Ishita needs to know when to stop!! - Page 4

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Posted: 11 years ago
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oh what the we both said same , i just saw your post
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: naddiya26

oh what the we both said same , i just saw your post


hehe coincidence😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaaranya


Raman's beahvior towards Ruhi is unforgivable and I of all people condone it and really got pissed at Raman for that, but he has been through possibly the worst phase anybody could ever have to go through in one's life. He has insecurities and abandonment issues that majes him more in need of care than Ruhi itself.
Talking about Ishita's love for Ruhi, yeah she is completely nuts about this little girl and her entire world revolves around it so her reactions and arguments for Ruhi are totally justified. But how can her commenting on Aditya be justified? She saw Raman's pain and hurt the other day...did she choose to ignore it or just can't comprehend that he too can be hurt and he might have been the one wronged



Like I said, that was just one scene and moreover he was drunk. We know that Raman was wronged but how can we expect Ishita to know that? Does this changed Raman looks like he can be wronged? No! He walks around her behaving like the king of the world and we expect her to see the softer guy inside? Don't you think that's a bit too much too early?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I know it felt insensitive to bring up Aditya to Raman but in his unconscious state Raman asked Aditya not to leave...and even if Ishita doesn't know the whole truth about Aditya on what she can infer isn't he making the same mistake. Maybe he lost Aditya for whatever reason, but that should be even stronger reason to hold on to Ruhi. Even if she's not his. If Ishita can love a child she's not the mother of, then for Raman who has had Ruhi it shouldn't matter. Raman loves Ruhi in his own way there's no doubt about it but the only way Raman can win is if he stops caring about his own hurt caused by Shagun and Ashok and starts caring for Ruhi selflessly. Honestly that's all Ishita has ever wanted from Raman.

Also the main reason Ishita picks faults with Raman the most is because Ruhi loves her father the most. Ruhi dotes on her father like no one else and Ishita wants Raman to understand that, which he can't see because he's so wrapped up in his personal struggle.

I'm not saying Ishita is faultless throughout but why are we always more quick to pick up on Ishita's faults after all it's after Ishita's constantly badgered Raman that's he's questioned his relationship to Ruhi. Otherwise he barely spoke to her. Ishita might have a sharp tongue but it's what's needed for Raman. His mom won't tell him and sometimes men rarely listen to their fathers (aditya and raman being case and point) so the only one who can constantly be the thorn on his side is Ishita. Besides with Raman he's known to keep his words to himself and hide himself away unless he's lashing out to Ishita so what other way to get to know the heart of someone by constantly lecturing and poking them to respond.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agree with some n i disgaree with some point of urs..😊..

Ishita...my girl ROCKED today once again...reading the spoilers,i feared she would un-necessarily blast at him...bt i ws SO HAPPY with the way those scenes were wriiten & ofcourse enacted by DivAn..

i LOVED LOVED how in a subtle manner Ishita reacted to Raman when DNA truth ws out..she din say much n went off..Tht ws perfect as a showdown at tht moment would look BAD..I think she understood tht moment Raman kinda needed to "cherish" those happy moments..so she just let him be..!! And thtsy evn Raman could FULLY express his happiness with Ruhi...tht hug n happiness in his face SAID A LOT..!!

But i DISAGEE with Ishita durin Raman-Ruhi hug scene..!! bt i will overlook ONLY coz of the next IshRa scene-the HIGHLIGHT of aaj ka epi..!! Also i disgaree with Ishu on Adi matter also-rest i super agree with her

Raman rehearsin "Thank You" ws cute..

But Ishu took limelight once she started talkin..Once again she showed him MIRROR n this time he ws in FULL SENSES(thank God)..Srsly the MOST SAD part is definitely tht Raman needed a freakin lab report to "accept" his relation with ruhi..!! Nywz theres still time left n he can still amend for all mistakes he did..But for tht he freaking need to MOVE ON.. His world is STILL centered around Shagun&Ashok...The day he will change his centre of world to Ruhi,his family-half of the probs will be solved..!!

Toshi jee...am srsly startin to DISLIKE her..Shes bein PLAIN rude n arrogant..Donno when on earth she will STOP tauntin Ishu n her family..!! Will tht lady ever realise ki its bcoz of Ishu they won custody case of Ruhi...its bcoz of Ishu,her Raman puttar FINALLY bcame NORMAL n ACCEPTED Ruhi..!! instead of being grateful,Mrs Bhalla jst bc in tauntin her n her family for NO REASON..!!

nywz lookin forward to c tomorrow's epi..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#36
ishu was right in a way it was a lecture but well deserving because raman needs to come out of it agony first then has to see bright side of life.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -roshnee-

I get what you're saying but I don't agree. Think about it- Ishita doesn't see or know the good things about Raman that we see and know. To her, he's just the guy who neglects his child, insults her all the times, doesn't even allow her to keep her clothes in the closet or let her sleep on the bed, considers her to be at fault all the times and to top it all up - a hard core chauvinist. Now you tell me, why should she even consider having a relationship with him when Raman keeps reminding her every five seconds that she's only Ruhi's mom and nothing else?


its nt abt keeping relationship its abt d way she sees thinks..she jus keeps blind eye towards raman oh come on this is d same guy who had tears nd who confessed to her teary eyed abt adi leaving papa nd ruhi too leaving him nd crying ndaccusing him for nt caring abt ruhi nd thinking only abt himself is rude nd insensitive too!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Raman has been shown to be a completely conteded married man when he was with Shagun..she was the selfish money minded gold digger who kept bashing him even in front of his son, calling him a loser and all that! That too me is mental abuse and the final nail was her having the affair with his boss...For someone totally and utterly in love that betrayal leaves deep wounds and thus he built that wall around his heart resulting in him being cold arrogant and distant from all he loves especially Ruhi!
Trust and being loved unconditionally is no longer easy for him because of that betrayal and Ishita is not understanding that! His success is only due to his drive to prove he is not the loser Shagun called him and he has to be reminded as Ishita did today that relationships are more important than all the money he can earn and any point he can prove to Shagun and Ashok...
Ishita was wrong to bring up Adi without knowing details but her saying all those things to Raman should serve as an eye opener and Raman should no begin to realize that he shouldn't be influence by the likes of Shagun and Ashok! After this he will surely open his heart but I doubt he will admit first his love for Ishu. I hope Ishu gets the real picture and how broken Raman is and how much love he craves leading the way to her falling for him too!!
Wonder what Ishu will be like when drunk!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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agreed I find Ishita's character a trifle ittitating & insensitive at times in her attitude towards Raman ..I mean it would be obvious to anyone on earth I think that Shagun must have cheated on him while he was married to her & had an affair with Ashok ..& as a consequence it led him to suspect Ruhi's paternity ..but no it doesnt dawn on Ishita to think this way 😕 🤔 In saying this I also do realise its a daily soap & they will drag the misunderstandings as much as they possibly can so character can ever think very logically 😆

anyway looking forward to see how Ishita behaves when drunk😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I sort of agree with you. Sometimes i feel Ishita goes overboard but today what Ishita said to Raman, he needed to hear that. I love Raman but the dna and falling into Ashok's plan was just plain stupid. To be honest what Ishita said to Raman, i was thinking the samething. Also, Raman really hasnt shown Ishita his kind side yet. They should become friends for Ruhi sake

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