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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kools why doesn't Vishnu just straight out tell Mukta that he will never come back to her, since he has entered into this pavitra relation with Meethi he wants to make it work and henceforth whatever Mukta tries he will never come back to her nor will he be affected by anything she does. he is dolofying one way then the other.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Kools why doesn't Vishnu just straight out tell Mukta that he will never come back to her, since he has entered into this pavitra relation with Meethi he wants to make it work and henceforth whatever Mukta tries he will never come back to her nor will he be affected by anything she does. he is dolofying one way then the other.

sanaya he'd clearly told her & many times. wen meehsu came 4 pagphere she asked him 2 change his decision but he refused & said its not possible & 4 him this is pavitra bandhan.wen surabhi died he only asked her 2 b bit normal & again made clear he wants this mrg.he has feelings he accepted 2 her but clearly told that he won't cum back. in how many words now he has2 tell this.
he told this 2 rpr also wen he met him in jail.
mkt only got hopeful wen akash told her that meehi want 2 reunite them but vishnu doesn't. and she rembrd this thing in hospital wen vishnu was talking wid meethi abt telling ak living them.she saw them & rembrd ak's talks.then vishnu saw her & went 2 her 2 talk abt her being practical .and after thta mkt went 2vishnu home 2 give him ultimatum.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Kools why doesn't Vishnu just straight out tell Mukta that he will never come back to her, since he has entered into this pavitra relation with Meethi he wants to make it work and henceforth whatever Mukta tries he will never come back to her nor will he be affected by anything she does. he is dolofying one way then the other.


What he tells her or not should NOT be the basis of her decisions anymore . She should simply move on with self respect intact . By waiting for him , giving him mohallat , pretending marraige , she has lost it and comes across as desperate for him . If his decisions r hypocritical , stupid to her , she should reject him . He will suffer the good or bad of his own deeds . If she wants Akash , no problem , but t should be for herself , not to make him jealous . I am of the opinion that she should move on and leave Vishnu to his own fate . She should not go to him EVER even if he breaks marraige with Meethi coz he dumped her twice and refused to go back to her even when the wife offered him a divorce . This was her supreme humiliation ...now whether he is stupid , sensible , moral , immoral doesn't matter . Move on .



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Posted: 11 years ago
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If he indeed meant what he told Mukta then he would not be behaving in this stupid lovesick way not able to see her with any other guy. Mukta knows perfectly well he is not happy being married to Meethi so his every word is hollow and its ridiculous. But I agree with you in that both Aakash and Mukta should be moving on with their self-respect in tact. Mukta especially.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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And lets see. If he truly meant everything he said if he truly believes in marriages and morals then he will stick to his marriage with Meethi even after all this emotional atyachaar and he will genuinely try to make it work. He will not waver from his beliefs. This is his personal test. Rathore said it right when he explained the meaning of the 5th phere ka vachan. It was so beautiful hearing Rathore explain the 5th vachan. Vishnu TOOK the vachan with Meethi but has he nibhaoed it? Judging by last episode when he left her to die in the fire, I'd say not. This is his test. Lets see how moral he is.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Mukta knows perfectly well he is not happy being married to Meethi so his every word is hollow and its ridiculous

See , thats precisely my thought all along ...whether he is happy or unhappy in his new marraige should not matter ...he DUMPED her . Only that should . See for Meethi how it is ...Akash LIED to her . Bas . Self respect of a girl is something or no ? Meethi turned her back on him ...he LOST credibility ever since , nothing he does is good enough . His deeds were only such . Now he can become naukar , sleep with photographs or jump in fires , accepting him back will always be HER decision . Similiarly Mukta too should give HERSELF importance , not any guys . Dunno where Uttaran is heading , but if Meethi Vishnu divorce , i drop the track coz for me marraige is no game ...partner swapping under name of pyaar for me is simply disgusting and i won't watch it then .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Mukta knows perfectly well he is not happy being married to Meethi so his every word is hollow and its ridiculous


See , thats precisely my thought all along ...whether he is happy or unhappy in his new marraige should not matter ...he DUMPED her . Only that should . See for Meethi how it is ...Akash LIED to her . Bas . Self respect of a girl is something or no ? Meethi turned her back on him ...he LOST credibility ever since , nothing he does is good enough . His deeds were only such . Now he can become naukar , sleep with photographs or jump in fires , accepting him back will always be HER decision . Similiarly Mukta too should give HERSELF importance , not any guys . Dunno where Uttaran is heading , but if Meethi Vishnu divorce , i drop the track coz for me marraige is no game ...partner swapping under name of pyaar for me is simply disgusting and i won't watch it then .

kools hats off & bang on post.👏
4 me also partner swapping in the name of luv is simply not disgusting but immoral.
i know vishnu saved mkt but he cudn't see meethi there so i can give him a bit of benefit of doubt but i m not justifying him bcoz why did he think of mkt 1st. he cudn't see meethi so that can b understandable but thinking of mkt 1st is totally wrong. and he was feeling guilty also abt it as it was clear wen anni asked abt meethi,the horror & guilt on his face was visible
and hes feeling more guilty in the pre-cap while asking sorry from meethi.

i've still hopes from vishnu that hell not waver from it now.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sm123

From my pov, our Mr.Morals' ( as Mukta calls him) mindset :

I will fall in love with a girl. When her sister asks me to do a fake drama of marriage il accept because of pity and later il propose to the girl I love. Yet because of few circumstances il be forced to marry her sister. I will not make an attempt to stop the marriage or wait for the girl I love atleast to witness what im doing but il marry her sister straightaway.

When the sister (now my wife) comes to know I love her sister, she will ask me to divorce her and go back to the girl I love. But my morals and sanskars will not allow me to break the bond of marriage. And I will tell my wife that we will be in this bond only for namesake purpose and that I will never be able to love her.
I am aware of the fact that my wife loves another man and that man loves her and he would go to any bounds to get her. So I have decided that I will protect my wife from this man. When this man troubles my wife or tries to get close to her I will get frustrated and furious about the fact that my wife is being manhandled.

And at the same time, if someone else dares to get close to the girl I love I will get furious and angry and not let anyone get close to her. Because I can't bear to watch her with someone else ( words out of his mouth in the episode). I will never go back to her or accept her but she shouldn't marry someone else or think of moving on. At the same time she shouldn't disturb me, threaten me or anything to break my marriage. But she should think of me silently ( just as I do) and yet should not move on. Because I cant bear to watch her with someone else.

Conclusion :
I will watch my wife crying over the man she loves. I will watch the man who loves my wife and make sure that he doesn't get close to her. At the same time I will watch the girl I love and make sure that she doesn't get close to anyone. And I will watch all of this silently and if anyone asks me why, I have a readymade answer, "My morals, My sanskars."

Wow! What a way to torture oneself and others 😉

Vishnu you really have two choices :

1) Continue following your so called morals and make an honest attempt to understand your wife, move on and live and let others to live as well.

2) If you really think you are in love with Mukta and you can't watch her someone else, build up the courage and go back to her.

P.S : Since there are so many Meeshu and Mukash fans, I really hope our man of morals chooses option 1 😉 😆


@ bold..exactly thats what he is doing..his morals are getting on my nerves..
will be glad if mukta moves on and she herself refuses this confused soul Vishnu...

feeling bad for mukta and akash..
confused Vishnu deserves another confused meethi only..not mukta if he does not take any decision even now.



Edited by kinny_ranvir - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

have absolutely no sympathy for people who make promises which they cannot keep up and give stupid explanations to justify their acts. So if someone makes a decision that is stupid and he wants to stick to it, let him stick to it.
But what is Vishnu doing now? He wants no one to interfere in his decision of not going back to Mukta, he feels his decisions are right, then why the hell is he so bothered about her decision then? Just like how he feels no one can question his actions, why does he have to be judgemental and possessive over Mukta now? This is just a simple example to his two faced thoughts.
And Mukta is taunting him, calling him names because he deserves to be treated like that.

Almost everyone does that and Akash did that too ...in fact he LIED about religious promises so puzzled

who deserves to be treated like what is not for one to decide ...u see , he or she cannot play God . Decide ur own life instead and don't make tamasha of it .[ this is for Mukta]


Yes, Akash lied about promises. At that time, it was not like I supported every evil thing he did. Those days when he was evil mama's little boy, listening to her plans of revenge and following them blindly, I hated him. My previous posts few months ago are proof of that.
But the fact that he has taken this effort to change himself, leaving his family, working like a slave for 30 days, getting insulted, humiliated and taunted every second by Meethi, Damini, Tapasya and others and yet not losing his cool for a minute has made me sympathize with him. He risked his own neck to save Meethi. Which psychopath would do that? If all these things aren't enough reason to believe that he has reformed, then it means people just can't change their views about people. Don't you learn to forgive people in reality? From my pov, it is the present that matters. Akash has paid back for every single mistake he made. More than that, he had to courage to ACCEPT that he wronged Meethi and did a mistake and he eventually learnt to change himself and was ready to face anything for that.
Sympathizing with him does not mean I support him 100%. I was disgusted with his ways to woo Meethi back and im irritated with the fake marriage as well. I dont like it at all.
All I wish is for him and Mukta is to stop this and move on.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sm123


Yes, Akash lied about promises. At that time, it was not like I supported every evil thing he did. Those days when he was evil mama's little boy, listening to her plans of revenge and following them blindly, I hated him. My previous posts few months ago are proof of that.
But the fact that he has taken this effort to change himself, leaving his family, working like a slave for 30 days, getting insulted, humiliated and taunted every second by Meethi, Damini, Tapasya and others and yet not losing his cool for a minute has made me sympathize with him. He risked his own neck to save Meethi. Which psychopath would do that? If all these things aren't enough reason to believe that he has reformed, then it means people just can't change their views about people. Don't you learn to forgive people in reality? From my pov, it is the present that matters. Akash has paid back for every single mistake he made. More than that, he had to courage to ACCEPT that he wronged Meethi and did a mistake and he eventually learnt to change himself and was ready to face anything for that.
Sympathizing with him does not mean I support him 100%. I was disgusted with his ways to woo Meethi back and im irritated with the fake marriage as well. I dont like it at all.
All I wish is for him and Mukta is to stop this and move on.



True. Even I started liking Aakash only when he began his redemption at Meethi's house as a servant.
I would be disgusted with this fake romance IF ONLY I WASN'T SO ENRAPTURED BY MUKASH CHEMISTRY 🤣 which is the only reason I wish to see it continue😳 But Aakash is a good man.

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