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Ragz is having some nice interactions with her bestie AT

Originally posted by: priya185

Ragz is having some nice interactions with her bestie AT

Today’s episode was really good. Watch it twice

Originally posted by: Ragz2009

Today’s episode was really good. Watch it twice

In Dec 2017, Anu says that she exactly doesn't likes 21 about herself. The therapists speaks about Transactional Analysis. Something which I did study in college, I didn't choose psycology but TA was a small topic in a subject. There are three types of egos Parent Ego, Child Ego and Adult Ego. The therapist enlightens Anu about these egos and says that mind has a habit to chatter within you. Log nahi samjhate par kuchh to man mein chal raha hai. The therapist says that the child self represents our wounded inner child, parent self represents our critics and most of the time our communication fluctuates between adult self and child self which causes inner conflict. Anu wonders thats the reason why consciously or sub consciously we behave childish, judgmental or critical.

The therapist tells Anu to act as a child self, parent self and adult self. Anu innocently says as a child self that she doesn't likes this coffee. Then Anu critically says as a parent self that I don't like this coffee, It can be better. Anu then wisely says as an adult self I dont like this coffee. When Anu represented her adult self, the therapist said that the adult self is simple and unbiased. The therapist says that our inner child gets stubborn and our inner parent scolds the child and our inner adult self knows how to manage the two other selves.

The therapist says that our adult self knows when to speak and draw boundaries. She advises Anu to be an adult in the matter of Rupal and Virat. What was wrong in the scene? Now Imagine if Virat visits the therapist and he narrates his side of story then Anu will be a villain. Will the therapist believe that Virat is fully wrong? Who will tell Anu that she was wrong in the past. She tells that she doesn't exactly likes 21 things about her. Now the doctor was telling about criticisms.

I dont like this coffee was the line. What she was trying to explain that how a child says I dont like this coffee innocently and there is a scope to convince this child that you could have liked this coffee. When I dont like this coffee, it can be better, is told as a parent, it means that if the coffee gets better I will drink it. While the adult says I dont like this coffee, it means no matter whatever you do I wont drink this coffee. There is no scope for improvement. Period. Now replace a coffee with a man. This is not purely the meaning of TA but the therapist in order to make Anu comfortable gave this example.

With Ishaan, Anu tried to be a parent and Ishaan too was a parent with her. Parent parent clashed. With Virat, she is still a child, she is still hoping for her to get better, she is behaving childish in front of him. With Raghav, she was an adult. Dekho bhai itna saara sochne jaaoge to duniya mein kisi ke saath nahi banegi Why the doctor told Anu to pick a negative statement? I dont like this and that. Because Anu wants to listen everything related to solitude. Instead of dont like, she should have told her to use I like my solitude in all the three selves. Anu currently is applying adult ego. This too is inappropriate. Adult Ego is not about a No, it is about listening others, loving solitude and handling situations maturely.

Anu knows that she is into compassionship with Virat. She again is stressed for not behaving properly with him. She is trying to bring the adult self but she is looking like a child self. Virat comes to the cabin and behaves like a true adult being. Oh God, this man is improving Virat says to Anu that let's just be adults, we can fight with each other or we can distance ourselves or we can just patch up. He says that he is bored of all this if the end they have to just patch up. He requests her to break this pattern and promises her that he wont break any protocol. Virat has always behaved majorly in Anu's favor and still this man is called toxic, forgetting that others are toxic too, it would be unfair. Virat tells Anu to grow up and not bring differences in work life and this is also the final rule of our compassionship. I loved that Anu listened to Virat unlike previous time

Virat meets Rumina and tells her that he will celebrate her birthday at his place. The conversation was so sweet. Harshita were listening to them and their sick faces spoiled the whole scene

Dev and Dheeraj calls Jyoti and Rajesh at a cafe to reveal the secret information they have. Dheeraj then informs that he was going through the by laws and he got to know that Anu's name is not written in company by laws. It is Virat's name written over there Bloody liars. Poor Virat will be again screwed. Dev and Dheeraj themselves dont know whose name is written in it and they lied to Jyoti & Rajesh. So whatever office politics happens I cant blame entirely Jyoti, Rajesh for this. It is Dev.

Virat is preparing for Rumina's birthday party, while again sick Ankita and Harsh make an entry. Yaar har baar aa jaate hai mood kharab karne ke liye. Rumina and Virat today were very sweet.

Anu's scene with Dolly was so entertaining. Dolly told her to attend the party. Anu said ki wahan par bachhe honge. Dolly said tu konsi senior citizen ho gai hai Anu doesn't likes to attend parties. This is the one show where less number of parties are shown because Anu dislikes it. Anu loves her solitude and I too am a not party person. So I relate with Anu here. Dolly says that agar woh party mein jaayegi to achha ladka milega The scene was funny but Dolly is so selfish that she wants to see Anu out of this house. Jenny looked so pretty. Dolly tells Anu that it is so dreamy to think about the wedding, but behen iss par koi asar nahi hoga Thanks to Sid that he took Anu to the party.

Virat was not expecting Anu at the party, seeing her he was surWoprised. He has seen her before in a party too in episode 1 and with Aryaman, he didn't get surprise to see her in a party then. On seeing that, Virat's attention was entirely reserved for Anu, Ankita felt bad. Harsh was with Rumina, Sid too was Rumina after he came. This girl wants to have everything in this world. Anu tells Virat that he was right when he explained her. I hope she listens to him regarding the Khurana deal too.

Dev meets Kersy. Kersy accepts that Anu's name is not written in by laws. It is a secret between him and Rajdeep. Kersy said that he wants to give a chance to Anu and prove herself. She had to face a lot because she is Rajdeep's daughter.

Anuvir were enjoying seeing their kids. Ankita is trying hard to separate AnuVir and seeing them smile she tried to present a vulgar piece of act. She might have felt that she is looking awesome, but she was looking cringy ad like a drunkard.

Anu seeing the kids says that I feel so old yaar. Her tone was innocent and soothing. The expressions. Virat asks her Can we grow old together. OMG the tone He says that I know that I should I have asked you before but better late than never. Would you be with me just like a man is with a woman.

Kosha

Originally posted by: Ragz2009

😂 yeah. Learning from her for free lol

Originally posted by: priya185

If you agree with her she is nice otherwise, she seems quite patronising sometimes

I feel ankita will leak the rumina commit suicide video very soon

Originally posted by: Ragz2009

I feel ankita will leak the rumina commit suicide video very soon

And Sid is gay too.

But if she released the video, it's her lost because she wants everything from Anu if RL is gone wealth kahan se ayega. She will be a rookie if she does that and stupid as well