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In this post, I refer to Indian serial females, mainly female leads, NOT real life females.
When a female is a child, she is intelligent, possesses self-respect, and has her own mind. She is often outspoken and is not afraid to stand up for what she believes is right, no matter how many people stand against her. She never accepts defeat.
When the female becomes a teenager or a young woman, she still possesses all of the qualities she had when she was younger but she tones it down in front of the adults. However, when she meets a guy, she doesn't hesitate to show him her attitude and feistiness. She never backs down from the challenges he throws at her. She never accepts defeat.
When the female falls in love, the cracks start to appear. She still shows the guy, often the male lead, her attitude but you can tell what she really thinks of him when the flashbacks and silly smiles start. She changes, but just by a bit. She still doesn't accept defeat.
When the female gets married, she loses herself. Within a few weeks, the husband who she initially hated becomes the most important person in her life. She constantly seeks his approval and wants to please him, despite his open and brazen affairs with numerous different vamps, and his abusive behaviour towards her. Her brain which used to be utilised to achieve great things either goes to waste or is only used to get rid of her husband's newest mistress or enemy. It's not about her anymore, it's about him. She may win against the vamps and the enemies but she never stands up to her husband. Finally, she accepts defeat.
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Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki
