I feel another debate coming over so here is my view before anything starts. Tanya is not wrong at all. I know we are going back to "they hid secrets from trish once now they are doing it to Tanya" But it's not the same.
When secret was hid from trish:
The situation was different. Tanya's hands were tied. raj made her promise while kul did everything to stop her. She tried to tell trish but Trish stopped her. I have to give it to the girl who by the way is quite weak atleast tried. Bechari suffered a lot from it. Also trish never questioned anything. She questioned Raj once after he insulted her she started taking it out. She was really mean to Tanya. The most cruel one has to be where Tanya asks her for forgiveness and she breaks the dollhouse and leaves.(thanks zubi for reminding me) Tanya broke down after it and cried holding the doll. Even after Trish got married she was mean to Tanya. She stayed mean and showed not a single emotion toward her till she found out the truth. Then all of a sudden she became an amazing sister. So is that what a sister is? be good to her when she is good to you? and forget about her when she is not good to you? Really literally forget about her.
Now that it's Tanya's turn::
Most of us agree she is the weakest of the bunch and also doesn't think. I don't really think that's the case but most of the her care for the family rules over everything. Tanya thought something is going on between Raj and trish. Now again to all the people the girl already knows they loved each other so it is MORE than that. She really thinks something is going on. Something more than hidden past feelings. She asked herself and gave it time, she actually questioned her eyes. Smart!! Trish on the other hand didn't. She asked once then cut them off. So Tanya is actually handling it in a more mature way.
Next she asked trish what's going on? trish lied.
She asked Raj what's going on? He lied!
What is the girl suppose to think when she finds them together at night and see them in the garden where Raj is touching her face! Oh yes some of us consider her dumb, what will our genius trish think if she was here? From what I have seen so far trish would start cutting more relationship or take out her fury again. Now if you are into the " yeah yeah go girl, take it out" Trish would be your role model. On the other hand Tanya is handling it with great patience. And Patience is a great virtue , not everyone posseses it. She is definitely hurt but she is not taking it out on everyone. Again I think that's a more mature way to handle it.
Last but not least Tanya has warned both of them. Tanya told her sister that he is her husband, reminding her to he is married now, but she did it in a nice way. She wasn't cruel like trish was in the past. As for Raj again she asked him to let trish live his life with Rajdeep.
So Basically she has asked them about the problem and she also told them what she wants out of it. No hidden games on her part.
As for the anger part, I thought it was adorable. She is mad, a little frustrated and upset. I always take it out on my food too. Everyone has a way of taking out their frustration and this is how she is taking it out. It's better than breaking precious doll house.
And part of reason why I think she doesn;t want to confront Raj and tell him that she feels he is lying because she respects him, she trusts him and still prays her trust is not broken, and she also doesn't want to lose him!
Now have to back! bye bye