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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have a few questions glad if it is answered

If a girl stays out of her place during late nights does that mean she has to be questioned in any case there are no questions thrown out on the man .She did say that she does nt want to share which is her personal choice and why that does not deserve respect

Raman spewing out on ishitha today which explains he is a jerk
But its too early to judge him but that does nt justify his 2 big mistakes
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Biggest let down was Mr Iyer she was upset and she wanted to be alone but that was a crime

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Posted: 11 years ago
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so true, girls r always questioned but this is just a routine for boys! i dun know y this happens! anyways in ishita's case all knows her well that she cant stay away from home for that much late so they were worried for her, she always has been really obedient but today no reply from her bothered them all that there is definitely something wrong with her thats y they questioned her! i think!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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chill dude! i know raman is harsh but he had a valid point there. the thing is not if raman is allowed to be out of home "just bcoz hes upset"so ishu too shud be allowed, its that just like he expects ishu to not be this irresponsible he too is expected the same when he behaves carelessly.saying that i had a bad mood is a very lame excuse n neither its justified for ishu nor raman.n i didnt hear him saying "tum kiske satth thi"...he said "tum kahan thi kiske saath thi" i dont care which was a v general statement...he didnt doubt her loyalty.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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blame the social setup...blame the individuality...!! so this show down i did expect..!!

bt am glad Ishita DID RETORT back to Raman which he had NO ANSWER..When hes upset n come home late n th too in drunken state-tab he dnt lik nyone askin him...so y ws he askin/lecturnin her?i LOVED how she showed MIRROR to him..!!

bt yes evn i ws disappointed with Mr Iyer..Raman se toh mujhe isiki umeed thi..!! bt Mr Iyer toh knws his daughter well...bt on other side there ws Mr Bhalla..he din say nythin negative instead he ws sure somethin is wrong n Ishu is hidin it..!! am glad jo vishwaas ek pita ko hona chahiye tha aaj ek sasur ko apni bahu par the..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Honestly, we're watching an indian show, & we HAVE to keep this in mindwhile watching yhm too. Now, coming home at 3am is NOT normal. Not in the west, not here. Raman or even Mr iyer for that matter were not at fault AT ALL today, yes Raman may have been harsh, but considering the situation, and how Raman is, i dont think it was such a big deal.
We all know ishita wont do nothing wrong and it may be simmi and all, helping Raman at the end of teh day, BUT there, right now noone knows about it, so yeah, she WAS answerable to everyone, however, i really liked her answer to Raman when she says noone questions you then why am i being questioned, it was her right to say that.
About raman... Honestly, i dont know why u say hes a jerk. Because what he told ishita was in haste, in the heat of the moment, and he apologized to the people he was supposed to apologize to, ie amma and appa. Ishita k saath toh slowly and steadily things will mend... I dont think it makess ense to blame raman rn, frankly.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mrym_rauf

so true, girls r always questioned but this is just a routine for boys! i dun know y this happens! anyways in ishita's case all knows her well that she cant stay away from home for that much late so they were worried for her, she always has been really obedient but today no reply from her bothered them all that there is definitely something wrong with her thats y they questioned her! i think!



No yaar mihika did say that she likes to be aloof when she is upset

I felt that she should have been left alone instead of that round table conference
I don t want to sound like a feminist now 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

chill dude! i know raman is harsh but he had a valid point there. the thing is not if raman is allowed to be out of home "just bcoz hes upset"so ishu too shud be allowed, its that just like he expects ishu to not be this irresponsible he too is expected the same when he behaves carelessly.saying that i had a bad mood is a very lame excuse n neither its justified for ishu nor raman.n i didnt hear him saying "tum kiske satth thi"...he said "tum kahan thi kiske saath thi" i dont care which was a v general statement...he didnt doubt her loyalty.



Malika I have a very bad feeling this simi angle if that was the reason will create MUs between them

I felt those statements were because of his insecurity
But yes he was genuinely worried for her yet he wanted answers from her which irked him badly 😆

Unfortunately that sorry had no value after warning her to throw her out
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

blame the social setup...blame the individuality...!! so this show down i did expect..!!

bt am glad Ishita DID RETORT back to Raman which he had NO ANSWER..When hes upset n come home late n th too in drunken state-tab he dnt lik nyone askin him...so y ws he askin/lecturnin her?i LOVED how she showed MIRROR to him..!!

bt yes evn i ws disappointed with Mr Iyer..Raman se toh mujhe isiki umeed thi..!! bt Mr Iyer toh knws his daughter well...bt on other side there ws Mr Bhalla..he din say nythin negative instead he ws sure somethin is wrong n Ishu is hidin it..!! am glad jo vishwaas ek pita ko hona chahiye tha aaj ek sasur ko apni bahu par the..!!




Bold very true and he needed that
I guess acc to her parents I think he was upset for not answering them
But Mrs iyer was good she was explaining her responsibility and that was good

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nebuna

I have a few questions glad if it is answered

If a girl stays out of her place during late nights does that mean she has to be questioned in any case there are no questions thrown out on the man .She did say that she does nt want to share which is her personal choice and why that does not deserve respect

Raman spewing out on ishitha today which explains he is a jerk
But its too early to judge him but that does nt justify his 2 big mistakes
Tum kaha thi kiski saath thee
Tadke marke bahaar pek chukunga


Biggest let down was Mr Iyer she was upset and she wanted to be alone but that was a crime


agree
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: serendipity.

Honestly, we're watching an indian show, & we HAVE to keep this in mindwhile watching yhm too. Now, coming home at 3am is NOT normal. Not in the west, not here. Raman or even Mr iyer for that matter were not at fault AT ALL today, yes Raman may have been harsh, but considering the situation, and how Raman is, i dont think it was such a big deal.

We all know ishita wont do nothing wrong and it may be simmi and all, helping Raman at the end of teh day, BUT there, right now noone knows about it, so yeah, she WAS answerable to everyone, however, i really liked her answer to Raman when she says noone questions you then why am i being questioned, it was her right to say that.
About raman... Honestly, i dont know why u say hes a jerk. Because what he told ishita was in haste, in the heat of the moment, and he apologized to the people he was supposed to apologize to, ie amma and appa. Ishita k saath toh slowly and steadily things will mend... I dont think it makess ense to blame raman rn, frankly.



You have your answers seren in bold ,now that you have said why does she need to answer him
But yes she needs to answer only her parents which she chose not to which is fair don t you think

You say certain things at the heat of the moment and then apologize is always termed Jerk

We are all adults sometimes don t we feel to remain silent on certain issues

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