=>> Remember that, sometimes being Too Nice is DANGEROUS. You have to show your mean side once in a while to avoid getting hurt.
=>> When someone treats you like an option, help them narrow their choices by removing yourself from the equation.
=>> Don't let your loyalty become slavery.
=>>Know when to let go & never, I repeat NEVER compromise on SELF RESPECT.
~~ The way Ishita is being treated by Raman & some of his family members are NOT AT ALL ACCEPTABLE. I'm sure if it was some other woman, she would have ran away long time ago, the whole 'sirf ruhi ke liya' would have been chucked in the dumpster only. Ruhi is the ONLY REASON why Ishita tolerates their bloody nonsensical behaviour. [I'm glad, at least Raman was aware of that, though it is not enough.] I felt like, Raman was nothing but a Hypocrite in that scene with Ruhi. He goes to Adi and tells him that, (1+1=5) than goes to Ruhi and tells her, (1+1=4) followed by Shagun and tells her that, (1+1=6) and finally goes to Ishita and tells..no wait more like shouts at her that, (1+1=3) but what Raman failed to realize is that, (1+1=2)!
~~ I'VE HAD ENOUGH! The process to make Raman's heart Beat&Breathe again needs to be revised. It's about time Ishita took a handful of Salt & Chillies, grind them together than take that mixture and rub it vigorously all around Raman's wounded heart. Get this straight Raman Kumar Bhalla, STOP acting as if you are the only person in this entire world who has suffered so much of pain, bloody get your act together and grow up already.You know what Raman, Everyone has crap in their background, everyone has things they wish they could undo, but most people don't go around doing their best to screw up their present life because of it. If not, tumhara Ishita will no longer be your present but just a memory of your past. And if that ever happens, the word 'REGRET' would be given a new definition based on what you will be going through.
~~ Have you guys ever noticed that the more special something is, the more people seem to take it for granted? [Raman's attitude & behaviour towards Ishita is without a doubt the PREFECT example] It's like they think it won't ever change. But they always keep forgetting that, Even the nicest people have their limits.
~~ RAMAN, you always claim that you hate in fact not only hate but despise Ashok & Shagun than why have you become like them? You've turned into the very people you despise. The worst thing that could happen to someone is for them to transform into something, they didn't even want to wish upon their enemy. You have got to STOP IT Raman, don't let your struggle become your identity.
This post though is focused on the negative aspect it doesn't change the fact that, I was a Romantic, I still am & will always be. "ISHRA is meant to be" NOW&FOREVER, I've got no doubts on that.
With Love,
Shiva.
P.S. Dear Lord, Please grant me the ability to punch people over the TV. I just wanna hit that bloody Ashok so hard that my fist will phase through his face and come out the other side. As for Shagun, I would love to slap her as well but than that would be animal abuse. And for Adi, well his already being punished I guess, pushing away a loving father & his family who will truly Love him for roaches like Shagun & Ashok, I suppose there's no better way to punish him than to let him stay with them!
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