Originally posted by: SRKLuvr
I have many principles which i cannot explain to you. My shaadi principles are just that shaadi is supposed to be a bandhan for seven lifetimes and shouldnt be constantly broken and redone again and again with different people unless some extremely severe reason comes around! Sindoor and Mangalsutra are sacred. I have no problems if they are not worn as long as they are respected as symbols of a suhaagan and not merely as ornaments! btu i cannot stand it when they are used! veer has used the sindoor for his own ends and today when tapu took if off I said GOOD because while she respected them if she wore them now she would not be able to move on with her life cos looking at them would bring bitter memories for her and the reminder of dhoka! also they had now turned into useless ornamnets with no meaning in them! the day veer flls her maang with his heart (which i seriously cannot even imagine in the present situation) I will say yes look they have meaning again! as for my consummation principles they have already been turned into a joke! that which is supposed to be sacred is seen as a "mistake" the next morning and barely 5 minutes later a pyar ka naatak starts!😡 Love is also sacred and must never be used! Tapu has always been the feminst I feel. She let Veer use her for a while because she loves him but she didnt take it much. Shes a true feminist and I am a feminist and I encourage feminists! Women should be independent and not have to rely on a man to live and be happy! Hence the saying "a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle!
Believe me ji if it werent for my shaadi principles, and the baby fact, as well as my love for Veeya...I would have fully encouraged my Tapu to move on with another man! And as for veer and the ich...as long as my tapu is happy they cud rot in hell for all i care! But since the baby is coming we know veeya's coming back...in many ways this will be bad as well as good but this time I wont allow tapu to take any nonsense from anyone! the thakurs and bundelas i wudve said cudve effed off from her life forever if it werent for this baby! cos neither can I forgive jogi nor veer till they ALL acknowledge their wrongdoing also! nevertheless...veeya are coming back and from tapu's dialogue this time it looks like veer will "gale laga kar"accept her. I cannot imagine such a thing in the present situation however when the time comes I will be happy! For now Im enjoying my sweet revenge!
Madam I know u hv a lot of principles, which change as Tapu Baba change, and as u dont want to tell me here, i also not interested to hear it. but kya karen ur principles r floating in this forum al over, so tht we cant ignore it. chaho ya na chaho samna to karna padta hai. 😆 😆 😆. as tortured myself by reading ur long post, so i decided lage hathon mai bhi thoda apna principles baa hi dun. if u dont hv objection 😆 😆 😆.
Shadi wala principles - as for me Shadi sd be done with mutual understanding and not by cheat and jabardasti. wht is the meaning of tht shadi where Dulha dont know with whom he is going to be married and all marriage oath were taken by thinking to other. so in my POV in Tapu case Shadi wala principles even doent exist. yaar ye shadi is janam hi valid nahin hai to saat janam ki bat kya karen. if Tapu get married by cheat, thn she is Mahan and whn Veer replied in her own language, he is devil. atleast its not as per my Shadi wala principle.
Love wala principles - for me love sd be won and not snatched. if Tapu Baba hd tried to win the love and thn get marry, and if not thn live unmarried for ever thn i wd hv worshipped to her. but she like only to snatch. so Love wala principles also fail. i can call it passion wala principle 😆 😆 😆
Faminist Principles - for me a woman (not only woman but all human being) sd maintain her dignity and not sd allow anybody to humuliate her. rit from the beginning Veer was humuliating her, but she still uska pichha hi nahin chod rahi thi. and even she did not leave him till he did not kick her out. even getting marriage by cheat was against my faminy principles. where was her faminist principles??? even after being kicked out from both the house she is using proudly and shamelessly his credit card. if she hd rejected all this and wd hv stand at her own, i cd say she is self respected person. after such humuliation i wd hv even not touch their single things. so again there is no famini principles.
and madam u want to take revenge from everybody becoz they cheated ur Tapu, but wht abt if she cheated to everybody. see ur and me principles differ tht u make and change ur principles for different people differently, but my principles is same for everybody. if ur Tapu will follow my principles, i will appreciate her too. but kya hai ki hame sapno me rahne ki adat nahin hai.
ab dekhiye, aapke sath bahas karke, hame bhi lambe post likhne ki aadat pad gayi. 😆 😆 😆
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