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Was it the act of giving birth that made you a mother?
Motherhood is a choice you make everyday, to put someone else's happiness and well-being ahead of your own NOT because you have too but because you WANT too.
& Today the ONLY Mother I saw being present was ISHITA.❤️
I believe that Motherhood is the MOST noblest task of all, because you cannot do it at your convenience, or tailor it to suit your preferences. You have to be ready to give up everything when you take on this task. Your time, restful nights, your hobbies, your pursuit of physical fitness, any beauty you may have had, and all of your private little pleasures you might have counted as a right, from late dinners and long bubble bath to weekend excursions and cycling trips. It's not that you can't have any of these things, BUT you have to be ready to let them all go if you're going to have children and put them first.
Everyone needs to get bloody tattooed this, A Mother is a Mother from the moment her Baby is first placed in her arms until ETERNITY. It didn't matter if her Child was 3...13...or 30. & That was so BEAUTIFULLY portrayed in today's episode.
Motherhood is near to Divinity because it is the highest, holiest service to be assumed by mankind and to use such Divinity to hurt someone, SHAME ON that woman. If she had at least 0.1% of dignity left, she better NOT face Ishu & family, don't even step into the apartment and just bloody lock herself and NEVER even step out of your house. She's a DISGRACE to Motherhood & Womanhood. Not ONLY her but all of those Women who stood there dumb. The UNGRATEFUL Woman who within a second FORGOT the timely help of the Woman who they called a barren. BUT sadly what these Women were NOT aware of is that, it's not the Woman they labelled as barren the real barren BUT it's the rest of them there...the so called "I'm a Mother because I've given birth to a Child" who are truly BARREN as they have FAILED to understand the TRUE term of MOTHERHOOD the TRUE Meaning of being MOTHER.
I was so damn PROUD of Ruhi today, LOVED how she stood up for her IshiMa...LOVED the guts of the Child who made everyone bow their head in shame & her IshiMa's head held high...LOVED the Attitude of the Child who looked right in the eye of the monster who thought could easily get away with hurting her IshiMa...LOVED the Confrontation of the Child who wasn't Afraid to stand before the bully and PROTECT her IshiMa...LOVED the Child who provided STRENGTH to her IshiMa...LOVED the Child who smeared shame on everyone's face for their insensitive, ill mannered behaviour towards her IshiMa...& finally...LOVED the Child who was being nothing more than just her IshiMa's Child.❤️
I've NEVER cried as much as how I cried for today's episode not for any other show not even for any of YHM's past episodes. Today was truly an EMOTIONALLY HEARTBREAKING yet FILLS YOU WITH IMMENSE HAPPINESS kind of episode. The moment when Ruhi held her IshiMa's hand & stopped her...To me it symbolized Ruhi's courage, at that moment I felt Ruhi's heart spoke these very words, "Why should you go away IshiMa? It's these HEARTLESS so called Women/Mothers who should hide their faces in shame and go hide under a rock forever&ever."
As I'm writing this, tears still linger at the corner of my eyes, for 2 reasons. For the first, being a Child myself, I am SUPER PROUD of Ruhi today, what she did is & was the MOST GREATEST thing a Child could do for their Mother. Secondly, the FACT that such things till today DOES EXIST in this world. The word BARREN should be DESTROYED from the face of earth. Being a "BARREN" is NOT a sin BUT pointing fingers and saying someone is, that...people that is a SIN, one of the MOST BIGGEST SIN, I believe. & May GOD BLESS the Women who are dying every single day due to the BLOODY SOCIETY & the BLOODY SIN they commit, with TRUE HAPPINESS, COURAGE & A SUPPORTIVE FAMILY.
There were Definitely some lighter moments from our Dearest RKB BUT I'm just not ready to talk about that just about now, so I might update my thoughts on KARAN aka RAMAN just a little later.😊
With Love,
Shiva.
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