It to some extent is toxic but this is where the plot lies. we as viewers look at them as the definite word used in dictionares is hero aur heroine. So the image created is of them being balanced in all senses. Good looking ,righteous and a kind soul but in reality it's not how things work people at times are confused, toxic, idiotic, lowly in regards of conducting owns self respect. But through this is what or where a better more matured version of fateh will rise from the ashes of his self inflicted mess. It takes a massive hit to realize where we are going wrong. As off now nothing like that has happened. With Jasmine it never was love, what it was to be precise was an obsessive desire to own or make somebody urs. So when he lost and realized it didn't happen it hurt his ego and his pride not his heart and that is a lesson he is yet to learn. But with Tejo it's different all together their bond is too precious to him .he acknowledges it even at his weakest most faltering stage. It is where not only two physical beings but emotions at a more conducive level are involved.
To be true he knows that Tejo is a woman who has way more character, value to her being than just a pretty face. She is who people lean or can depend on, she is the giver and caretaker here. He losing her is worse than Tejo losing him. She has the ability no matter how blind she is at the moment to her family and sisters emotional blackmail and abuse to get herself together after a massive heart break. She's done it before, she has the caliber and ability to do it again. It may be painful but entirely possible to get up wipe the dust off and say u deserve better. She may and this is going to surely happen . she will close done to any projection of emotions. Become cold hearted and outright stern with fateh when he tries to voo her. No matter how short the duration is she will in literally sense through her actions and self conduct kick his a**.
There is always someone or somebody better looking, caring, more fortunate out there but it's ur own commitment and wish to stay in that relationship because of ur love and desire.This is second important out may lessons to be learnt when he loses Tejo first being how losing jasmine hurt his ego and pride not his heart . With Jasmine he wanted to be at his best because he wanted to make her his own and lay claim. It was not out off the desire to cherish but to make sure she doesn't leave.while Tejo on the contrast is where he will learn the need and importance to be the best version of himself for none but his individual self so that he is at a stage mentally and emotionally to be able to cherish and respect that love and bond. Tejo will and has already imprinted him unknowingly. No matter how far they are from one another they can never be apart. When u realize the value of love as an emotion u not matter what can never hate that person completely , ur love will always overcome ur hatred and emerge as the winner in the end. This is what he will learn when he loses Tejo unlike when he lost Jasmin as it had nothing but obsession in the name of a relationship.
The moral of my post is that only after he loses her will he understand that pyar adaat ya zaroorat nahi hota, pyaar ek chaahat hoti hain. Cauz habits and needs change as per will and time but desire or chaahat as I said is where the true bond of the heart lies.
Sorry it was long but I just expressed what I felt.
Edited by Shraddha6789 - 4 years ago