Tapasya needs to get her priority right:Mod note pg5

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Whats with Tapasya...instead of finding a solution for the child to drink milk, go to the doctor get an alternative she is blaming Rathore...off course Rathore is responsible but repeating that to him over and over again is not going to mend anything...she keeps repeating and blaming ichcha what will she get out of it...she needs to get her priority straight and act on for the bebfit of the child instead of wallowin in her own sadness

When a person is guilty and has accepted he was wrong why push it with him why break up her relationship...she knows he reacts...she needs to be more patience and talk about solution instead of repeating same things over and over again...

This cvs will not get an alternative for the child to have milk...they will send them back to Ichcha...there is always an alternative...they can keep the child in hospital and monitor if he does not take feed...Rathore is a millionaire

BEST Option - If Nani really loves Tappu she will reveal the truth about Yuvraj being Veer Ichcha son and return Yuvraj to them instead of breaking up Rasya marriage...Nani needs to wake up...

Nani must confide in Tappu tell Tappu the truth and then Tappu needs to get things right and not feel bad as she is right now...If she really loves Rathore and her relationship means anything to her...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sps0114

Whats with Tapasya...instead of finding a solution for the child to drink milk, go to the doctor get an alternative she is blaming Rathore...off course Rathore is responsible but repeating that to him over and over again is not going to mend anything...she keeps repeating and blaming ichcha what will she get out of it...she needs to get her priority straight and act on for the bebfit of the child instead of wallowin in her own sadness

When a person is guilty and has accepted he was wrong why push it with him why break up her relationship...she knows he reacts...she needs to be more patience and talk about solution instead of repeating same things over and over again...

This cvs will not get an alternative for the child to have milk...they will send them back to Ichcha...there is always an alternative...they can keep the child in hospital and monitor if he does not take feed...Rathore is a millionaire

BEST Option - If Nani really loves Tappu she will reveal the truth about Yuvraj being Veer Ichcha son and return Yuvraj to them instead of breaking up Rasya marriage...Nani needs to wake up...



I agree with you. But nothing gives any right to Rathor to raise his hand on any woman esp his wife. He saw her how distressed she was as Yuvraj was crying bcoz he was hungry and asking for Ichchha. At that time she had to crib to her husband since it was his mistake that the baby was not excepting feed from her. It was but natural for Tapu to react like that.

We can very easily sound our logics she shud have done this she shud have done that but at that time when we face the same problem we also just might react in same manner.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Why tapasya gave priority to ichcha I does't understand... ichcha have nothing compare with her then why...
yeah she is really responsible for now ruining her life...
ichcha is very cheep this time why not tapasya go to the bundela house and give it to ichcha one hard slap btw to arguing and blaming to her husband...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rasyafan



I agree with you. But nothing gives any right to Rathor to raise his hand on any woman esp his wife. He saw her how distressed she was as Yuvraj was crying bcoz he was hungry and asking for Ichchha. At that time she had to crib to her husband since it was his mistake that the baby was not excepting feed from her. It was but natural for Tapu to react like that.

We can very easily sound our logics she shud have done this she shud have done that but at that time when we face the same problem we also just might react in same manner.



Agree her reaction was natural being upset the kid not taking feed but the way she put it was wrong...raising hand was wrong...both Rathore and Tappu are explosive personalities...blaming ichcha at this point is not going to help Tappu in anyway...she needs to put her emotions on the side for now...it the child is taken care of Rathore will cool down and apologize...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sps0114


Agree her reaction was natural being upset the kid not taking feed but the way she put it was wrong...raising hand was wrong...both Rathore and Tappu are explosive personalities...blaming ichcha at this point is not going to help Tappu in anyway...she needs to put her emotions on the side for now...it the child is taken care of Rathore will cool down and apologize...



Easier said then done
she hates Ichchha with all her shiddat and she was the first person she remembered when her son cried for his feed. Whatever was happening was bcoz of Ichchha according to her, Don't u think it was natural to react like that.

What did she said to Raghu just reminded his why their son cried. But this reaction from Raghu? May be his guilt again made him raise his hand on Tapu. But this was his ultimate mistake.

Remember bf Ichchha BF yuvraj tapu was feeding him with bottle alright He was happy.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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You are missing the point. Raghu did not attempt to slap Tapasya because she complained about Raghu's actions.
Raghu went to slap her because she made a very insulting indication----she said "apne baap ke tarah usse bhi Ichha chahiye". That's a horribel allegation at Raghu's character and an insulting indication that Raghu has some physical desire for Ichha. Tapasya has always tried to twist the whole BF issue to that specific point---she sees Raghu's asking Ichha to BF as a gesture of Raghu's own physical desire for Ichha. That is an insulting allegation against any husband. Imagine if Raghu had made such ugly indications about Tapasya's desire for other men. Tapasya should learn to respect her husband. No matter what he has done, there has never been any questions about Raghu's character. Then why bring such ugly blames against his character that he desires Ichcha??? No husband will tolerate that.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sufifan

You are missing the point. Raghu did not attempt to slap Tapasya because she complained about Raghu's actions.
Raghu went to slap her because she made a very insulting indication----she said "apne baap ke tarah usse bhi Ichha chahiye". That's a horribel allegation at Raghu's character and an insulting indication that Raghu has some physical desire for Ichha. Tapasya has always tried to twist the whole BF issue to that specific point---she sees Raghu's asking Ichha to BF as a gesture of Raghu's own physical desire for Ichha. That is an insulting allegation against any husband. Imagine if Raghu had made such ugly indications about Tapasya's desire for other men. Tapasya should learn to respect her husband. No matter what he has done, there has never been any questions about Raghu's character. Then why bring such ugly blames against his character that he desires Ichcha??? No husband will tolerate that.



Insulting allegation hai to thapar maar do 😡 Muh kis liye diya hai bhagwan ne did tapu raise her hand when she found what he did she cud hve done the same at the time yes she accepted her mistake said sorry she was wrong v v worng in calling the police.and raghu also felt guilty at the time but still this is not the way a husband behaves 😡 🤢
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I will never tolerate abuse woman or child 🤢

this time raghu crosed all limits of decency. 😕



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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think we may be missing the point here...yes Taps blames iccha for her son being alienated from her..and I too would be very irritated.

Rathod was listening and assimilating what Taps was saying but...Rathod got angry when Taps pushed it further and said that "Papa also wants Iccha..."

Taps is mixing up issues here...if she kept her blame to the baby- nursing, Rathod hiding this from her...etc it would be fine...Its the extra allegation of Rathod wanting Iccha...that ticks him off...

Both are at fault...but its so typical of Taps to not accept her responsibility in the whole thing...If she had not called the police, she would have been on higher moral ground... and would be able to rightly say what she did to Rathod...she ceded her higher moral ground because of her spite against Iccha...

jealousy and revenge never help... they are just so corrosive
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Posted: 13 years ago
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This time it is clearly Tapasya's fault for saying "Papa also desires Iccha". This is a terrible accusation to make, and Tapasya has no sense and has not learnt anything from the previous argument. Her asking for forgiveness is shallow and her hatred of Iccha overshadows everything. Nani is not going to reveal the truth and this misunderstanding is going to destroy Rasya's marriage and Mai's prediction is going to come right about Nani ruining Tapasy's life...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: thnkdiffrnt

I think we may be missing the point here...yes Taps blames iccha for her son being alienated from her..and I too would be very irritated.

Rathod was listening and assimilating what Taps was saying but...Rathod got angry when Taps pushed it further and said that "Papa also wants Iccha..."

Taps is mixing up issues here...if she kept her blame to the baby- nursing, Rathod hiding this from her...etc it would be fine...Its the extra allegation of Rathod wanting Iccha...that ticks him off...

Both are at fault...but its so typical of Taps to not accept her responsibility in the whole thing...If she had not called the police, she would have been on higher moral ground... and would be able to rightly say what she did to Rathod...she ceded her higher moral ground because of her spite against Iccha...

jealousy and revenge never help... they are just so corrosive



Well obviously Tapu has to be wrong ALL THE TIME no matter what 👏

But all the sins all the mistakes all the crimes done by a woman DOES NOT GIVE A MAN ANY RIGHT TO RAISE HIS HAND OR STRIKE ANY WOMAN WIFE DAUGHTER MOTHER SISTER AUNT FRIEND 😡

Why when a Man commits crimes sins mistkes do women raise their hands on their husbands no why bcoz they are women and not supposed to strike or raise their hands

BULL 🤬🤬🤬


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