DOTW: Who should be BLAMED?

As we all know the BIG SECRET abt Aryan Wardhan Jaisingh is revealed that he is Impotent (which by definition is "Lacking physical strength or vigor; weak" - source: Google) and the serial is attracting LOTS of viewers because of the actors and LOTS of questions are raised in the serial too so one of them that i think is more important is "Who Should be Blamed for Vaidehi's marriage to Aryan?"

Who do you think is RESPONSIBLE for this...

Is it the Media People, Journalists who interfere a lot in people's (well most of the time RICH) lives

OR

Is it Jaisingh who just to save his family's HONOUR hid Aryan's impotency from Vaidehi and her father?

OR

Is it Sita who didn't tell Vaidehi, even though she tried but couldn't, she could have told her in the temple...

OR

Is it Aryan who suported his father in marriage's decision and got married to vaidehi?

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Is it Vaidehi's father who didn't ask for the actual truth, i mean he could have asked them why they want Aryan to get married to Vaidehi only and that too after so many ears, that he just thought it was better for Vaidehi and her life will be good and she'll be happy?

OR

Is it the society who don't let one live his/her life peacefully and interfere too much in others lives which makes them take really serious steps?

so who do you think should be blamed???

Share your views with us and let all of us know what YOU think abt this?

Excellent Discussion Topic Aji👏

I personally think everyone is a little responsible for it.

The Media kept questioning Jaisingh on Aryan and his single status after Jaanki's death. Due to this, Jaisingh, for whom reputation and family's honour is everything, got instigated and made Aryan get married again.

I dont think Sita devi is responsible because she tried her best to get Vaidehi to reject. Although she could have given Vaidehi the reason she wanted her to reject but she didnt and Vaidehi didnt listen.

Aryan was also wrong becuase he knew that what he was doing was wrong but didnt take any action for it. Maybe because he was too scared of his dad or whatever reason but he is to blame as well.

I think Vaidehi's father did what any guy in his position would do. Jaisingh had told him that he wanted a decent girl for Aryan and he saw all that decency in Vaidehi. So her father, being naive, just thought that yeah my daughter's decency won her a groom from such a wealthy family and she will never have to face a problem financially.

And definately, society plays a big part in all this. We all really care about what people will think. This concern increases as your status in society increases. The richer and more popular you get, the more concious you become of your reputation and honor. So definately, we take some steps in life just so that the society doesnt say anything negative against us.

Anyways, once again great topic Aji! Hope all Vaidehi viewers come forward and participate!

Just a note to all members: Please stay away from personal attacks and lets keep this a healthy discussion.😊

thanx Jas and Tansha

i think first of all its Media people who r to blamed n then its Society then Jaisingh then Aryan becuase journalists asked questions like y he isnt getting married and stuff if they wouldn't have then Jaising wouldnt have taken this decision

he took this decision only coz of scoiety as to ppl will say bad things abt Aryan n family n etc etc

then Aryan is to be blamed coz he should have changed hsi decision but lookin at things from Aryan's point of view i think 1 reason he didnt tell before marriage was that he didnt want ppl to know abt his weakness n pity on him or some ppl say many other bad things

but overall whoever is wrong it ruined Vaidehi's life...if she was told before then i dont think it would have hurt her that much coz by that time she'll be mentally prepared for everything

I think that Society, and Aryan. Aryan should have been upfront with Vaidehi, and had she turned him down for that, then it wuld be society, which includes the press. They would have raied eyebrows and not let the poor guy alone until they found out the truth. But the thing is that people of "status" shouldn't have to be a open book for the public. I think that soooooo wrong on sooo many different levels!

i would blame society the most. Media portrays what society thinks and strives to give it what it wants, which includes the deep, dark secrets of the 'upper class'. Think about it, if Aryan was a middle class guy with this problem, what would have been the outcome? most probably, he would never have been able to get married and ppl wouldn't bother much, except perhaps those relatives who would time n again try to get such an 'eligible' bachelor married n settled down. But the truth could be hidden from them......and lastly but not the least, Aryan is to be blamed himself! i mean, if he really cared then he wouldn't have gone to meet Vaidehi AFTER SHE REJECTED THE PROPASAL!!!! but he did n not only that he acted like the perfect man any girl would dream of!!! so ppl, the society, the media which is a slave to it ( most of the time ),and aryan himself. Ofcourse, Jaisingh is in this list too, but i wouldn't blame him that much as what he did was due to the pressure of media n thus the society. keep sharing ur views ppl on this!

Nice DOTW! 👏

Well, like others said, I think they are all to be blamed for this! The Media does interfere in personal matters too much, there is a limit. But once again, thats what Media is for - and if the family is well reputated like Jaisingh's, why not!?

Jaisingh himself I think is to self centered. Only to get the media to be quite, he persuaded his son to get married to Vaidehi knowing it wouldn't be a 'sucessful' marriage as if for now. And, how long can he hide all this from coming out, its now that more questions are going to be raised against their family, and Janki who is still alive.

I wouldn't blame Sita all that much because she tried her best. She had to give up in front of her husband, and she tried her best but was unsucessful. Though, If she had such a good oppertunity in the Temple, then she should have tooken full advantage.

From my side, Aryan is most to be blamed. He doesn't have to follow what his father tells him to do. This was his own decision. And by every episode we are knowing so much more new things about him. He has another person inside him, which isn't too pleasant. He knows very well what the outcome would be to this marriage. And to top it, he doesn't even love Vaidehi. Just to hide what he has done before, or his family, he married her.

Vaidehi's father was to shocked and happy to question. He only thought that his daughter has got such a good family to marry into, it would only be her good. And from how he knows the Jaisingh, they look like a decent family. He could have asked, but then in front of the Jaisinghs he thought better not to say anything and let what is happening happen.

The society can be blamed, also! There is no personal life of film actors, or businessman because of society. These days, its the soceity who makes up peoples personal life, and not anyone live. But in this situation, its again the Media who is raising questions.

These are simply MY views. Lets keep this healthy. 😊

Cheerz,

Mallika-

I think it would be aryan and his dads fault because they should not have hid anything from vaidehi.. and as mallks said I wouldn't blame Sita that much because she tried her best to stp the marriage. ARyan is the most to be balmed cause he is Vaidehi's hubby and he needs to be up front with her and he should not have any secerts about anything..if he really loves vaidehi he should tell her everything and be upfront..by hiding things makes it worse..

now after last monday's epi i think its Aryan only...he is so mean... 😡

Originally posted by: scorpion134

now after last monday's epi i think its Aryan only...he is so mean... 😡

i so agree with you..how cna sumoen be so cruel like dta??he didnt even think twice b4 sayign tht to her..😡