Its either of these three but its definitely not love for Fateh.
I always had this notion that if Fateh actually had some feelings for Tejo , he would realise them only when he is on the verge of losing her completely.
But yet again makers hv proved me wrong ( dont even know if I am surprised at the unpredictability of it or annoyed by it) . Fateh didnt realise he has any feelings for Tejo....instead he realised Tejo is being wronged by him and she doesnt deserve it. He just doesnt want her to be hurt bcz of him anymore than she already has.
He doesnt want to stay in this marriage bcz he is in love wid Tejo. Instead he wants to be this person who sacrificed his love for Tejo's happiness. He does all these sweet things for her .....so that she lives in the illusion of a happy marriage when all he has for her is sympathy and all he has in this marriage to offer is guilt.
Fateh is one character I am unable to understand at all.