita know that he is on her side...

Anyone agree?

Originally posted by: Malika

I appreciate ur positive opinion but sadly cannot support Raman's behaviour. Just imagine a woman, getting slapped, insulted, being put behind bars and kicked out of her home, and her husband does not say a word in her favor? Sorry, but this is UNACCEPTABLE.

If he has doubts about this and he feels he needs to communicate and sort this mess then atleast he shud have stopped mrs bhalla from kicking Ishu out.He could have said that as of now I dont know which side to trust bcoz one is my wife and other my sister, so until its proved ishita really did something wrong she wont go anywhere.

Atleast somewhere he shud stand for her self-respect. His remaining mum means he does not know how to handle a situation like a man.

Originally posted by: Reina1

We are all pretty upset with the fact that Raman does not react to the reverse allegation on Ishita, and frankly so am I. But don't you think its better that he said nothing at all? Better than him joining the Bhallas on Ishita Ki Band Bajaao Wagon. It is an improvement, because earlier, he would blindly support his immediate family. He would have been the first to kick Ishita out, especially seeing these 'suggestive' messages from her. But he said nothing. We have to understand that it is a delicate position that he is. I am sure he knows Ishita is not wrong, which is why he didn't say anything. But think about it, this is his sister's husband, and Raman has experienced infidelity so he knows the repercussions on the victim . HE does not have any proof against Param right now, because he has this facade of innocence going on. So on what basis will he support Ishita and go against his sister? If he does support Ishita, then Simmi and Parmeet would leave the house livid, and everyone would turn against IshRa. There is no way of proving to the family that Ishita is not wrong then, because the culprit has fled.

There is also the aspect of denial, he would not want his sister to go through what he did. So everything considered, it wouldn't be wise for Raman to pick sides without solid proof against Parmeet, which neither he nor Ishita have. To simply say, I support Ishita only because I know she is a good woman is stupid. I am sure Shagun appeared to be a great woman at first too, look what she did. The Bhallas would never go against their lovely damaad unless there was nothing else to believe. Raman is a smart man, he would know that if Ishita was inviting Parmeet, then why do all this police drama. I am sure, Raman would look at all sides of the story, do some investigation and then support Ishita.

Right now he is at a delicate crossroads, he needs to assess everything first, so I don't think the track is completely wrong. In the end the truth is to come out, but practically. Let's give Raman the benefit of the doubt, and hope he secretly lets Ishita know that he is on her side...

Anyone agree?

Originally posted by: Absoluv

Cud not resist posting here...coz saw ur profile pic..fellooow OLICITY shipper are u ??? me tooo...luv them both...waiting for them to happen in season 3 maybe...😛

Originally posted by: paru_rox

I agree that it might not be easy for Raman to side with Ishu without any proof for his family who clearly believe Pervmeet after the elaborate trap he has laid out.

Logically Raman is the only one who can sort this out so it will be shown that he does not consider Pervert innocent and will dig deep into the matter.

One other thing at the end of all this drama that I am interested in seeing is --- Ishu's return to the Bhalla house.
Unless Raman confides to her that he believes her and has done all this to expose Pervmeet, Ishita will be pissed off at the way she was distrusted and thrown out of the Bhalla house.

I really hope they show a track where Raman makes an effort to manaofy Ishu and bring her back with all respect once Pervert is thrown out of the house. Ishita should not come back by adhering to their fav motto of "sirf Ruhi ke liye".