A boy is the only waris? Appalled by this dialogue - Page 2

Originally posted by: .ProperPatola.

@Red- This reminds me of the saying that Daughters are daughters till life and Sons are Sons till wife

Originally posted by: bila_a

I'd like to say actually this show is far more progressive then any show on right now, yes what toshi ji said was bad and not cool, but if your gonna stop watching because for you this made the whole show regressive which I disagree with. Btw, because it doesn't then so be it plenty of other shows to watch

. It just goes to show that she was in a emotional state but more then that it shows her old school mentality and how the older generation still hold on to some traditional and an old outdated concept, when people are emotional things are said when it wouldn't be said when they are in a right state of mind it reveals and reflects their character. that kind of boys are heirs mentality would be stuck with toshi as it's ingrained in her and it in fact does reflect her character and that of many older generation people. who might not even be bad people or do do bad things or force anything onto their children . So I'm fine if the cvs included that only to shows toshis way of thinking. Toshi ji isn't a bad person but very hot tempered and jumps to conclusion but does have a good heart.

And like the above comment completely agree, after all this is a modern show but it's also about showing and displaying social issues still prevalent today.

Originally posted by: 4856

very well written and totally agree with you...Toshiji is from old school who had such thoughts and slowly things are changing but it will take time for the whole nations mentality to change...!!

But beleive me it will change...!! Let us be the change we want to see in our country..looks like the elections have taken an effect on me..!!

Originally posted by: paru_rox

You know Toshiji raising that boy-girl crap is not surprising. She still thinks in her old ways ... look at her views on Ruhi's schooling and studies 🤢

But what has disappointed me is the fact that neither Raman nor Ishita protested against this vaaris cry.

Ishita has now heard Toshi say this for the 2nd time and I am surprised she still did not react to that. Just coz she cannot conceive, it should not impact her own values & thoughts where she knows that these old school views of differentiating b/w a girl & boy child are just not right.

Ishita seriously disappointed me both these times .

Originally posted by: naq5

i wes goint to say tht exactly instead she goes inside and cries for what "about not being able to give a waris to her in laws. inst she supporting the minset👎🏼. .. and what if she could get pregnant & gives birth to a daughter? tab kya karenge waris ka ? will she keep giving birth untill a waris is born. 😕😕

And ishita should be the one standing up & telling that all this will leave a wrong impression on ruhi but what does she do go n cry because she cant give a waris.

And raman i seriously dont understand why couldnt hew tell his mom tht ruhi is my waris & so is aditya.

i think toshi should be happy that ishita cant be a mom. isnt she worried about some step motherly treatment for ruhi if ishita has her own biological kid.(though i dont believe she would do that )but this thought can come to anyone. no insteadshe is bothered about herwaris. the truth is that toshi ji has only brought up ruhi as her responsibilty . she is not really concerned for her future or really connect with ruhi. she is more bothered about her son & her grand son