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Posted: 4 years ago
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Jasmin always wanted to marry someone who lives in Canada.

Fateh knew it and because he likes her he tried and failed.

Out of frustration Jas left Fateh......for the same reason Fateh too married Tejo.


Now in this situation ...........should Tejo marry a confused choti bahen ki mangetar?

What the hell is she doing in between the two?

If she refused Fateh.........they would cry for sometimes and get reunited later on. Masterni should make the two understand.

She should not come in between the two.

Today or tomorrow they would realize..

I am not finding her so innocent here.

Was she in love with Fateh?

Yes............I am thinking like Jas. 😈🤪

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Ah... a hidden JasFa stan?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I don't think it's fair to blame her for what happened, considering the amount of pressure she was under. From the very beginning of the show, we've seen how much Tejo cares about her family, even putting their happiness above her own. She even sacrificed her dreams of pursuing a PhD to marry Jas just so her family could go to Canada.

Given what we know about her character, it makes sense that she would feel compelled to marry Fateh, especially after her family black-mailed her into it. She doesn't want them to go through any hardships, especially ones that she can prevent, which is something they've always sadly taken advantage of. And, in that regard, her and Fateh are similar, because he married her for his family too.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I see your point but there are a few things we must look at:


1) Her families emotional blackmail about khaandaan ki izzat. Now Tejo is a very family oriented person. She is also very emotional so she got blackmailed.


2) Her father's so called heart attack. I think even though she stood up to her families absurd request her fathers little attack in the episode seemed like the deal maker


3) Now, even after everything she decided to convince Jasmine, who then herself told tejo to marry Fateh. The amount of pressure on the both of them at that time would be immense.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovereading14

I see your point but there are a few things we must look at:


1) Her families emotional blackmail about khaandaan ki izzat. Now Tejo is a very family oriented person. She is also very emotional so she got blackmailed.


2) Her father's so called heart attack. I think even though she stood up to her families absurd request her fathers little attack in the episode seemed like the deal maker


3) Now, even after everything she decided to convince Jasmine, who then herself told tejo to marry Fateh. The amount of pressure on the both of them at that time would be immense.

She should divorce him now and do her PhD /marry someone else. Papa is alright. Jas back. Fateh seems alright. His family angry for no reason. Why she will suffer. Let Jas have all these bashing and insult.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7

She should divorce him now and do her PhD /marry someone else. Papa is alright. Jas back. Fateh seems alright. His family angry for no reason. Why she will suffer. Let Jas have all these bashing and insult.

She's still a family oriented person. She's not jasso for whom everything revolves around her. If she's like her, then she'd have done the same. She's even adjusting to virk family's needs because she doesn't want to create any trouble.

What you're asking for is impossible, in current circumstances. It's like asking Jasmine to have a brain or soul.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bluekohl

She's still a family oriented person. She's not jasso for whom everything revolves around her. If she's like her, then she'd have done the same. She's even adjusting to virk family's needs because she doesn't want to create any trouble.

Marriage is not only about preparing paratha and obeying orders of sasural. It is about the relationship in between husband and wife which should be build on "Love". Does she love Fateh? If yes...........I would say they should stay together. Does Fateh loves her? No. He is acting like a broken anda right now..........that just irritating me. 😡

Do they love each other ? No? So Tejo good or bad that is not even a question here. any bai/maid can prepare paratha, any faithful servent will obey. Wife is not servent . She is a member of the family where hubby must love her. Or else what is marriage for?

What you're asking for is impossible, in current circumstances. It's like asking Jasmine to have a brain or soul.

Divorce is not impossible.......it is possible. In the other serial of Colors from Simar to Barrister Babu it is happening. I don't think this serial is before Barrister babu's era when divorce was illegal.

In Simar2 same situation happened. They are progressing for divorce. although both Simar and arav loves each other and this is why they should not be separated. Does the same thing "Love" present in between Tejo and Fateh? No. Then what is this marriage for?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7

Divorce is not impossible.......it is possible. In the other serial of Colors from Simar to Barrister Babu it is happening. I don't think this serial is before Barrister babu's era when divorce was illegal.

In Simar2 same situation happened. They are progressing for divorce. although both Simar and arav loves each other and this is why they should not be separated. Does the same thing "Love" present in between Tejo and Fateh? No. Then what is this marriage for?

Lol your entire argument is about how if love isn't present, you shouldn't be married. So why should JasFa marry? She doesn't love him. There's no partnership there. For her it's an exchange. If you get Canada visa for me, then I'll marry you. She's literally like those men who ask for an expensive car or 10-15 lakhs just before pheres happen. There ain't no love there.

Fatejo didn't love each other when they got married. So they're not going to get divorced just because they're not in love. You don't get divorce in an arranged marriage just because you're not in love. Idk about rest of the shows because I don't watch any of them, I'm talking about what happens realistically.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bluekohl

So why should JasFa marry? She doesn't love him. There's no partnership there. For her it's an exchange. If you get Canada visa for me, then I'll marry you. She's literally like those men who ask for an expensive car or 10-15 lakhs just before pheres happen. There ain't no love there.


I completely agree.

1.They should not get married.

2. Fateh should not call his obsession love.

3. He should not agee to Jas's demand.


But more than FaJas's marriage........FaJo's marriage is wrong.

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

I'm talking about what happens realistically.

In reality if hubby doesn't love wife or wife doesn't love hubby no marriage works.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7


I completely agree.

1.They should not get married.

2. Fateh should not call his obsession love.

3. He should not agee to Jas's demand.


But more than FaJas's marriage........FaJo's marriage is wrong.

In reality if hubby doesn't love wife or wife doesn't love hubby no marriage works.

Except literally most weddings in India are arranged. There isn't any love, it grows. So, in reality it works.

As for the comparison between Jasfa and fatejo, you gave half of the answer why Jasfa aren't a thing. Forget about love there isn't even basic respect between them. Fateh doesn't love her, he's obsessed with her. Jasmine, she doesn't love anyone but herself.

As for fatejo, it's a matter of circumstances, there marriage was arranged but they've a benefit which most couples lack. They're best friends. They do know each other very well. Add in the factor that both have been betrayed by their supposed life partner, they've a mutual understanding. That's why they're working. That's why they're falling for each other.

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