Everyone has their opinions.
But mine is , tejo hasn't realised fateh's feelings towards her. She clearly told angad when she went to his home for lunch that he only feels for jasmin. She has already set this in her mind that he can never love anyone apart from her sister
Why she behaving as such coz everything happened too fast. Her world of perfect marriage with a perfect husband shattered in just seconds that for her to pull herself together again will eventually take time.
It is not easy . Let's put ourselves in her place. Though it's irritating to see her like that but her weakness is justified. Divorce happened not even a month. All relations with that man whom she treated as best friend and husband died instantly.
Everything happened so spontaneously that it was unbearable and seems like she is still in shock. Moreover the person who ruined her happiness is own blood related sister , so defo pain is triple. Your own sister snatched ur husband. Worst nightmare for every woman.
She is trying . Not that she isn't. But defo not easy as the two person who cheated her are right in front of her eyes all the time. So it is necessary for her to move away.
She felt bad about them going to canada coz they will be all alone especially fateh who is the pet of his family. The favourite child who is used to people being around him
She still cares for jasfa as they are both somehow still tied to her. That's why that advise to Jasmin to take care of herself and fateh. Both had been dependent on her for everything. So she knows how they are. They are not independent and are moving far away where no one is to take care of them. Her concern here is justified.
No matter what we don't break relations in a day or two. They take time.
Fateh's side guilt is clearly shown. Whether he has realized he loves tejo , that is yet to see. Perhaps he has , perhaps he hasn't. But his confession is gonna take a really long time coz that is most awaited by viewers and they will drag as much as they can.
I mentioned this earlier and will repeat again
The day he confesses , she would have fully moved on . It will be too late
I absolutely agree with what you are saying. Emotions dont have a switch, that they can be turned off in an instant.
The heart only knows to love. Tejo loved her sister and best friend/ husband to the end of the world. She gave everything to these relations.
Now, to be hurt so deeply by the 2 most important people in her life, she will obvioulsy be weak. She will be broken. the advice that she gives Jasmine, the care that she shows for Fateh is due to that love.
She is weak because of the situation, but she is not a weak person. She just needs time to heal.