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Posted: 11 years ago
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raman is a complicated character...its not easy to understand him...
but then i agree he should respect ishu but than he is man who doesn't know how to express his feelings and emotions thus that misunderstood as arrogant...egoistic...rude...ungrateful...

he needs to learn how to express

whether its sorry or thank you...ishu doesn't expect anything from him..she is just going with the flow...she is used to it now...she is beginning to understand him properly...and realise that she should not keep any expectations from him...it only leads to disappointment...

though he never express his thoughts...feelings...emotions...but then deep down he is thankful...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ForbbidenLove

YHM is not some fantasy based story. It's REAL & what the characters portray in the show, DO exist in REALITY. YHM is for REAL people, in the sense I'm someone who can't see OTT non realistic sort of shows, it's a little too much for me. They are Great for reading BUT as for shows definitely not my FAVs for sure. I'm glad that finally there's a show that I can WHOLEHEARTEDLY ENJOY. & as they say "NOT all fingers are the same", what you like, I might Hate and what you hate, I might LOVE. Basically it depends on the individual I suppose. Anyways don't worry too much about quitting, It's all good in the hood. All the best 👍🏼 😊 in finding a show that you love, just like myself&YHM.


Just My Personal view, "If being 'Matured' meant that I have to forgo the childishness in me than I would prefer not to be matured at all."😃

THIS! :D
Absolutely agree, Shivu! :))
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Posted: 11 years ago
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each to their own , For me yhm is the best show on air right now , Its complete , a mix of all ! and my DiVan are just superbbb!!!!
like everyone has mentioned i also would like to add every show has highs lows , strength and weakness and honestly yhm is the only show that can bring a huge smile on yr face ! yes raman is complicated and thats the x factor about him yes ishita is too forgiving and thats the best part about it ! A clean family show which has the best leads with crackling chemistry .I wont even compare this one show with any mandane work happening on Tv with copy cat scenes same track same stuff and same faces ( gawd) no offence but Tv is more of a joke today having said this is the only show which makes whole family watch it and fall for it , Yhm is the one and the best !!
Edited by SbGh786 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#14
Everyone is definitely entitled to ones opinion.

Many mature people do behave immaturely in many circumstances and how and why these two characters came to be together is what keeps them on edge because both of them came into this relationship due to their "Majboori" and that makes them just as frustrated within their contract marriage.

They too are behaving this way because they too are frustrated with their forced union.

And Adults tend to turn childish when they think they are forced into a situation that they did not choose freely.

We like the characters need to give us and them time to come to a realization that a little effort will make things better sooner than later.

Yes, it does frustrate fans but as they say ... "Patience is a virtue"... and when you sign up to see an Indian Serial... you have to suspend your disbelief and come and go
at will at which ever track you prefer.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The topic is certainly different.
The actors are very good
The script is quite realistic

And believe me, all the 3 things are quite opposite to a lot of shows...

If that means that YHM attracts a smaller but niche audience... so be it😊

I sincerely do hope you find something thats more appealing to you.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: titlee90


There is a difference between falling in love and showing respect to a person who did so much for ur family. Raman does not love Ishita that's ok. But he does not show minimum respect to her that not acceptable. He forces her to say sorry to Shagun and adi, he dances with her to show off shagun etc. He wants all rights as her husband but did not follw any duties towards her. This behaviour of Raman is unacceptable. A mature relationship does not mean show disrespect to wife and using her when required.


Both the characters have their own flaws... Raman's past is too bitter that he has stopped believing in love and relationships. Ishita means nothing to him and vice versa i would say. Till date, whatever he has done is wrong but even Ishu has done mistakes...

Once his faith in relationships are reinstated, respect, love everything will be there... I guess that this relationship is called mature because Ishra are not teenagers... Doesn't a fully grown man ever commit mistakes...

Regarding duties, Raman is not negligent. He saved Ishu's honour from Subbu's mom. He doesn't let anyone talk abut Ishu. But for Parmeet track, none of the family members know about their problems. Somewhere, Bhalla n Iyers believe that they are a normal couple. In such a relationship, this is more than enough.

I am sure that our complaints will be taken care of in the upcoming episodes. All that is needed is patience...😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well, I still don't like the fact that Ramz and Bhalla family are ill treating Ishu. But, reading about the future track, I feel like something good will come for sure and Divzy too indicated something about Ehsaas. So, whatever happens in the show till DivAn are there, I will not quit this show anyway😳.
And.. you want to quit that's okay. Good luck for your other shows. For me it's only YHM I watch, nothing can stop me from watching it as it is really very different from most of the shows on TV right now. So, it's better have patience and watch only one different serial.
Edited by TanniSDaya - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I respect your opinion but I sort of disagree with you. At times Raman's behaviour towards Ishita is quite frustrating however both their characters have made progress. For Raman to change his attitude towards Ishu, he first needed to change his attitude with Ruhi and he did. Our elders say that people living together will fall in love and this takes times. The ehaas promo is indication of respect and care towards one another. Ishu ehsaas for Raman started when she realized how much he loves his children and Raman's ehsaas is going to start hence the spoilers. This a mature love story because involves two adults remarriage with children involved. How many young couple go through that? Also, which mature person does not act childish at times. Come one life shouldn't always be taken so easily.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well everyone has their opinions if you don't like the way show going so better quit it's your freedom to do but why the need to cry on the roof top about it dear make a post especially for that it's wasting more time on a show you hate😆Only show i love is yeh hai mohabbetein so i watch it and be active in the forum cause of my love for the show and lovely members here and really i hate all other shows going on in indian tele so nither i waste my time watching them nor crying my dislike in their forums i just simply ignore completely 😆Do the same with YHM and follow the shows to your taste😆For me YHM is the only realistic show today on indian telly as i hate saas bahu sagas too lovy dowy stories and also i love YHM now more for karan and div too 😳.*😳So i'm gonna follow karan and div in YHM while they are here too and the continuaty of the show😆As for you dear hope you'll get to see a kind of story you like good luck with it too😆

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While discussing please avoid bringing in actors/characters which have no relevance with the show.
-Edited portions by the DT of the section.

Edited by -HibiscusR- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#20
Everyone is entitled to give their opinion as like u. Yhm is a realistic show as its characters which r flawed. Raman is a complex character cuz he has dark past n he will take time to be have normal behaviour with ishita. This is not fixed episodes show where u will see goody goody stuffs very quickly it will take either 4 or 5 months 4 ramz behaviourcal changes. If u want to watch saas bahu or manhandling teenage lub stories u have remote press it's button n see what u want to see. Yhm is not everyone's cup of coffee.

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